The problem is, is that she has a boyfriend. She told me afterwards about it. I feel like a creep for having sex with someone else's ex. She was crying and hysterical. Telling me she couldn't believe that we had just done that. We also were drinking together. What should we do? Should we act as though it didn't happen? Or tell her boyfriend?
2007-02-09 13:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait 24 hours before you do anything. Get sober before making any decisions. Is there some benefit to confessing to the other person?
2007-02-09 13:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly don't blame yourself she should have told you about the new boyfriend. I had the same problem hooking up with my ex. Although we didn't have new partners i think it was just the comfort of each other and the alcohol that got to us. At times i missed him but when he started coming to my place drunk and just for sex i got over that pretty soon. i am now single and pregnant but happy. As for whether you should tell him that should be up to her. Unless he is a friend. If he is your friend then i would tell him. But don't feel like a creep as she should have told you.
2007-02-09 13:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by gundychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she ur ex or some one else's?? Anyway..depends on the reason the two of u broke up. Maybe the two of u have some unresolved issues. And everyone always wants to use the "we were drinking" excuse, that was just a cover-up and to make what was already gonna happen a little easier.
2007-02-09 13:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem here. She's not married. You're not married. Telling the boyfriend is her business, her choice. If you're lucky, she'll come over again and give you some more ex sex. Hell, if I weren't married, I'd love it if all my ex's lined up and had another go at me.
2007-02-09 13:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is up to her to tell the boyfriend or not. Stay away from her and dont hook up with her anymore unless she breaks up with him.
2007-02-09 13:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you had sex with a girl, that had a bf, and you didnt even know she has a bf?? So wait...did she lie to you before? and confessed to you? Or you just didn't ask her. I think that you should just break it off with that stupid girl, and leave the 'confessing to her bf' thing, to her.
good luck.
2007-02-09 13:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. They always seem to have the best solution when it comes those kind of situations...
2007-02-09 13:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by mrbreaks77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋