Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

okay, i had a dream about going to a salon and in the salon they sold stuff like a gas station would. And so this really hot guy named 'paul' asked me if i wanted him to cut my hair so i let him and we drank energy drinks and had a really good time while he cut my hair. then i came the next day to find 'paul' and ask him over or somthing and another guy named 'ben' came in and we both tryed to grab a drink at the same time and ended up bumping hands, and we started talking. We also had a good time. and then i went to my friends house and i told them about this dream, they said that i should go back and talk to them and then when i went back i saw ben and paul standing their waiting for me. and i woke up. IS THIS A SIGN? am i supposed to meet someone named ben or paul? is their anyone on there that has a name of ben or paul and is like 17-20? or is this just like a stupid dream?

2007-02-07 09:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by kapowww 1 in Singles & Dating

just one more question......? How do you make yourself stop this and get up those stairs?

2007-02-07 09:47:01 · 16 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl online a year ago and we were talking but then we stopped. I live in GA and she lives in VT. The other day I decided to IM her and see how she was doing and we immediatly couldn't stand to not talk to each other for ten mins we were calling and texting and IMing each other every minuite. Two days later she won't pick up my calls or and she immediatly puts on an away message on AIM whenever I ask her if I can call her. I painted her a beautiful painting for her birthday that I was going to send to her. Yesterday she told me that I couldn't text her anymore because she went over and now shes telling me that she dropped her phone in the toilet and it's not working even though her away message was telling some of her friends to call her. The other night she told me that she missed me after not talking to me for five mins. She always starts the AIM conversations. What's going on???

2007-02-07 09:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by Tad 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my wife have been wantin to renew our vows and i was wonderin what we have to do in order to do that.

2007-02-07 09:45:48 · 3 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Weddings

so lately my boyfriend has been going through a lot of stress. he was just kicked out of his house, and he doesn't have anywhere to live, so he's just been crashing at his friend's houses for the time being.he has to go to work so that he can pay to continue school, and he also has to deal with fixing both of his cars and moving out.

it's a lot of money.....and a lot of time. and i KNOW that he's busy. but i can't help feeling that our relationship doesn't work until he FEELS like making it work. meaning that i feel like i'm not being acknowledged as the girlfriend in his life until he has time for it. i hate feeling like i'm a part-time girlfriend or a half-assed effort.

i've talked to him about this already, but all he does is guilt trip me because he has "a lot to worry about, much more than you do at the moment. that's why you don't really understand.and then he told me that he just needs his space. so im trying to but once again, that's just me blindly agreeing.

help?

2007-02-07 09:44:42 · 2 answers · asked by Sydney A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

whats if you already have a boy but u have fallen for 4 other guys! im boy lives in monatna my boy! im around one of the guys but the others live other places! so i really dont know what to do! please help? thanks

2007-02-07 09:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by basketbllgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

how can you tell the difference ?
how willl she act towards you ? stuff like that

please and thanks

2007-02-07 09:44:09 · 4 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 09:43:47 · 14 answers · asked by speaks Truth 1 in Singles & Dating

O.k. This boy says that he doesn't like me, but whenever he's around me, he hugs me and today he gave me a great big hug and then( I know this sounds bad, but we play like this sometimes) He bumps his knee on my butt! Not hard, but hard enough to make me jump and scream( not in pain, in "silliness"). I swear, He acts like he's flirting with me. I don't know what to do. Does he like me or not??? Thanks for the answers.

2007-02-07 09:43:10 · 13 answers · asked by Sha-Sha 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex is posting mean things on his myspace page to hurt me. What should I do?

2007-02-07 09:42:55 · 8 answers · asked by amandamc32183 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked if you should forgive a husband that tells you to sign over my half of the house or he was divorcing me, he said he was not in love with me, and so forth...
Everyone was right. He has another woman. I followed through with the advice and we are getting a divorce. Thanks for the help!

2007-02-07 09:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok wel i gues i am flirting with this guy,his name is sam,so i always lik 2 talk 2 him in algerbra,so i always ask him stuff lik so have u ever counted all those freckles on ure face? and he'll giggle and laugh with me,but i really cant tell if he likes me? his friend and him whsiper and then they'll look at me,and sam will go bak 2 whispering while looking at me at the same time..so? idk does he like me,or not,i mean i kinda like him,but im not for shure,i SO do not wanna make the move 2 asking him out,so,he likes to ask me alot of stuff lik,wat r u doing this friday,but he asks tht cuz he kno's im doing stuff w/ friends? and then ill ask him,so wat do u guys think? does he like me?

2007-02-07 09:42:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres a girl i like and a dance on friday i wana ask her but som1 told me she wasnt going but i think she ite if som1 asks her shes always with her friends so its hard 2 get her alone exept at the end of the day im in middle school so i need some lines or tips or something plz help i really like her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-07 09:41:49 · 11 answers · asked by ... 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs, we have known each other since we were in 6th grade. We're 23 and living together. Since moving in 2gether about 4 months ago I have discovered some disturbing things about him and I am torn.

When we get into an argument and he's upset he calls me bitches & ignores me, threatens to put me out (he did last week but he said he was sorry so I moved back in) and he is just an evil person overall. He takes things to a whole other level and makes things worse. 4 a recent example: This morning we were play fighting while I was trying to get ready for work. He pushed me so hard I almost fell into the shower. I got mad. He got mad CUZ I WAS MAD! I heard him call me a ***** (again) under his breath and and when I asked him what he said he said "I didnt say sh** to you."

What should I do? I mean, this is the person I want to marry but I dont want 2 worry about dealing with Hyde when Jekyll is out of town. I cant do that for the rest of my life.

MC

2007-02-07 09:41:27 · 3 answers · asked by modelchick830 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

yeah that totally explainss itself.. i mean i am not just going to have a boyfriend like for a week. and i dont want long term. but i mean i am not just going to go out with someone i dont like.. you know what i am sayinnnnn.

2007-02-07 09:41:12 · 10 answers · asked by Yasmeen. 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf has met my daughters' 18 and 15. My oldest thinks she is a great person, nice character, my 15 yr old doesn't have much to say. Do you think my gf is somehow insecure about invading thier space? Should I worry about this, do not get me wrong, my girls come first. Would children be a factor for some women?

2007-02-07 09:41:05 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 09:40:08 · 28 answers · asked by maureen s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 09:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by pumpkinhoax 2 in Singles & Dating

thanks =]

2007-02-07 09:39:38 · 12 answers · asked by xidontwanttotalkaboutitx 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy you never really noticed before came up to you and started teasing you and sort of insulting you not very nice and gets you reall mad, but then later on he gets sweet and talks to you for no good reason like random stuff you know? Then you like him but sometimes he insults you rarely and seems to be a sweet caring guy around you but sort of a bully around others. What would it mean in your opinion?

2007-02-07 09:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mostly men don't hav pictures but i want 2 know why!!

2007-02-07 09:39:12 · 4 answers · asked by Chelsey P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 09:39:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 09:38:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that my hubby love me so much but why he is still talking about how good his ex-gf in bed. I'll admit I'm not that good in sex cuz probably I don't have much experience. I already told him that I'm so jealous if he will talk about that woman but why he still talking about it. Do you think that he still love that woman??? I'm so hurt but sometimes i just don't wanna say any word to him about it cuz i don't want an argument. =(

I need some advice to make me feel better! =(

2007-02-07 09:38:50 · 22 answers · asked by Precious Gracious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She likes this dude who lives in pennsylvania, far away from washington, which is where we live. and she's been told that they wouldn't work out, but she still has hope, what should she beleive?

2007-02-07 09:38:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm trying to be rational about this. i didn't get involved with this person because i knew he didn't love me enough. however now that he stopped paying attention and it's all over i miss him.

thanx

ps) i'm a firm believer that if a man loves a woman he'll do anyhing to win her over.

2007-02-07 09:38:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have any good advice for re-establishing child support? I do like what I've read on here, I need to care about noone else but myself. And as far as why he cheated on me, I could care less that he did. Everyones situation is different and I was the one with the last smile on my face we I got the man who adored me the way we were suppose to with each other.

2007-02-07 09:36:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who here lives in Berryville Arkansas? I live in Berryville, and everyone in my school says that I am a stupid blonde. And I know that I have already asked a question like this, but you peeps are so cool, and that you guys would answer my question truthfully love ya guys

2007-02-07 09:36:31 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my mother made a will and she would like to change it?
but she doesnt remember where she made the will.

2007-02-07 09:35:53 · 7 answers · asked by cammie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 and a 1/2 months.
we arent that close. And he likes someone else more than me, but still likes me (and no he is not thinking about dumping me.)We kiss like everyday and hug all the time. I know things sound great but what do you think will happen next? how long do you think that we will last. (i know i really worried u c i used to cut and be anorexic and almost died so i am really worried) could someone please tell me everything so i know what is coming. oh yea im 13 years old and my boyfriend is kinda flirrty........with other girls.......very flirtty. help

2007-02-07 09:35:25 · 14 answers · asked by urluvmakesmeweak 2 in Singles & Dating