Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

We used to be able to see each other on the weekends but now we have 200 miles between us and we can't see each other as often. He tells me that he plans to marry me. He is away at college studying to be an Electrical Engineer and I am in school back home. When he comes to visit he tells me about places that he has gone and how great it is there. Then he says "God, there are so many girls!" Now I have heard this more than once. How can he love me so much and say something like this. Is this just a young guy talking or is there something to this? Remember, he has said this to me more than once.

2007-02-06 10:47:17 · 9 answers · asked by and P 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter with my ex-wife and am getting remarried this year. I live in NY. Does my ex-wife have any entitlement to what my fiance makes once we're married?

2007-02-06 10:46:51 · 17 answers · asked by transformerzdealer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i always ask my mom if i could go to my friends house because i am dating my friends brother so she keeps saying maybe and my boyfriends mom does not like me and so he can't come over here.
what should i do i miss him so much! the only time we see each other is on the bus

2007-02-06 10:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by omg 2 in Singles & Dating

I would appreciate it if I got this from a boys point of veiw. do guys want chocolates a teddy bear wat? i need suggestions

2007-02-06 10:46:10 · 10 answers · asked by mdmel 3 in Singles & Dating

we can't do this all the time.

2007-02-06 10:45:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-06 10:45:21 · 4 answers · asked by Aree M 1 in Singles & Dating

I use to go to Merrimack College in MA. I had a girlfriend who I was with for about a year, my bestfriends for life, my education, and my job up there. Our relationship started to hit **** and I started to like someone else who I always tended to have more fun with. Basically to make a long story short my girlfriend finds out that i have been talking to someone else and shes not happy, even though i dont no why she gave a **** maybe its cause i did everything for her stupid ***, but she decides that her and her friends are going to get together and make up some phoney stories, about being hit, beer thrown at them ect. Now when i sit down and listen to 4 girls "statements" saying I hit them and threw beer at them ect, in this day and age I really dont have a chance. In the end I end up kicked out of school and arrested. And the day before this happens she calls at 2am trashed, lost and needs a ride, and yes I picked her up. what would you do to this bltch with no soul or heart? thankyou

2007-02-06 10:45:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is considered a separation? My husband is away right now and will be for a while. Am I allowed to act single since he is away. What are the terms as far as marriage goes, if the spouse is by herself for 5 years or so? What would an attorney call this situation if any? I want to stay married to my husband but I just don't like this alone time that I am dealing with. I want to be able to have a friend to talk to and go out with at times. Thanks, Serious answers please

2007-02-06 10:44:43 · 42 answers · asked by chyna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Five years ago, my Dad took a knife to my throat and tried to run over me with his car, it wasn't the first time either, he's a complete psycho. I decided to cut him out of my life for good. My Aunt thinks that I should see him again and that it doesn't matter what he does to me, I must respect him because he's my father. What do you think?

2007-02-06 10:44:41 · 41 answers · asked by Jonny D 3 in Family

2007-02-06 10:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if you could give me a males point of view on this.

My ex of 6 years walked out on me and my son in july came back after 6 weeks and then left again just over a month ago.The first time he told me he had fallen out of love but this time we haven`t really spoke and he told me he was leaving by voice text and over the phone,the night he came over for his stuff(sunday,after being away since the friday after work)he had a taxi waiting on him outside to take him to his mate from works,whee he is apparently staying.He has told me he isn`t seeing anyone else and thats not why he left us but part of me just doesn`t believe him.

He says he had to leave me or he would have ended up cheating on me.He always stayed out most weekends taking drugs and drinking while i was at home with our son who has learning difficulties.

I know we`re never going to get back and i wouldn`t want him anyway,but just can`t understand how a dad can walk away not just once but twice from his son?

2007-02-06 10:43:50 · 19 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 10:43:27 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who would you find more attractive.....a gal that is top heavy(apple shaped) or a gal that is bottom heavy(pear shaped)?? And why ? Thanks:)

2007-02-06 10:43:18 · 13 answers · asked by caligirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Since now I have decided my separated guy is just pain in my life (my previous post). How should I close out with him? Answer his call and say "no" or never answer his calls. Today I wrote all the negative things he has done and depressed me and realized I never want him in my life. What should I do?

2007-02-06 10:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Singles & Dating

girls who r mean to them and r really snitty

2007-02-06 10:42:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one night we was at home celebrating the birth of our 4th daughter, we had some friends round, i went round to my next door neighbour to ask if she wanted the music turned down and she said it was fine she invited me in for a drink so to be friendly i went i didn't realise the time everybody else had left my house except my best mate she came round and told me that my husband had tried it on. he said he couldn't remember doing it and apologised she just shrugged it off. since then he has been going out every wednesday and friday wearing aftershave and deodrant, my best mate came round the other day and told me she was six weeks pregnant and he dissappeared how do i find out whats going on. help please

2007-02-06 10:42:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

date a guy shorter than u

2007-02-06 10:40:39 · 22 answers · asked by biscuit064 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, ok, this is going to sound pathetic. But.....there's this guy I like. I'm sort of scared to talk to him. For two reasons.
1. He knows I like him.

2. Idk if he likes me back.
I'm stuck under embarrasment here ppl. And Idk what to do. Help me plz.

2007-02-06 10:40:29 · 8 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Singles & Dating

I haven't had the best history with my mother in-law. I keep telling myself I shouldn't care so much. For years I've had a definite impression she truly doesn't like or care for me, but just just deals with me cause of her son and grandchildren. I've spent mad time trying to avoid her but I always end of talking and confiding in her like she's my mom. My own mother has always been very busy, and introverted. I hate to admitt I care cause no matter how I try to show I care, I feel she could careless. I hate to admitt I want her to care about me. Should I just be numb?

2007-02-06 10:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is the same age, and he madly wants a baby with her, they have been together since they were 18 but im nervous that her getting married and having a baby now is way too young and im worried that she will regret it, i know its her decision and i have and never will say anything to hurt her, but for my own thoughts, id like to know what others think of my oppinion, even if you tell me to but out, it will help...anything to stop me worrying!! :-)

2007-02-06 10:40:14 · 29 answers · asked by sabina 1 in Weddings

i know he likes me because he said he was getting me a gift for valentines day and sending it to my class even though i just started talking to him today.

I DONT LIKE HIM ONLY MAYBE AS FRIENDS BUT IT WILL NEVER BE ANYTHING MORE

HOW TO LET HIM DOWN WITH OUT BREAKING HIS HEART

2007-02-06 10:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 10:39:44 · 5 answers · asked by Jen L 2 in Singles & Dating

my soon to be husband his x wife asked him if she can come to our wedding. I understand that my three step daughters will be a part of our wedding day and marriage. I say the ***** can show up but my sisters and family say no.

2007-02-06 10:38:52 · 36 answers · asked by ARACELI T 2 in Weddings

wat does it mean when a guy looks at u but never talks to u does it means that they like u? Its my brother's friend not a close friend just a friend and i kind of like him so what do i do? i need some advice...

2007-02-06 10:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is rather prude. We have been dating for over 8 months, and I want to move the relationship foward. Also, her parents are very strict. For the first time in my life, I don't know what to do. Any help would be awsome.

2007-02-06 10:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 35 year old male, I never dated until I was 27, dated a few people and found a girl that I stayed with for 7 years. She's gone now (passed away). So here I am out dating, and doing things again. the only problem is, I'm doing things I should've done in my early twenties and hanging out at clubs that I should have been done with years ago. Having a great time though, I even dance now all of sudden. But naturally, when I go out, I'm surrounded by people in their early twenties, and the women I find myself attracted to are early to mid twenties - Nobody my age is doing what I'm doing it seems, and I seem to have missed my 20's for some reason. I just don't want to look like an stalker when I start talkin to these women. Outside of work I'm involved in music and enjoy what is current, at least with the metal/goth/electronic genre, so I'm certainly not out of touch to anyone a bit younger than me.

2007-02-06 10:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by wwhateverrr 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 10:37:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey im 17 and im a girl im around 5'8 and im wondering if guys find it more or less attractive for a girl to be tall or short.. im attractive enough, (not to sounds conceited) but feel self conciouse of my height.... just wondering what guys think say ur favorite height for a girl

2007-02-06 10:37:30 · 9 answers · asked by kayla c 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now I am talking to my x girlfriend. We broke up in 2005 because I found she was cheating on me with another woman from California. Now she is asking for me back, and also she says she has changed her negative ways. Should I forgive her and give it another shot at love?

2007-02-06 10:37:04 · 6 answers · asked by a hot lesbian stud 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 10:36:35 · 4 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating