...having your best female friend of years frequently stroke and massage your head and feet, despite the fact you have a girlfriend. Would you ask your female friend to do this for you and feel nothing wrong with it? Would you do this only if you felt something was going on between you and her?
How would you feel if your girlfriend often stroekd and massaged parts of her male friend's body? Would it make you angry?
2007-02-06 10:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the same time as letting your best friend stroke you, would you ever tell her consistently that you want to marry her (when drunk) and that you love her (when sober) and that you would consider breaking up with your girlfriend to go travelling with her, if there was absolutely nothing but platonic feelings? Is it possible for all these things to amount only to friendship? Do you think that would amount to being unfair to your girlfriend?
2007-02-06 10:45:34 · update #1
If my female friends did that to me I would think something was up. More than friends. Not cool.
2007-02-06 10:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by pinkieslim1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I would feel that something was wrong with that and would never ask her to do that unless I felt that something was going on and then I would probably break up with my GF. If my GF was strokeing her male friend I would be pretty pissed. Even if they have been friends for years. If we werent dateing that long I would proably just break it off. Otherwise I would polietly ask her to stop and if she didnt then I would break it off.
2007-02-06 18:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if I had one, I would ask her to, or let her do that to me.Of course it would only happen, if there was something between us.
If another gal would chose to do it, then I would feel uncertain,
but comfortable. If my gf, (If I had one) did that to another man, I would be angry, yes!
2007-02-06 18:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question boils down to trust. If you trust your partner, then it won't make you angry if the massage/touch a friend.
2007-02-06 18:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
massage are something you cant do it and not have a sexaul thought come to mind and im not having it if my girlfriend was doing it
2007-02-06 18:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by J-Rock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would not ask the friend to do that and if my lady did it i would not worry ---- she is with me after all not him and i trust her completely
2007-02-06 18:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt mind it, its strictly platonic so
2007-02-06 18:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your hands off of other people's mates!
2007-02-06 18:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya
2007-02-06 18:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you get angry?
2007-02-06 18:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋