I asked if you should forgive a husband that tells you to sign over my half of the house or he was divorcing me, he said he was not in love with me, and so forth...
Everyone was right. He has another woman. I followed through with the advice and we are getting a divorce. Thanks for the help!
2007-02-07 09:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-02-08 04:59:09 · update #1
Forgive but dont forget. Because if you dont forgive him, you will hold this grudge in your heart about him, while he is out living his life he doesnt care how he hurt you and he wont. So dont you walk around holding that grudge, because it will make you live a miserable life, while he is living a hapy life.
2007-02-07 09:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. I am going through a very similar situation. My husband wanted to be put on my house, and I said no (for many legitimate reasons). We file our taxes jointly, so he still gets the tax deduction. The only reason I came up with was that he wants to have complete control of me. My husband is a control freak. I am now getting divorced too.
I am proud of you! Who knows what else he might have taken away from you.
2007-02-07 19:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has another woman and say he do not love you. Let him know you will not sign over the house. Also if he do not want to be there, let the door hit him. If he do not love you, the relationship is over. Good for you. A divorce is in order if he is determined to see another woman and no longer want your marriage.
2007-02-07 18:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Morality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your situation. But at least you know. It's going to be really hard on you. Hang in there, there is life beyond divorce. You will be okay.
2007-02-07 17:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just checked your page and read the initial question. Sounds as if you did the right thing. Good Luck.
2007-02-07 17:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That dirty rotton S O B. I hope you nailed him to the wall real good. Make him pay through the nose long and hard. He needs to be taught a lesson.
2007-02-07 17:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Didn't answer your question cuz I probably wasn't on Yahoo at the time, but glad that you got down to the bottom of your issue. Sorry about what the turn out was but at least you are getting yourself out of the situation. :)
2007-02-07 17:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT! You didnt sign over your half of the house did you????
2007-02-07 17:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Honey I'm sorry to hear that! God bless you as you move forward with all of this...The "new' woman will find him out for what he "REALLY" is... Better HER than YOU!
2007-02-07 17:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, best of luck to you. Everything is going to get better, and you will be happier without him.
2007-02-07 17:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋