I love my girlfriend so much, and we are planning to get married. She had treatment (surgery+radiotherapy) for brain tumour 6 years ago. since then her scans are clean. she is perfet now, but i knew recently that this could come back at anytime, may be soon, and could be more agressive. I am in a dilemma, save her or a potential family later. I just dare to say this jut now, but i love her. on the side something in my inside says, that i could support her with being married. but i am just worried that such a move would be devastating for her...and if not it could be for me! i am so confused. Do i choose her or my my future family? not mentioning the the mental pressure due to uncertainty, and the possible problems to children in future. I don't dare to talk freely with her, because she is confident that its coming is not possible. when i talk with her, i feel as if i wanna proof that i am right, this means her harm!!?
2007-02-07
09:58:28
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Marriage & Divorce