so lately my boyfriend has been going through a lot of stress. he was just kicked out of his house, and he doesn't have anywhere to live, so he's just been crashing at his friend's houses for the time being.he has to go to work so that he can pay to continue school, and he also has to deal with fixing both of his cars and moving out.
it's a lot of money.....and a lot of time. and i KNOW that he's busy. but i can't help feeling that our relationship doesn't work until he FEELS like making it work. meaning that i feel like i'm not being acknowledged as the girlfriend in his life until he has time for it. i hate feeling like i'm a part-time girlfriend or a half-assed effort.
i've talked to him about this already, but all he does is guilt trip me because he has "a lot to worry about, much more than you do at the moment. that's why you don't really understand.and then he told me that he just needs his space. so im trying to but once again, that's just me blindly agreeing.
help?
2007-02-07 09:44:42 · 2 answers · asked by Sydney A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Put yourself IN his shoes..really just think about it his life is a mess right now. It might be a long time before he gets it straightened out. I think maybe it is an idea...to just tell him you think it might be easier on both of you if you could just be friends.....
2007-02-07 13:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wnet thru this last yr with my ex she was stressing and busy with life
i felt ignored.so in my stupidy i broke up with her more then once.all i did was cause more stress in her life instead of helping her out.
If i were you i would give him his space, help him out, and JUST BE THERE
cause maybe your the reason that drives him to go thru these stressful time in his life.
2007-02-07 14:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by adrian_1282 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋