ok, i have a boyfriend. we have been gong out for 2 weeks last thursday. i am a junior (16) and he is a sophomore (15). i really really like him, the thing is, i am his first girlfriend and he is really stuck with his morals. plus he is like, completely clueless since im his first gf... idk... i hate to admit that i want more out of it, but i do. the thing is... he has 2 single friends, who i hate to say are really cute, they are completely awesome.... and i hate to say it, but i kinda like them. they are also more experianced and would give me more then my bf now... but idk... i like my bf alot, just dont know though.... what should i do?
2007-02-11 17:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by LilDaniGirl8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you want to do more with him. If he won't, tell him you'll find someone who will. If he still won't, dump him and go with one of those other guys. Whatever you choose, DO NOT stick with him but go behind his back with his friends. That WILL end in tears.
2007-02-11 17:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend must like you a lot...even if you're his 1st girlfriend, he's still a boy...most of them would be trying to do what I think you're talking about. Morals before marriage means morals after marriage. Those guys who will be the first to jump into bed with you, when you end up pregnant, will be the ones saying that d-----baby is not mine, she was sleeping around with everyone! If pregnance isn't an issue here, there is also the possibility of getting AIDS or any other STD. Those don't just go away.
You need to do some really heavy duty thinking before you start having sex with anybody. Enjoy just dating and friendships until your a bit older. Do you know the Lord?
2007-02-12 01:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like your boyfriend and yet you are showing an interest in his friends. Sounds like you don't really like your boyfriend that much otherwise you wouldn't be checking out the other guys. Go ahead and check out the grass on the other side of the fence but you'll find that it isn't any better. Perhaps you should appreciate what you've got. Be careful.
2007-02-12 01:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him then fix things, tell him that you aren't as happy as you could be and how it can be fixed. IF he really likes you he'll try to make things better if things don't work out then move on because not every relationship was meant to last
2007-02-12 01:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....seeing as how you are his first g/f, he's GONNA stick to his morals....Most guys and girls do with their first relationship.
But with the whole his friends thing, don't go after them that would be ****** up.
And you've only been together for 2 weeks. give it time kid.
2007-02-12 01:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your boyfriend so much, you wouldn't say that about liking the other two "experienced" guys. If you want to stay with your boyfriend, why don't you help him. Teach him how to make you feel happy, I don't know. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 01:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be keeping your clothes on and stop thinking like a slut. Really! You have time for sleeze balls who only want what is between your legs, nothing more. Keep a good guy if you have one.
2007-02-12 01:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your bf that your relationship isn't working out. but don't immediately start going of with one of his friends. wait until your 100% sure that he's all the way over you before you date his friend.
2007-02-12 01:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your eyes off of your bfs friends! thats a big no no! what exactly are you looking for in a relationship at your age?
2007-02-12 01:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by lovemybucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have foursome. You seem to be liking it.
2007-02-12 01:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋