i am 15 and i've had sex b4 with 2 ppl and i kinda want to take it slow with him but he gets turned on even when we kiss....and he tried to turn me on and i didn't feel comfortable and i told him i didn't and he said it was ok...but now he changed a little like he don't wanna go on dates 1 on 1 now...he wants his cousin to go and for some odd reason i think he might cheat.....he says he'd never do that to me and i believe him but in a way i feel bad that i didn't at least give him a little more....(not sex) but summin at least...should i feel bad....HELP im so confussed!!!
2007-02-09 13:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by dont cry cause its over! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldnt feel bad, it looks like ur a little young for going further with him, i mean if u arent comfortable in what u are doing then tell him that u arent, and for some reason u probably feel pressured(even if he is doing it unintentionally) u feel like u want to make it up to him, and u dont want to lose him to another girl. but if he ever pressures u into doing somthing u dont want to do , leave him! he doesnt deserve ur love and appreciation. take care of ur self and good luck!
2007-02-09 13:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me how hard it was growing up!
Until your older, all sex seems to do is mess relationships up. It starts all kinds of emotions (like you not trusting him). You don't know if you gave him enough. If you did have sex, you would be worried about a whole lot of other questions. Either way, is the brief pleasure worth the emotional roller coaster? Wait until your older, or be prepared for a load of needless heartache.
2007-02-09 13:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not going to be the reason he breaks up with you, if he DOES break up with you. If he breaks up with you because you won't have sex with him, then he's going to break up with you even if you DO have sex with him. (Notice that the ones you've had sex with already aren't still with you.) If he breaks up with you for not having sex with him, then you're lucky you got out before it was too late, because he doesn't care about you. Don't EVER feel that sex is going to make or break a relationship.
2007-02-09 13:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not feel bad at all...that is your personal decision and if you don't want to do something then don't do it...also u obviously son't believe him about cheating because u said u think he may cheat...don't feel bad for ur choices esp. when it comes to decisions such as that
2007-02-09 13:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pour another big red and try to get some sleep.
2007-02-09 13:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by pharoah_the_midget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it
2007-02-09 13:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by K S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋