I've told my Ex girlfriend who I still have feelings for that we should just cut off all ties and not call, text or speak to each other in person ( we go to the same church) because she has a boyfriend now but I still want to be with her but it's too hard for me to handle that she's with someone else. We've done this so many times before but everytime she ends up either calling me or sending me a text message. And just recently she's done the same thing, after I asked her not to do any of these things because then it's going to get me back to square one again, She's fine until she sees me then that's when she starts up again, keep in mind we were both in love with each other and dated for a year and a half so this wasn't just some puppy love relationship it was serious, I don'T know what to do I've tried plenty of times to just cut things off with her but it seems like that never works I miss her so much but, why can't she just let go and enoy her new boyfriend and forget about me ??
2007-02-06 01:10:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because she still loves you. I think she wants to keep in contact if a just in case situation comes up with her new bf. Don't get me wrong i believe she still loves you, but its not fair to you at all. Unless she is considering or making some kind of plans with you in the future i say just don't answer or text her back, even though she still does. And eventually she will get the message. Its goin to be hard for you but its goin to take sometime. I say go out mingle, do whatever to not to think about her. Sad to say i did that with my ex. I lead him on because i was still in love with him, but i had to stop because i was hurting him. This is a 1 year relationship its goin to take time to get over this. And her too. Good-luck. Ull make it.
2007-02-06 01:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
someone is not honest here. If u guys care so much for each other, why did she go for another man? If u don't address that, then this game continues. Good luck.
2007-02-06 01:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jen2man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, might propose, in basic terms shop her around for the occasional booty call. yet, i'm getting the impact which you're to youthful for such stable suggestion. stay in church and do'nt rigidity out over the flaws which you ca'nt administration and do in basic terms'nt matter. flow on, greenback.
2016-10-01 12:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her on your cell phone. If you do not know how to do that on your own, Call a rep from your cell phone company to help you out. Problem solved.
2007-02-06 01:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by melmc1980 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋