Since now I have decided my separated guy is just pain in my life (my previous post). How should I close out with him? Answer his call and say "no" or never answer his calls. Today I wrote all the negative things he has done and depressed me and realized I never want him in my life. What should I do?
2007-02-06 10:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Email him a copy of all the reasons why your not with him. I think he should get the idea after that!!!
2007-02-06 10:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by devilishdame1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a very smart gal, and I hope others would take your example into consideration. You owe no-one anything! You can be booted around only so much, and to call someone to say you've had enough, well is it worth your time? That to me would be giving him his last bit of control. You have finally decided your better than that, so keep going!! Good luck to a much better life I am sure!!
2007-02-06 18:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely answer ONE call from him and gently, but firmly, tell him you don't see things working out with him and you wish to stop all contact with him. Tell him he will be happier with someone who can appreciate him. After this, stop answering his calls -- you are officially off the hook. If he keeps calling, he is harassing you. Good luck!
2007-02-06 18:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Roberta B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should tell him...cause u might just end up hurting ur self if u wait to long
2007-02-06 18:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why keep it within you?
You need to tell him how you feel.
2007-02-06 18:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him a scum sucking pig
2007-02-06 18:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him!
2007-02-06 18:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋