okay so my boyfriend broke up with me last saturday. i'm having trouble coping and he didn't say why he was breaking up with me, which left me confused and hurt. i'm STILL confused and hurt. also, i don't want to ask him or his friends why he broke up with me i'm afraid to talk to him and them please help!
2007-02-07 10:02:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let it go! if he doesn't want to be with you then ok just let it go and forget about him, you can do better!!! Just spend time with your friends and have fun.
2007-02-07 10:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by -Cueva- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find closure that suits you (whatever it may be). You have to start somewhere to move on. Once you have that closure keep yourself busy by volunteering, playing sports, taking up a new hobby, anything you like to do. It'll take awhile before you realize that things happen for a reason and it was probably for the best (yes, I know). So hang out with your girlfriends and forget all about the loser.
2007-02-07 10:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do right now is not be alone by yourself...surround yourself with your friends and keep yourself busy whether with your work or doing something you love. And if you really need to talk to someone I'm here for u. Sometimes it's better to talk to a stranger than a friend because you have nothing to loose. Feel better babe!
2007-02-07 10:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more fish in the sea and u don't need to worry why someone broke up with you. Just look at as moving in opposite directions.
2007-02-07 10:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true that life is too short to worry about things like that (easier said than done, i know)
Stick with your friends, families, and your hobbies and you will be fine. If he can't give you the respect of a real 'break-up' he really isn't worth your time.
2007-02-07 10:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find out why he broke up with you, or whos fault it is. that will help you rest a lot easier. It's easier to ask him than to be confused for a long time, just do it.
2007-02-07 10:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by TheBigCheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one, grow a spine and get over it. Hobbies will take your mind off it.
Step two, ask people, find out.
Step three forget about him.
Really, by now it should be in pamphlets handed out on street corners.
2007-02-07 10:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop caring about him or what he thinks. Move on with life.
2007-02-07 10:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time and maybe he'll call u and tell why if not move and get someone better.. good luck
2007-02-07 10:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you refuse to ask him why he broke up with you, then you better get used to not knowing.
2007-02-07 10:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋