i know he likes me because he said he was getting me a gift for valentines day and sending it to my class even though i just started talking to him today.
I DONT LIKE HIM ONLY MAYBE AS FRIENDS BUT IT WILL NEVER BE ANYTHING MORE
HOW TO LET HIM DOWN WITH OUT BREAKING HIS HEART
2007-02-06
10:39:50
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godschild
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i dont want to hurt his feelings
i almost cried because i feel like i might hurt him and he is a nice person
2007-02-06
10:48:37 ·
update #1
Unfortunately some hurt feelings are inevitable here--the best you can hope for is to reduce the hurt.
Exactly how you let him down depends on your situation, but "I'd like us to be just friends" or "I don't want to take our friendship in that direction" would be a good start if you really would like to be his friend.
If not, you have a couple of other options. "I'm not available" is all you really need to say if you don't know him well and don't want to pursue a friendship. (That can mean you're really not available--or that you're just not available TO HIM.)
Or you could just tell him you're seeing someone else. Again, depending on your situation a "little white lie" could be the least painful solution.
2007-02-06 10:53:48
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answered by marisalwood 3
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Be honest, he might mistake your kindness for affection. Let him know your true feelings now and you'll save him a worst heart ache down the road.
2007-02-06 18:45:00
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answered by luis l 1
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well, u could just not get him sumthing for valentines day, he might get the picture.... if not, and that doesnt work, u will just have to tell him urself.
2007-02-06 18:44:45
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answered by book worm 5
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Tell him that your husband won't approve gifts from the strangers.
2007-02-06 18:43:44
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answered by Anonymous
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if he likes you, you'll break his heart anyways, just try to be as nice and calm as possible. and make sure that you'll be his friend ;)
2007-02-06 18:44:07
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answered by mister M 2
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Tell him you have a guy and he goes to another school
2007-02-06 18:44:10
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answered by kellygirl 3
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get a super hott boyfriend..
jk
just tell him; if he is a good friend he will understand
2007-02-06 18:43:31
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answered by jpstar30 4
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tell him that u have given ur heart someone else.
2007-02-06 18:44:48
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answered by love m 2
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Tell him u like someone else or that u r seeing someone else
2007-02-06 18:42:17
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answered by Onie 4
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just tell him the truth!!!!!! would you like someone to give you a crap story?!?!
2007-02-06 18:46:27
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answered by stop it 5
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