ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 1 and a 1/2 months.
we arent that close. And he likes someone else more than me, but still likes me (and no he is not thinking about dumping me.)We kiss like everyday and hug all the time. I know things sound great but what do you think will happen next? how long do you think that we will last. (i know i really worried u c i used to cut and be anorexic and almost died so i am really worried) could someone please tell me everything so i know what is coming. oh yea im 13 years old and my boyfriend is kinda flirrty........with other girls.......very flirtty. help
2007-02-07 09:35:25 · 14 answers · asked by urluvmakesmeweak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be needy. Use the push-pull technique. But most important, but confident of yourself....
Guys can smell insecurity like shark can smell an injured flounder, miles away......
2007-02-07 09:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Herbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...I can understand how unsecure you might feel but don't worry to much because that only will make you sick...you are only 13 and as that age love hits hard and please don't listen to people that are rude and don't understand they have also been 13 and also been in love and with a crush and all the things ...what I think is that you should just have fun with your age some guys don't take girls seriously and you sound more love giving (I mean you care more for him than he cares for you)...why don't you start by loving yourself a little more have some fun and don't go hurting yourself over a boy...trust me honey there is probably a guy out there looking at you right now and dreaming about you...ready to give you all that love that you are wanting for...take care of yourself and stay happy..he who loves you won't make you cry...
wish you the best...and focus okay! ;-)
email if you need to.
ciao'
2007-02-07 17:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by karaya6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate- you need to realize something. People break up all of the time- and if you're feeling even a little bit uncomfortable with him, ask him about it. If you KNOW he likes someone else more, than he has NO business leading you on like that. You may like him alot- but he's lying to you, and it's only going to get worse. You need to understand that the most important person in ANY of your relationships is you. Honor yourself. Understand that he may not be trying to hurt you- but if you think it's not working, then make yourself a plan. Break out of it. And don't forget, while this may really, really suck- there are seven BILLION people on the planet. And alot of them are single. :) Good luck- keep your head up. Nothing stays the same. Ever.
2007-02-07 17:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him because he can be toxic to you considering your past self esteem issues. and dont get another boyfriend for a couple of years, get yourself together, your priorities are totally out of order, boyfriends at this age are totally worthless, nothing good can come from them in the long run, by the time you're 20 (which is closer than you think) you'll look back on each boyfriend or crush that you had at this age and will regret every moment of time an ounce of energy that you wasted on them. Oh yeah and things between you and him seem pretty damn far from great
2007-02-07 17:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,, BE STRONG.. cos I'll be straightforward.. prepare for
the worst to come..He's untrustable.. Flirty is not a good sign..
He's flirty cos he's not satisfied with your relationship (if I
can call it)and he wants a change.. He's keeping you
till he get someoneelse..then just dump you for no reason,,
I can see it coming..I'm old enough to know and must say, wise.
Boys can't play my mind now..
You're only 13 anyway ,there's so much for you in the future
If you can learn to play hard,, (but you'll only 13) then
you won't get hurt much when your relationship breaks up..
and if you can break him up before he breaks you or just
dump you, the better.
Be a strong girl . . you're true love will come..
2007-02-07 17:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and this is very important. If he likes someone else more then you, than you should tell him to go be with her. Even at your young age, if you are going to have a boyfriend, only have a boyfriend that treats you the way you deserve to be treated as someone important, cared for and most of all respected. Learn now. People will treat you exactly the way you let them. If you let him use you by kissing on you and hugging on you and he says he cares for someone else, he is not respecting you and you are not respecting yourself. Take charge, kiddo. Kick him to the curb.
2007-02-07 17:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're ******* 13 years old!! You need to grow the hell up first before you even worry about dating and having a boyfriend. You sound very unstable.
2007-02-07 17:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens next is that you need to dump with him... How can you go out with someone that you know likes another person. And flirts with other girls... Leave his ***!!!! Plus you are so young think about you studies!!! Forget about a boyfriend for now... and even more if he is a jerk!!!
2007-02-07 17:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Majo's Project 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a book and focus on school cram your head with knowledge and leave the boys and relationship alone until you are mature enough to deal with the consequences
2007-02-07 17:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. for one thing, you're too young to be dating, you are looking for acceptance and joy from relationships. he is going to break up with you. are you guys going to get married? date for 5 years then get married at 18? very unlikely, so you're going to break up. Save yourself the heartaches and focus on school and who you are.
2007-02-07 17:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by yaabro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋