I dont want to scare him away.
2007-02-07 10:01:05 · 20 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you seriously want a relationship with this person, you need to work on having a trusting relationship. Feeling loving feelings for someone isn't something to be ashamed of, or something that can scare people away.
What can scare people away is too much grasping - extreme attachment. Whether you have sex or not with someone, but you are obsessive about having them or not losing them, it will show through in one way or another.
I'm guessing that's not the case - my advice to you, is to just be honest...we all get those head over heels feelings, but if you don't go overboard and indulge those feelings too much, it will work out in the end.
If you are honest, and true to yourself, whether or not you get the guy, you'll always be feel good about yourself.
2007-02-07 10:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Samten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless you know he is a really good guy and he isn't just wanting one thing (sex) he wouldn't let you have sex with him unless there was a mutual feeling going on. you could try the wholr flirtatoius thing then move on a little further, but to be safe and have no feelings hurt you should let him know you love him, love both ways with sex works out 10 times better.
2007-02-07 10:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo-gina! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl wants to have sex with a guy whom she likes, she's not scaring him away. It will make him even more determined to make it happen.
2007-02-07 10:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dint know why you would want to do that. If theres no love behind it its less passionate and not as good. And plus that shouldn't scare him away (I like knowing the girl loves me)
Theres no way you can hide your emotions especially when your doing something that emotional
2007-02-07 10:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What century are we in?
Now we have sex and are afraid to let our partner know we care about them? Did something do a total about-face in the last 50 years?
2007-02-07 10:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have to let him know. THere's no if's and's or but's about it. I fyou let him know and he's in love with you, sex will be amazing! If he doesn't love you, then why have sex? And if he doesn't love you, then the "scaring away" part won't matter.
2007-02-07 10:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After it's over, don't call him again, he'll get the picture. Of course it'd be hard for you, women are supposed to get attatched to the man they sleep with because it's supposed to be your husband. So good luck, but I doubt this is going to work.
2007-02-07 10:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry just in conversation he would know you care and the best way to get him to leave is to have sex with him --- if he is interested in you he will want to stay with you without sex --- best wishes
2007-02-07 10:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one cause you cant hide feeling and shouldn't have too. There is no reason that should scare him away.
2007-02-07 10:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the most idiotic thing I have ever heard, but if you want to take love making and turn it into something cheap, let him in the backdoor right away then he'll think your a dirty oar.
2007-02-07 10:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by John P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋