Recently reconnected with an old friend. We started talking, and have gotten intimate, and close. We hang out and have lots of fun, but we have not made anything "official". Neither of us needed the label of boyfriend/girlfriend, but it feels like its possible that it could head in that direction. He is moving across the country, but I feel like Im falling for him and I want to at least know where we stand before he goes. How do I do that without scaring him away?
2007-02-06 10:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by kellireneez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is moving because the job market for what he is interested in, is better back east
2007-02-07 05:24:10 · update #1
First of all....you shouldn't been wondering this if the feeling would of been mutual..i mean...he's moving away right? the moron shoulda said something to you by now if feel strong for you!!! i mean, if i be a guy, and i feel in-love with an awesome girl, i wouldn't just move away w/o telling her nothing! Truth is guys can be just like i called him: morons! hahahaha so, i'm just guessing, you're the only one that could of said the truth actually.
good luck!
PS: if he goes away and tells you nothing, well..best is he goes away! u deserve better then ;)
2007-02-06 10:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by arielxs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to open up and tell him. im speaking the truth. you will regret it soso much if you dont. expecially if hes moving. and think of the brightside.. if he doesnt feel the samw ( which from waht you've siad im almost certain he does ) hes moving! right? so you can jst start over with someone new, and not have to look at rejection in the face. hope i helped hun!;)
2007-02-06 10:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, dont take up the label because it will probably ruin ur relationship (thats what happened 2 me), and just tell him. if hes been there for u 2 talk, then he'll let u tell him nething. just tell him u want to talk about stuff like that b4 he moves! kjo
2007-02-06 10:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you would just be to talk to guys that are in your league and just make friends with them...once you make friends with them you will get more comfortable about talking to men...face your fear on this one...it will be worth it believe me! GOOD LUCK!
2016-03-29 08:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel cuz you never know. He might wanna stay here for you.
2007-02-06 10:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by coconc93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all you have to is tell him that you've always liked him. because the same thing happended to me it was very sad man ) :
2007-02-06 10:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dashia M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before i can answer this i must know how old are you?
2007-02-06 10:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going really slow but make it obvious. tell him how you feel. you must try to do that while you are alone with him.
2007-02-06 10:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by inna2507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋