I have NO idea why! When he asked me out a couple weeks ago, he was like,"Don't tell ANYBODY this, but would you like to go out with me?" I didn't understand why he doesn't want anyone to know. He is a really nice guy, and he is never mean to anyone, but if he's saying that cuz he's ashamed of it, then I am really hurt! All my friends and the whole rest of the school is like,"Everyone hates him, he is sooo weird and he is sooo not hot!" I really dont care what other ppl say, cuz I am only going out w/ him for his personality, but why is he like this? And we NEVER talk, if he's around his friends, he completly ignores me and runs away. But when we're together, he is sooo sweet! I know he doesnt want to be mean.
2007-02-06 10:09:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is either dating someone else or ashamed of you. There is no reason why you should be hiding if he doesnt want to tell anyone than dump his sorry a s s
2007-02-06 10:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's just really self conscious and doesn't want people to talk about your new relationship. In school people can be really harsh on new couples, and it can be like, the 'big' news for a few days and maybe he just doesn't want all the gossip that can come when people start to go out. If like you say, he's not popular, I imagine the prospect of having a lot of the school talk about him is not an attractive one. I doubt he's embarrassed of you, and if he's going out with you he obviously really likes you. I'd keep going out with him, and maybe when you've been going out longer he will feel confident enough to tell everyone.
2007-02-06 10:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you sure he is your boyfriend???? Did he ask you to be in a exclusive relationship or are you reading to much into somebody who wants to hang with you when they feel like it??? Hmmmmm...because if you are indeed in a relationship then he is embarrassed of you or the situation. Not in the sense that he may think your ugly but in the sense that he just does not want to deal with people questioning or giving him a hard time about you. He may be very shy and not wanting to have live out his personal life in front of people who tend to ridicule him to begin with. You might want to ask him because if its because of other people you just might be able to get past that but if it's because he is being a sneaky pig who wants to be with you in secret and not have to answer to any other potential "girlfriends" then you need to kick him to the curb....
2007-02-06 10:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by devilishdame1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to protect you, is my feeling. Think about it, if someone form school found out you were going out with him, they may see think that you've lowered yourself to him. He just wants you to stay in the same place on the social ladder.
2007-02-06 10:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guys point of view............your description of him makes him sound as if you really like him...ask him how he feels about you...then tell him hoow you feel...maybe theres a good reason why he acts this way...but maybe theres not too...if hes not liked by his classmates he may not want you to be disliked for associating with him...orrrrrr...maybe he is ashamed of you...in that case,you need to move on...but sit him down privately...and talk to him............good luck......be careful....i wish you love...
2007-02-06 10:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably very afraid he will be hazed or teased for dating you. If you can, honor the request and ask him about it when you get to know him a bit better.
2007-02-06 10:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me. It hurts a lot and he will keep doing it. He has something to hide. You better find out what it is he is hiding. I would advice you not to go out with him.
2007-02-06 10:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by sweethoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Tell him that if you don't know the reason why then it has to be over..
2007-02-06 10:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him why? That seem a bit odd to me. What could be his reasoning for this.
2007-02-06 10:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be upset, he obviously doesn't repect you or really care about you because if he did he would want to shout to the world "I really like this woman"
2007-02-06 10:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋