Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

What do woman really want to hear, also what don't they want to hear.

2007-02-06 10:15:36 · 16 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were together for almost 4 years when I found out I was pregnant. Everything was going well then when I was about 4 months he out of the blue dumped me saying he didn't love me anymore and that he never wanted to see me again. When I had the baby I tried to contact he to let him know and he said that he didn't care. A year went past and haven't see or heard from him, then all of the sudden he turned up wanting to see his son and wanting to get back together. He said that he lied when he said he no longer loved me and that he was just not ready tobecome a dad and that he missed me heaps. I don't know what to do, I still love him and all, but I also don't want to get hurt again and I don't want him hurting our son.

2007-02-06 10:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda B 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

so, theres this guy that i like, and sometimes i look at him for a brief moment, and then i snap back into reality and joke with my friends or whatever, and sometimes i can sense that some one is staring at me, and i look and it's him staring at me! and then once we look at each other, he quickly looks away, and i'm all bubbeling inside!

and he talks with me a lot, well not a lot, but most of the time, like if i'm in a really great part in my book and he's there, he says, "hey, no reading allowed" or watever, and i say a combat back at him, and i think it's kinda cute,

well, wat do u think?

2007-02-06 10:15:23 · 11 answers · asked by ☆♥~chickgirl~♥☆ 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf is HOT and u know it dont be jelouls anyways i want to have his babies and get married we r both EXTEMELY HOTT

2007-02-06 10:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

I REALLY need help and im close to an mental breakdown. I need people to test something for me and please please do, im so desperate...

okay heres how you do it. the only materials you'll need is a coin and a partner

~first have one person hold out there hands and close there eyes
~flip the coin ( for the random effect) and tails=left hand
heads=right hand
~ depending on if you got heads or tails hold your hand about 3in above the person hands with their eyes closed.
~ ask them to concentrate, and ask them if they can feel anything
test the person 3 times
can feel it or cant feel it i NEED to know this information

its a project on "can you feel some1 elses energy"
if its just heat that works to i guess, because heat is energy...

PLEASE help!!

2007-02-06 10:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 10:14:22 · 18 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister's "sugar daddy" has supported her for 8 years and now he wants to be with me. should i just do it or turn him down. i really love my sister and dont want to hurt her.

2007-02-06 10:14:17 · 7 answers · asked by 4u2nv 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you agree?
I mean, come on, why the h*ll lump it together like this, lol?
kinda funny but sort of not too humorous.
I'll probably have a lot of peeps disagreeable on this? don't know yet, lol

2007-02-06 10:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by Yvonne 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do?

2007-02-06 10:14:10 · 14 answers · asked by Rob D 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this scorpio guy, for about 3 months now, and i wasn't taking him very seriously, because he didn't give me the attention that i needed from him. (hardly called, we didn't see each
other often, and when we did talk our conversations were very breif. But after i started asking questions about scorpio, and reading more on his sign i realized that he's just testing me. He's beginning to open up more, he still doesn't call often but he says that absence makes the heart grow fonder which is true so i don't argue. After we have sex he embraces me, and kisses me. He calls me his baby, all the time. We spend every sunday together. The problem is i've been longing for a man to commit to me, but now the thought of someone being very jealous and possesive is frigtening me. I need some adivce on how to deal with the scorpio man when his passion kicks in and he becomes very jealous. Please help!!!! I don't want to mess this on up.

2007-02-06 10:14:07 · 2 answers · asked by sweetstlouis 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a really nice but also really shy person i am described as cute looking or pretty i am in good shape and have a decent body 5 ft 6 110 pounds.But i attract possesive, controling,often have a macho personality and manupulative type of guys and i dont understand why?I always try to see the best in people and am friendly so whats wrong with me?I like feeling protected and safe in a relationship is this the problem?

2007-02-06 10:13:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i used have a ton of friends and be a part of the popular kids, but i 've lost my friends one by one. I've never really had a best friend. Now i'm the loner and everyone has moved on, and they won't even talk to me. Even my guy friends have left eversince they asked me out and i said no because i didn't want to ruin our friendship. I feel so alone and sad because i need my friends the most. The only person that I would actually consider as a mom passed away and i also had some issues with my dad and i ran away for a couple of days all during the week of christmas. My grandma also passed away and my real mom gets mad at me a lot for no reason at all. I usually just secretly handle the bad things in my life and don't tell anyone about it, but now it's getting to me and i'm starting to fall apart. I think if i tell someone they'll probably think that i'm just a big baby that whines alot. I don't know what to do. i've already joined a lot of clubs,sports,and i'm even VP of my school.

2007-02-06 10:13:38 · 5 answers · asked by fairytale_dreamer22 2 in Friends

before i was born my grandpa died. my grandma told me that he sent me as an angle. then my grandma remarried. 4 or 5 years after she married she died of posining and he posined her. i watched her die right infront of me eyes and the last thing she told me was "everything will be ok" then she went. i was sexaly touched by her 2 husband. sence kindergraden i have been harassed by girls. they have called me horriable thing. my best friends have went behind my back and talked about me. now i get called names like (slut, whore, loser, bi***, ahole, ect.) i have been to 3 schools in the past year and it seems like at everyone i can't trust anyone. i am a person who has to have people to help me and i am also a very trust worthy person. i don't know what to do anymore. these girls will not leave me alone weather it's over the computer, phone, or in person. they think that it's funny when i cry and when i want to kill myself over these things. my mom tells me that it is just jeliousy. but why?

2007-02-06 10:13:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm having a friend over for a few drinks...and to be blunt...I want him to want me. I want to casually seduce him.

We have this off/on relationship and usually he is the one to strike things up...but this time I want to turn the heat up...

SO. I'm looking for any kind of input, especially from guys.

What type of clothes...music...food...decor....all of that...puts YOU in the mood??

2007-02-06 10:13:24 · 6 answers · asked by applechick 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so in history class this guy that just joined our period.
i was talking him today as we were just answering q's from a piece of paper and i didn't say anything to make him like me .

any way he just asked me my last name and what my first period was and then i told him and asked him why.
he said he was going to get me a gift sent to me on valentines day
and i think thats romantic i just dont like him in that way. when he told me i felt really nervous and wanted to cry because i dont know how to tell him i am not interested.

what should I DO ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

2007-02-06 10:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Singles & Dating

...having your best female friend of years frequently stroke and massage your head and feet, despite the fact you have a girlfriend. Would you ask your female friend to do this for you and feel nothing wrong with it? Would you do this only if you felt something was going on between you and her?

How would you feel if your girlfriend often stroekd and massaged parts of her male friend's body? Would it make you angry?

2007-02-06 10:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

If your talking with a girl, what are some of the signs that will tell you she's interested? Have had buddies all but heckle me for apparently missing out on golden opportunities.

2007-02-06 10:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Rdude 2 in Singles & Dating

(like someone massaging your shoulders would) to get your attention, what, if any circumstances about that would make you feel weird towards the girl? And if weird isn't the right word, how would it make you feel towards the girl?

2007-02-06 10:12:15 · 4 answers · asked by sportfan24 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so we will have like a cook out thing for the wedding. I am fine with that but now what do we wear? It is gonna be me and my fiance and our 4 kids and that's it.

2007-02-06 10:11:57 · 13 answers · asked by laura w 1 in Weddings

i am in love.
beyond belief.
never thought i could love someone so much.
he is beyond amzing. i want to spend every second with him.
any of yall ever been so deep in love they are all u think about?>

call me crazy cuz im only 14.
but honey if uve never been in love , u no what it feels like.


all u ever think about.
want to be with them ALL the time. bragg about them , talk about them , want them. i could go on forever.

tell me a love story.
im curious to know how yall fell in love with your partner.
and if you've never been in love with someone.

YOU SHOULD TRY IT.
its the best feeling in the world.

2007-02-06 10:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone says that he's shy and he isn't the one who goes up to girls and starts a conversation. He's my best friends brother but then again she also wants us to be together. It's hard. I mean i hardly know him. I dont hang out with him at their house. I only see him in gym and STudyhall and of course in the halls. I want to just give him a note that explains everything, but I'm terrified about how he'd react. I have never felt this way about any guy in my whole entire life. What should I do? Please Help!

Everyone says that he's shy and he isn't the one who goes up to girls and starts a conversation. He's my best friends brother but then again she also wants us to be together. It's hard. I mean i hardly know him. I dont hang out with him at their house. I only see him in gym and STudyhall and of course in the halls. I want to just give him a note that explains everything, but I'm terrified about how he'd react. I have never felt this way about any guy in my whole entire life.

2007-02-06 10:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently reconnected with an old friend. We started talking, and have gotten intimate, and close. We hang out and have lots of fun, but we have not made anything "official". Neither of us needed the label of boyfriend/girlfriend, but it feels like its possible that it could head in that direction. He is moving across the country, but I feel like Im falling for him and I want to at least know where we stand before he goes. How do I do that without scaring him away?

2007-02-06 10:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by kellireneez 2 in Singles & Dating

I have NO idea why! When he asked me out a couple weeks ago, he was like,"Don't tell ANYBODY this, but would you like to go out with me?" I didn't understand why he doesn't want anyone to know. He is a really nice guy, and he is never mean to anyone, but if he's saying that cuz he's ashamed of it, then I am really hurt! All my friends and the whole rest of the school is like,"Everyone hates him, he is sooo weird and he is sooo not hot!" I really dont care what other ppl say, cuz I am only going out w/ him for his personality, but why is he like this? And we NEVER talk, if he's around his friends, he completly ignores me and runs away. But when we're together, he is sooo sweet! I know he doesnt want to be mean.

2007-02-06 10:09:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 10:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok guys now be honest. Whats the things that would attract you to a girl. Whether it be physical, personality, anything.

2007-02-06 10:09:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know he loves me anyone would thats together for over 4 years. he never wants to hug or go out anymore. I am such an affectionate person. He doesnt take me anywhere and im wondering if maybe we have a great friendship and thats it. I love him so much and i feel like he doesnt love me as much. our anniversary of being together was a couple of weeks ago and he didnt even realize it. we arent married and we have no kids. What are your opinions and advice?

2007-02-06 10:09:14 · 18 answers · asked by PrinCipeSSa ItaLiAnA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i hv been together for 26 yrs i cheated on him but i didnt hv intercourse with him , he says he cant get it out of his head what i did any advice on what i can do. we hv 2 boys 16 and 21 i dont want a divorce and he keeps asking me y i did it i dont know help me........

2007-02-06 10:09:01 · 21 answers · asked by kwalla0003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get over a ex-boyfriend if he still likes you and you still like him. (I'm 15) Him and I still talk and stuff but when I talk to his friends they say he just says he still likes you but when we talk on the phone or in person he says "I still like you alot." And i've been thinking that maybe we were ment to stay together but then again I don't think we should be because his friend likes me too. What do I do about this and stop having feelings for him even though I still love him!?!?!

2007-02-06 10:08:40 · 1 answers · asked by random queen 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend had been dating her bf for 6 months but he broke up with her about 3 months ago. the first month i was fine with her crying but after 3 month she is till crying over him and alot of her friendds are getting really mad at her cause if it.

What should i do?

2007-02-06 10:08:37 · 2 answers · asked by anouchka 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 5.8" 140 pounds, and 14 yrs old. I got stretch marks on my hips when i had this huge growth spure a couple yrs ago. I feel really weird to if i can wear a 2 piece swim suit this summer or not (since its my first summer with the stretch marks). What would your reaction be to seeing a girl with stretch marks in a 2 piece??? I dont think i should haft to hold out just because i have stretch marks. I'm only 14. Any tips to how i could cover them up??????????

2007-02-06 10:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family