Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

My husband and I are separated, he's in Japan (Air Force) , I'm in the states, we're divorcing and we've been separated for the past 2 years, yet I went to do my taxes yesterday and found out that he has put me as a dependent, yet I get nothing from him nor does he support me. I work and I don't depend on him, so is it legal for him to do that without my consent? Only serious answers please..I'm curious to know.. Thanks..

2007-02-09 13:49:19 · 10 answers · asked by ƒ®îgg Üþ ©hî¢ ®™ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Going to a wedding for an Aunt. It's her second marriage. His too. They are in their 50's, established. They aren't having a shower, and probably don't NEED anything. Money would obviously not be right. But we went to give a gift of some sort to let them know we care and to welcome her new husband. Ideas?

2007-02-09 13:49:11 · 11 answers · asked by crazymom 4 in Weddings

What caused you to lose them? and was it worth losing them for that cause?

2007-02-09 13:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by LON 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I planned a trip a month ago for my husband and I. He seemed fine with it at the time. The trip is next week and we had a big fight about it tonight. We have cats and need a pet watcher. He asked a girl that he knows that I think is always flirting with him. They have been friends for a while but her and her husband don't get along. She is always flirting (or to me it seems). I asked him why he would asked her to watch our cats and come into our home when we are away when he knows I feel uncomfortable with her actions around him. He got mad, really mad, when I told him I would find someone else. He also threw in that he didn't want to go on the trip in the first place,..I just drug him into it. We haven't been on an overnight trip together in 8 years.. I planned one of the nights during Valentines....it's ruined now. He also ended the conversation before I was done and said he was done with it. He never wants to do anything. I'm 36 and I feel like my life is dead.

2007-02-09 13:48:25 · 21 answers · asked by sugarbud 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 13:48:11 · 11 answers · asked by pharoah_the_midget 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it fair on his part to ask me not to cook any non veg at home even though he knows I love a nice home cooked non veg meal....and its not that I cook non veg everyday.I hardly make it once a month.

2007-02-09 13:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by Alice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I bet this will be a good discusion.

2007-02-09 13:46:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am 15 and i've had sex b4 with 2 ppl and i kinda want to take it slow with him but he gets turned on even when we kiss....and he tried to turn me on and i didn't feel comfortable and i told him i didn't and he said it was ok...but now he changed a little like he don't wanna go on dates 1 on 1 now...he wants his cousin to go and for some odd reason i think he might cheat.....he says he'd never do that to me and i believe him but in a way i feel bad that i didn't at least give him a little more....(not sex) but summin at least...should i feel bad....HELP im so confussed!!!

2007-02-09 13:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by dont cry cause its over! 1 in Singles & Dating

Im kinda in 4th grade in i have this huge crush in my class.... i heard rumors he also likes me. When we were playing kickball in P.E, he started asking me who I like in our class, but i said i dunno... I decided to tell my friends but i dunno if i have the guts to do it... HELP ME!!!! please & thank you! :D

2007-02-09 13:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

A boy from my school, who I met on myspace said he wanted to
talk to me.But we always past each other on the way to class.
We never have time to chat cause were always in a rush to class
or were always talking to our friends.
We been talking on myspace for 2 months, almost everyday now.
You think he likes me(intrested)?

2007-02-09 13:46:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 13:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by tim c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking about calling one of my friends and ask her to dinner on valentines day. I don't want to date her, and I know she doesn't want to date me we are just good friends. Would it be awkward if I was to ask her this, or do you think she would just find it as a friendly gesture?

2007-02-09 13:46:08 · 2 answers · asked by heavy_cow 6 in Singles & Dating

Would like to coat some in nuts, cocoa, any other suggestions? I would be willing to buy but want cheap and good so home made is probably best. Please be specific with your recipe and let me know how long they will last - how long before the wedding should I start. I have a huge team of helpers so fret not...
Help Help Help...Send me in the right direction please.

2007-02-09 13:45:45 · 11 answers · asked by jean 2 in Weddings

2007-02-09 13:45:11 · 9 answers · asked by natalie 1 in Family

Does it mean he's interested in you, thinks you're sweet, nice, cute, being polite etc.?

2007-02-09 13:45:00 · 17 answers · asked by Angelina 4 in Singles & Dating

it was durning the day, he was not drunk, and I saw him touching the dog in not ok spots..(he is not a vet) he then started kissing the dog in the mouth and other areas... it was so gross.. but do I tell her... we all hear the stories with guys and farm animals.. but I never thought I would see it!

2007-02-09 13:43:53 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The problem is, is that she has a boyfriend. She told me afterwards about it. I feel like a creep for having sex with someone else's ex. She was crying and hysterical. Telling me she couldn't believe that we had just done that. We also were drinking together. What should we do? Should we act as though it didn't happen? Or tell her boyfriend?

2007-02-09 13:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a "normal" thirty something educated person. I cannot seem to make time for a friend, but at the same time, I really need one. I have been a mom since 18, and again started again at 28 so I really haven't been anything other than a mom. I married my current husband at 22 and am happy. He is supportive and I am not lacking in that area. I have 3 kids and my oldest (19 years old had a child) so I now have a grandbaby in the house. Sometimes, I really miss having a girlfriend. But, it seems putting yourself "out there" is kind of like dating. I miss having a girlfriend but also feel I am missing something.j
How does a thirty something part time working person find a friend? Work doesn't seem to be an option. I haven't really clicked with anyone.
Help.

2007-02-09 13:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by lovin life 3 in Friends

Long story short... I'm in the middle of a divorce and fell in love with another woman. Got her pregnant and was scared so had an abortion. Felt guilty and cursed so got pregnant again and now we're having the baby. Still technically married. I love the new girl so much, never felt this way before... BUT... Now I'm questioning my feelings towards her and feel like she is not putting back into our relationship. It seems like once she "landed" me, she stopped caring about our relationship. She is just rude to me and acts like I'm not needed in her life. I'm really scared and lonely and don't know what to do. Should I cut my losses and get out and find someone else as a single parent or should I suck it up in a bad relationship and stick it out. I have one failed marriage under my belt and don't really want another.

2007-02-09 13:43:27 · 8 answers · asked by wangchung 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend told me she had a crush on her social studies teacer.It scares me because she told me she wanted to have sex with him!!!!! On X-MAS she sent a love lettter! What can she do or what can i do to stop her?

2007-02-09 13:43:22 · 5 answers · asked by JENNY K 1 in Friends

2007-02-09 13:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by louisesurber@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know of any healthy marriage that would last 5 minutes if sex wasn't an important and major part of the relationship.

Yet, whenever someone asks about waiting for sex there's tons of advice that marriage is more than sex. That may be true, but sex is a major part of being married, don't you think.

My point? Telling these people that waiting is ok and sex isn't everything is just unrealistic, bordering on ridiculous.

2007-02-09 13:42:22 · 11 answers · asked by Just Chillin' 2 in Singles & Dating

A way that she will be shocked..........or she will be impress........maybe something that has to do with valentines day

2007-02-09 13:40:20 · 6 answers · asked by dreiko 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i told this boy i have a crush on him.and he told me he would go out with me if he got to know me more..so i have tried to talk to him and hang out with him more..and i was talking to him one night..and he was flirting with me..so my firned says..b.c he asked if he could hold me in his arms and keep me warm from outside weather..now i dont know if he likes me or just leading me on.what should i do to find out the truth?

2007-02-09 13:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by chump 1 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a very awesome man. Ans we are soon to be married. Well we are also considering adopting from veitnam. Since we are not married yet I am going to adopt as a single parent. Will this inhibit or harm me in any way during a homestudy or the adoption process.

2007-02-09 13:39:57 · 3 answers · asked by spider_ffmedic462 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-09 13:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by tHE gIRL nEXT dOOR 1 in Friends

This is ridiculous i know. i can't believe i'm asking it on here.
but ok whatever...well there is this guy and I liked him for a long time and he is one of my best friends but then my friend (who is pretty and perfect and all the guys like her) decided that she liked him, and asked him out. They've been going out for a couple of months and i can't stop liking him.
And the weird part is that he talks to me more than he talks to her. he calls me every day/night and ims me all the time, and sometimes he tells me that she's kinda boring. I really don't know what to do because she is also one of my friends.
Should i tell him or should i just keep my month shut and see what happens?

2007-02-09 13:38:56 · 3 answers · asked by Sada_Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 13:38:42 · 13 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

my bro went into the army in may and is stationed in alaska for the next four years and he never calls his family. i feel like he doesn't want to talk to us. i've told him how i feel and e never listens. how can i get him to talk and tell me how he's doing. i feel like the army is his new family and he doesn't care about us any more? what can i say to him to get him to understand we still love him and miss him--and that there is a life outside the army!?

2007-02-09 13:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by louieblueraspberry 2 in Family

a family and 20 years of marriage, but all respect is lost

2007-02-09 13:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by crazy4u0223 1 in Marriage & Divorce