Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

after four years of my true friendship, i realized that i love her. she was so caring and we were honest to one another. i told her my feelings. she didn't reply. i thought she might have been upset. i apologized manytimes and told her that we are good friends. she started to get closer to one of friends. she said that she is more comfortable with him. i got jealous and made many bad accusations saying that you just care that person and ignore me. you played with me.
she got really upset. i dont know how to handle this situation. i really need your advice.

2007-02-06 01:10:37 · 3 answers · asked by pat 1 in Friends

I've told my Ex girlfriend who I still have feelings for that we should just cut off all ties and not call, text or speak to each other in person ( we go to the same church) because she has a boyfriend now but I still want to be with her but it's too hard for me to handle that she's with someone else. We've done this so many times before but everytime she ends up either calling me or sending me a text message. And just recently she's done the same thing, after I asked her not to do any of these things because then it's going to get me back to square one again, She's fine until she sees me then that's when she starts up again, keep in mind we were both in love with each other and dated for a year and a half so this wasn't just some puppy love relationship it was serious, I don'T know what to do I've tried plenty of times to just cut things off with her but it seems like that never works I miss her so much but, why can't she just let go and enoy her new boyfriend and forget about me ??

2007-02-06 01:10:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am trying to plan a romantic evening for my boyfriend. We are getting married when he comes in from R&R. So far I have a limo to pick him up at the airport, going straight to a hot tub room at a hotel, where I will have fondue and wine and for dessert chocolate fondue. I am trying to make this a night to remember. Got any ideas for me?

2007-02-06 01:10:29 · 1 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Singles & Dating

Tom and I have been going out not for long, and he always lets me do all the calling and communicating. He only communicates after i've been silent a while, and when I call, that's when he says how much I mean to him. Why doesn't he take the initiative? Do you think he doesn't like me as much? Please help me before I get too deep and yet he is interested in someone else.... thanks.

2007-02-06 01:09:02 · 17 answers · asked by pretty1 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with a guy for about 6 months. He moved away to another country about 2months ago. He still calls me but not frequently (once a week) and tells me he misses me. He doesnt send me mails often. He said he ld make arrangement for me to come over or he ld come over but for the past two months no such mention. I really like him cos he fits my ideal man but he makes me feel lonely. He did not send me any cards or gifts over the xmas, should i dump him and move on.

2007-02-06 01:08:10 · 3 answers · asked by Sahem 1 in Singles & Dating

...this is one of my fav poem that Ive written...
pls rate it..1/10

It is impossible to capture in words the feeling I have for you.
Yet when I try to tell you them or try to write them to you
the words do not even begin to touch the depths of my feelings.
Just 3 little words dont seem like enough for someone whose smile still brightens my day..
whose touch can make me forget the rest of my world.
But even though ''I love you'' cant express the depths of my feelings for you..
but since it is the best word that there is..
let me tell you a thousand time ...
''I love you'' more than love.

2007-02-06 01:08:08 · 17 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband, he is a good provider, a good father. he never hits me or the kids, nothing like that, the problem is, if i do anything that he doesn't like or if he doesn't get his way, he yells at me and curses and acts like he is going to kill himself. he wants to open a new business and i am really trying to help him fill out paperwork, call appropriate places, etc. but last night i he told me to fill out some papers for him and i told him i thought we needed more information before we mailed them out and he became very mean and cursed at me and yelled, i started crying in front of the kids, and he said "well no one ever wants to help me" i guess i'll just forget my dream. the thing is, it is something different that is his dream every 6 months, i have been thinking about leaving-what would you do

2007-02-06 01:06:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 01:06:01 · 18 answers · asked by mullies 1 in Family

My on again off again special friend. I am calling him my special friend because in a year we have never officially said we were bf & gf asked me to co-sign on a car with him. I TOLD HIM NO, but what I am trying to figure out is did he ask me because he thinks I am stupid, he is selfish, very materialistic, or all of the above. He told me about his ex who likes to buy guys. If u didn't have much she naturally said yes to what u wanted. He told me stories of how she still does it now & in the back of my mind I have always thought well that must be how she got him even though he has never admitted to that. He is very materialistic when it comes to cars, clothes, shoes, & so on & I have always known that, but I have never bought him anything over $50 so I wanted to know did he ask me to co-sign on this car because it's really flashy & he just wants it or does he think I am like his ex & was seeing if I would do it. We are on right now but still not bf & gf. AGAIN, I DID TELL HIM NO!

2007-02-06 01:05:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how come I don't see anyone on the news talking about global warming?...or are their jewels so frozen they can't speak?

2007-02-06 01:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting a bit fed up with my bf. He doesnt know 'whether we work', cant decide if we would be better as friends or not, thinks theres something missing from the relationship, some spark. Im the sort who likes to hang onto relationships, but i also feel like we dont connect much also, but only because we dont see each other or go anywhere with each other enough. We never act like a couple much outside of each others homes. Hes really unsure about us and i just feel like walking away, he should be sure really. If he was really unsure he'd walk away himself but he wont, hes indecicisive. Its really bugging me and to be honest i've already detached myself from him so he can think. I've warned him if he doesnt decide ill finish him anyway but he still doesnt know. Thing is, even if he chooses to stay with me it wont feel right because he had to make that decision.

The words 'walk away' are screaming at me, but i darent, i do really like him, but somethings telling me to wait and see...

2007-02-06 01:02:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv bin going out the my bf for over a year now and i want to get him something special but i dont have that much money to spend. Its my bday that day nd i dont want him to feel lift out?

2007-02-06 01:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you expect (consciously or subconsciously) that they return the favor one day or do something nice in return!! it would be nice if they did, wont it?

2007-02-06 01:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by gone 7 in Friends

I'm havin a load of trouble finding something to buy my partner for a valentines gift, all I can find is flowers chocolates or teddies, what do you men like to get?
Bearing in mind i'm 34 weeks pregnant so nothing involving gymnastics lol but I would appreciate as many ideas as poss.

Thanks

2007-02-06 01:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by irish_jipper 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If my boyfriend doesnt text me back for a while i get really nervous, i know he's not cheating on me but it really gets to me and i dont know why!? does anyone else ever feel like this?

2007-02-06 01:00:22 · 16 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some help. I am a very diverse person. However, my parents are somewhat bigots. They judge races and people of different sexes without knowing anything about the person. The main thing I have a problem with is the use of the N word about African Americans (we're white). They just throw it around so casually. You may hear it 10 times a day. It makes me cringe and my ears want to bleed. They also believe that every race should date only within itself (White with White, etc). My parents are in their late 40s and I know it is difficult to change someone without them wanting to and they get mad if someone just slightly asks "why?". The thing is that I want for them to stop using the N word around me bc I have lots of African American friends & date interracially. It makes it look like I am racist whenever people hear my parents say this stuff because ppl assume you believe what your parents do. (My birth father was in the army so I had a diverse childhood & was around many diff ppl)

2007-02-06 00:58:56 · 6 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Family

No funny answers please. Please be sincere in mentioning the list of persons whom you really respect and love. First and foremost person, then second, third, likewise.

2007-02-06 00:58:02 · 20 answers · asked by durga v 2 in Friends

2007-02-06 00:57:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many times a question has been asked "How much money will it take for you to sleep with a stranger?" Answers from both married and unmarried women range from $1000 to $20 million. When guys are asked the same question, most say "I'll do it for free". What does this say about women and their attitude to sex?

2007-02-06 00:57:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the faucet is attached to our mobile home, we are moving our mobile home. Do we have an obligation to put a new faucet on there so she will be able to use it? She thinks we do, I think we don't.

2007-02-06 00:56:40 · 10 answers · asked by ladybug 5 in Family

If you do what can I expect from you in return?

2007-02-06 00:56:06 · 20 answers · asked by kennyboy 6 in Singles & Dating

did you drop hints about marriage and stuff before asking them to marry you ( just to be sure they would say yes ) ?

2007-02-06 00:55:13 · 7 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Weddings

2007-02-06 00:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by danes crazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how to keep pace with changing times without compromising on our values.

2007-02-06 00:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by manoz kakkar 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend sooo much, and am even thinking about buying a house with him. Some of my family members do not like him very much and I am terrified of having a life with someone that my family does not get along with. He is very caring and loving to me and I wish my family could see it that way. He has very strong views and they think he pressures me a great deal. He only brings up ideas that he think will be best for both of us, and they make a lot of sense. I think they mistake his excitement for pressuring me. We have tons of fun together. Does anyone have a similar problem? It is tearing me up! My whole life my family has always agreed with me and now I feel like if I do buy a house with him I will go against them and that terrifies me! I feel like if I ever marry him I will be going against my family. I want my family to love him as much as I do!

2007-02-06 00:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by dazed and confused 2 in Singles & Dating

how many?
gonna do anything about it?
why not?
what would happen if you did?

2007-02-06 00:50:26 · 6 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

joking but plz answer

2007-02-06 00:50:22 · 5 answers · asked by raunaak 1 in Friends

2007-02-06 00:48:23 · 9 answers · asked by danes crazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 00:47:56 · 8 answers · asked by gimy z 1 in Friends

I catch him staring at me and then when he notices I looked he turns away quickly. They've been married for over a year now and he's been doing that ever since they were engaged. At first he asked me out and I turned him down and hooked him up with her and they hit it off real well. I dont know why he does that specially that he looks like a decent religious guy. What should I do?

2007-02-06 00:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating