2007-02-09 13:38:42 · 13 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see relationships as being a bit like the process of walking up a down escalator. If you don't strive for more (I.E. if you stand still) life in general will take you down. Things will deteriorate.
This shouldn't be taken to mean that you should look elsewhere for a better relationship but find ways to make the relationship you are in now even better.
There are always ways to improve. (Until we get to heaven).
2007-02-09 13:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being comfortable in a relationship is an important step, but you should always strive to keep the romance alive. Take the extra step to spice things up occasionally. It will give your relationship an edge and keep both parties interested.
2007-02-09 13:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might want to consider reevaluating what you expect out of a relationship. A lot of us have what I called the "needs" and "wants" Sometimes we might want to have a partner that is good-looking, has a nice car, and a great job but this is part of the "wants", the "needs" is more like do you need someone that uses drugs? do you need someone that does not work? Do you need someone that has to have a car? Once you evaluate what you want and need, then you must go for partners that only offer what you expect. The other thing is that you sabotage the relationship once it gets started by thinking that you are not good enough, you are already setting up for failure. You must think positively about your relationship and have a vision on where you want to see both of you in the future so that that future becomes solidified. Good luck.
2016-05-24 19:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree, being comfortable with the one you love is what you should strive for. You should also strive for passion abd understanding, but I think these things can be combined. You need to be comfortable with someone to be able to fully let go to love them, and trust that they'll love you.
2007-02-09 13:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by ophierose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes there should be lots more than just the word comfortable.anyone can feel comfortable ina relationship but there needs to be more such as really loving,caring for that person.also comunication between u both.sharing the same things,having things in common and so on.lets not forget the passion which is important ina relationship,romance is also valuable between two people.
2007-02-17 04:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel like being with someone is more than just about comfort. i know people that have gotten married for comfort and then ended up miserable. this is life, we should want more, especially if we're not sure what happens to our souls after we die. this could be our one and only chance to experience! i think that comfort is a key ingredient in happiness, but not the only ingredient necessary.
2007-02-17 09:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what satisfies you, the grass always looks greener on the other side. I chose comfort and I am glad more has come than I thought would. It started with comfort)(which means alot to me) and has grown into happiness, excitement, fun.
2007-02-09 13:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by beatch38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One should always strive for more in life.
2007-02-17 11:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a strong relationship requires two people, if one person settles then the relationship might not be as good as it could be but don't force things just be natural
2007-02-09 13:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by Leannedrufy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
feeling comfortable isnt a relationship it's a friendship move on
2007-02-09 13:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by brian_bridgman_1974 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋