when you hurt your true friend by making wrong accusation. what is the best way to handle such situations?

Question

after four years of my true friendship, i realized that i love her. she was so caring and we were honest to one another. i told her my feelings. she didn't reply. i thought she might have been upset. i apologized manytimes and told her that we are good friends. she started to get closer to one of friends. she said that she is more comfortable with him. i got jealous and made many bad accusations saying that you just care that person and ignore me. you played with me.
she got really upset. i dont know how to handle this situation. i really need your advice.

Answer 1

Bro you are in a monumental problem so Listen very carefully.

Your were not wrong to have feelings for her, it means you appreciated the person she is, who she really is and that she was a good person in so many ways to you. It also means that you felt true happiness when around her, the kind you have never felt around anyone. So I tell you that you were not wrong to have and tell her your feelings. She for one was very scared when you told her your feelings because she has feelings for you, in her mind she thinks it is not right for friends to go out, but if she be told the truth that the best relationship is built on friendship.

Now You did some pretty stupid things along the way which how bad you handle such situations, and thank God you know that you need help. She was still confused and needed time to think. Girls are not like us man, we do things because it feels right, they things because it is right so they need time to think. When you started to accuse her, you were in actual fact pushing her away, and thats why she became upset. What you need to do now is to apologise sincierly, dont screw up what ever thats left of the relationship, let her go, if she was meant to be with you, she'll come back to you.

I just hope you got what Im trying to convey to your mind. good luck Bro

Answer 2

Apologize and admit that you were wrong, but explain why you reacted the way you did and that it upset you when she didn't reply. It takes a lot of guts to confess your true feelings for someone, especially when you're afraid it might ruin a good friendship, but it's just as hard to accept that for the same reason. Maybe she's scared that if it doesn't work out, you won't even be friends anymore. I don't know. I think you should really talk to her, though. I hope something works out for you. It would be nice if a relationship could come of this, but if not, i hope you can at least salvage your friendship because it would really be a shame to lose it.

Answer 3

Send her flowers than call her with a sincere apology. Explain why you did what you did and ask for forgiveness.