I've been in a realationship with this guy for about a year and month now. He used to live down the street but now he lives three hours away. I really do care about him alot but i'm not so sure I love him anymore but i don't want to let go. What makes it worse is were grounded from talking on the phone with each other so were limited to e-mailing and texting each other. It seems as though i'm the only one texting or e-mailing though. I think were falling apart or i'm just falling from him. We have never had a serious fight. then there's this guy here...who I had a crush on last year before i was with my boyfriend. He made me his friend on myspace and now I have a massive crush on him. We never talked ever really excepted for at summer p.e. 2 years ago. and every time we see each other we say hi and thats it. We are making small talk on line and I really do think I have a chance with him...but I really don't want to make a mistake by breaking up with my current boyfriend. What do I do
2007-02-06 01:14:22 · 8 answers · asked by Hmmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with the guy you were dating first.. then try to see what happens wioth a guy there closer to you.
2007-02-06 01:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long distance relationship once now we live together so they can work, but it sounds like your growing apart, if he isn't replying to texts and email I suggest you just let him go and find some one new
I guessing as you are sending texts you have a Mobile - could you call him off that, that's what I had to do (Got grounded from phoning my girl cause of a £400 bill!!)
What ever you decide I hop it all works out
2007-02-06 01:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by CXPhantom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When do you ever see each other?? I really think its time you moved on and met someone who lives in your area as just e-mailing isn't going to keep the relationship alive. Why have the phone calls stopped, what reason did he give for that??
2007-02-06 01:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of communication leads to complications.
It is complicated now.
Distance also kills a relationship because it builds a bridge. The problem is that you don't wanna loose on two ends. Keep on saying 'hi' untill Mr-massive-crushed-on say otherwise. On the other hand, keep in touch with Mr-lack-of-communication... it is not soon till you've known his line of priorities.
If I haven't said much, listen to your heart... and make sure that every desicion you take in life makes you happ(y)(ier).
Life is too short to be taken too seriously.
Good decision!
2007-02-06 01:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by McNeal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crushes are a natural part of life, it does not mean you have to end your relationship with your current boyfriend, but if you are unhappy then you are just going to have to bite the bulllet and end it! good luck whatever you choose to do
2007-02-06 02:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like puppylove to me. make up ur mind about who u want to b with and is it really real. i mean 3 hours away is that realistic to u? single out the qualities of the two and figure it out!!
2007-02-06 01:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont tell you to breakup because you still geting a chance with him. iam in the same situation it isnt easy but is worthy just dont lose hope
2007-02-06 01:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Odete D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u can change ur feelings easily, that ain't love at all and i guess ur still a kid...not mature enuf...what ur having is just puppy love...will never last.
2007-02-06 01:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋