Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

How can you provide everything to your woman but she still goes out with your security man and having affairs with him why?

2007-02-06 01:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by ladosluv 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's establish some facts:
a) The person cheated on you.
b) You caught the person cheating on you.
c) They even admitted cheating on you.

Did you still want to talk it over to try and resolve the issue or did you just throw your hands up in the air and say: "I'm outta here?" Did you really want to try and work things out or were you curious as to why they cheated in the first place? Now, for the record, this hasn't happened to me since I'm a single man as of this writing. I posed the question because of a show I saw recently where the woman knew her boyfriend was cheating and she still wanted to talk to him about their relationship. I figured: "What's there to talk about?" He cheated, she caught him, end of story, right? Please respond and elaborate.

2007-02-06 01:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know were to start well here goes my sister died 3 years ago and left 2 daughters with problems with there dad being a drunk they were taken away from him and his youngest daughter (was age 9)came to live with me everything was ok for a while now its like a war zone in my house with my husband and her my husband says he hates her and i think he means it hes been getting drunk out of his head for quiet a while now and he really says nasty things to me her and his own 2 kids i dont know what to do i dont know weather to leave him or not and put in for a new house and take the 3 of them with me. But i do think there is something else wrong with him i think he has a mental problem he refuses to see i am so upset i have been married for 20 years my children are 18,14 my niece is 12 can any 1 give me any advice thankyou

2007-02-06 01:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by andrea.barrett36 4 in Family

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. He is still friends with his ex that he broke up with almost 6 years ago. He still talks to her probably 2-3 times per week, but he never tells me that he talks to her. The only reason I know is because I look at his phone. Whenever I say anything to him, he tells me that I am just jealous, that nothing is going on, and that I am insecure. He also says that he does not have to tell me when he talks to her. I think that it is disrespectful to not take my feelings into consideration about this. I know that he would not cheat on me, but this is more about him being emotionally closer to her than me. The few times that he has talked to her in front of me, he laughs and jokes with her, and then as soon as he is done talking, he goes back to being...not like he is with her. I don't know that telling him to not talk to her again would make me feel better, but I don't know what else to do. Any suggestions?

2007-02-06 01:26:26 · 19 answers · asked by Leah B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently being called for an interview from an organisation that fights for human rights.My interview is tomorrow and I told my parents today.Mum was really excited about iit coz she like me beng ann active member of society.But Dad said that I should have asked him first coz he is not sure where this organisation finds money to pay its employees,that somethimes they fight for rights of humans that don't deserve their freedom and other bul**** like that.For me this is like a dream come true coz all my life I wanted to join this team but i couldn't due to my age.Now there Dad saying all these things and making me feel angry.What should I do?I told him that this well-known org is reliable but he doesn't listen.I would like you to help me!!!!Thx...

2007-02-06 01:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by Venus! 2 in Family

I broke up wit my boyfriend but he neva got the messeage and thinks we still togeher but im seeing this other guy wat must i do

2007-02-06 01:25:57 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I sent a group email invite to a variety of friends from home, work and uni, some of whom don't know each other.

One of my friends did a Reply to All remarking on one of my Uni mates names' which sounds amusingly rude. These two friends have not met each other but all of our mutual friends from Uni were on the list.
How do I go about make sure that no-ones feelings have been too badly hurt and make sure that an idiotic mate doesn't put someone off coming to my party? Any useful ideas over revenge on the culprit, would also be welcome!

2007-02-06 01:23:41 · 9 answers · asked by finchleyjohn 2 in Friends

how can I help someone that doesn't believe in chances anymore?
pls need advice!

2007-02-06 01:23:04 · 4 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure what to say to her, she's very thin (underweight) and she's been weird ever since i've lost a few stone and started getting fit. The most aggravating thing is she comes round at lunch as she works nearby and always brings me doughnuts and cakes, I say no every time ,and she just sits their pigging her face in front of me.

2007-02-06 01:22:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do U know any dating websites that can provide ads of single people who are intersted only in long distance relationships?
I thank U for Ur help.

2007-02-06 01:22:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have had a tough first year of marriage. Arguing, controlling behaviors, questioning whether we should have gotten married in the first place. Some of this is normal in the first year and I understand that. My wife threatens divorce all the time. She says I’m verbally abusive and all this stuff. I don’t think I am. Sometimes I react very harshly to her abusiveness (like last Saturday when she was angry she got drunk and said she hoped I got hit by a truck and died). However this is what floors me. She says we’re not right for each other, threatens divorce, I’m verbally abusive BUT (and this is a big but) she wants to have a baby with me. I tell her “Let me get this straight. You think I’m awful, verbally abusive sometimes and you hope I die but you want to have my baby?”
If I honestly thought that about my spouse there is no way shape or form I’d want to have a kid with them so how does she get to this conclusion. It doesn’t make sense. Maybe she doesn’t think I’m all those things after all. Logically it doesn’t make sense to want a kid with someone you think is awful. What in the heck is wrong with that logic? Ladies help me understand this please. Maybe she does really love me. Kind of strange if she thinks I’m awful and still wants my kid.

2007-02-06 01:21:14 · 36 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How long have men been getting down on a knee to ask a girl for her hand? I think its funny that they do that now considering that in the past they would just meet with the dad and HAGGLE over a price for her...

2007-02-06 01:21:13 · 4 answers · asked by China doll 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl in my grade 9 class @ school that came to the school about a month ago and we are kind of friends. I kind of stare some times because she has the most beautiful eyes, one is almost a mahogany color and the other is a dark hazel/green and she keeps asking me why i am staring at her. I really like her, how do I tell her? and if anyone has any ideas for something like a valentines present, by all means tell me. Thanks

2007-02-06 01:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this man i have to date he is a general so he orders me to do stuff and when i say no he beats me how do i tell him i've cheated.I am so sorry but I've cheated on him with the chicago bears football team.they were depressed and i was too since russel broke my heart one thing lead to another and i woke up in the zoo naked with the bears in chicago with kanye west how should i break the news to my general without him making a big deal of nothing?

2007-02-06 01:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by gay pharoah tha don 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost six years, we got married when we were young. He used to want to be with me, he wanted to touch me, now its like a battle to get him to come near me. I don't understand, there are other men that want to be with me. And i've told him this he doen't seem to care!!I think i'm very beautiful, I like to have his attention. But I haven't had it in so long i've forgot what its like. And he never wants to have sex. He gives me some excuse like he's got to get ready for work but an hour later hes still in the bed. He stays up all night playing poker and gets mad if I want to talk or ask he to help me with anything. Is it wrong if i've thought of other men that actually show me attention. What is the problem?

2007-02-06 01:19:01 · 15 answers · asked by Amber L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you were a kid, what did you wanna be? Are you what you hoped you would be?

2007-02-06 01:19:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He tells you something very beautiful, that he likes you etc. You tell him that you like him also. He is honest in what he is saying, but the next days he doesnt call you or talk to you, but then he appears again.

Do guys want to be talking with their girlfriends every day? Is this normal?

2007-02-06 01:17:41 · 16 answers · asked by Kiss 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to move out of this cold depressing state and move somewhere warm like Califonia. But most of my family is here in Michigan. The economy is real bad here, it takes months to find a job. But I'm afraid I would get so home sick not being able to see my family whenever I want. Granted were not a large family but I am close to them. I don't no what to do? Anyone been in a similar situation?

2007-02-06 01:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anyone 4 in Family

so we were chatting on facebook, we worked together this past summer. She said she was on a date in the movies and the guy said "He fancied her" which she said made her sick. I felt sorry so I said "I fancy you doesnt sound bad" Since her knowledge of proper English is close to zero she thought that my sentence meant I actually fancy her and is very proud of it. How do I suavely tell her she misunderstood?

2007-02-06 01:17:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 01:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by melissa j 1 in Family

2007-02-06 01:17:07 · 10 answers · asked by ssrc30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 01:15:50 · 20 answers · asked by Nadine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

actually im in love with a girl n we want to marry but she has engaged.her age is just 19 n doin BA while i m 20 n doin b.tech having three younger sisters.my b.tech will take 3 yrs more .we r frm lower middle class family n we don't just have money for fees so i cant marry her before completing my b.tech n she can't say anything to her parents now m in dillema wat shud i do?

2007-02-06 01:14:54 · 2 answers · asked by rohit_ritesh2006 1 in Weddings

I've been in a realationship with this guy for about a year and month now. He used to live down the street but now he lives three hours away. I really do care about him alot but i'm not so sure I love him anymore but i don't want to let go. What makes it worse is were grounded from talking on the phone with each other so were limited to e-mailing and texting each other. It seems as though i'm the only one texting or e-mailing though. I think were falling apart or i'm just falling from him. We have never had a serious fight. then there's this guy here...who I had a crush on last year before i was with my boyfriend. He made me his friend on myspace and now I have a massive crush on him. We never talked ever really excepted for at summer p.e. 2 years ago. and every time we see each other we say hi and thats it. We are making small talk on line and I really do think I have a chance with him...but I really don't want to make a mistake by breaking up with my current boyfriend. What do I do

2007-02-06 01:14:22 · 8 answers · asked by Hmmm 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a blind date this week that a family member is setting me up with and I'm thinking what would be a good thing to do on this date. I definitely don't want it to be a dinner date, because those last too long and I want to be able to end it short if I'm not really into the person. I was thinking that a bar may be good, as long as they're not playing music so loud that we won't be able to hear each other speak. I also don't want us to go to the movies, since the whole point of a first date is to get to know each other, and that's kind of hard to do while staring at the movie screen for 2 hours. Please, I need advice!

2007-02-06 01:13:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is always with me in my memories i feel sad everytime what will i do ????

2007-02-06 01:13:38 · 17 answers · asked by ravi 1 in Family

ok, i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and i cam einto this relationship with trust issues and never really trusted him. We fought a lot because of my lack of trust and that evidently took a toll on our relationship because now he wants time apart. He has told me many times that he wants time apart to clear his mind and be sure of what he wants because he's afraid if we just jump back into our relationship without trust we'll be fighting again, he reassures me that it's not about someone else, that he has no interest in meeting anyone or being with anyone else, he just wants some space and then we'll sit and talk about things. I'm ready to work on my trust issues and give my trust to him but i'm afraid that i already lost him...what should i do? no contact at all? move on? how long should i wait?

2007-02-06 01:12:04 · 11 answers · asked by ELLE 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you tell if he's interested in you, really likes you by the way he looks at you? If so what should i be looking out for? How will he be looking at me?

2007-02-06 01:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's cute but not populare but don't care i'm in luv but don't know how tell him

2007-02-06 01:11:28 · 8 answers · asked by Stevie H 1 in Singles & Dating

so. to get straight to the point..what are the best gifts to give your guy friend this valentines day?..ooooh! and youve been with him quite some time now..how about a bracelet with his name engraved on it?..cute eh?

2007-02-06 01:11:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating