If your talking with a girl, what are some of the signs that will tell you she's interested? Have had buddies all but heckle me for apparently missing out on golden opportunities.
2007-02-06 10:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Rdude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A big one is the the "touch barrier". If she touchs you, your in buddy!
2007-02-14 10:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Rdude! There are a lot of signals that aren't visual, but vocal or social (there are some that involve scent, too, but human noses aren't that sensitive, so unless you're a bloodhound, we'll leave those out).
BTW - "golden opportunities?" Since I don't know "opportunities for WHAT exactly," let's assume you mean "to better my acquaintance with a nice young lady."
If she's interested, first off, she hangs around. Even if your buddy goes to the bathroom. And she talks. To you. She also listens to what you say and responds (as opposed to, for example, you saying "this seems like a nice place" and her saying "Yeah," or "Yeah. So are you and your buddy from around here?" If she mentions your buddy and he's not there, that's where her interest lies - with him.
Also, learn to listen, really listen, to voices so you can hear the changes when someone (male or female) loses interest. The voice kind of goes flat, answers are short and don't lead to anything. If you find yourself laboring to find something to say in response to what she said, chances are, she ain't into you.
If she finds you appealing in some way, her voice will be livelier, not forced (forced cheerfulness sounds like someone laughing through clenched teeth - strained),warm. The conversation will flow instead of having to be hauled places.
She might touch your arm, hand, shoulder or back, or find a reason to touch you face or hair. Girls who are attracted often find reasons, even silly, transparent ones, to touch.
Now none of this is 100% guaranteed - people do fake things, after all, because some people need to feel attractive to everyone they meet. Also, she might really find you attractive but be unable to act on it for some reason (boyfriend/illness/whatever), so try not to take rejection personally. These are still pretty reliable guidelines. Good luck!
2007-02-06 10:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girls usually smile a lot when around the person they like, they become flirtatious even if they don't even know it. They would talk to a guy more often then they should, unless the girl is really shy, then only for a moment. It really just depends on the girl, not all girls give off the same signs.
2007-02-06 10:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by nOvEmBeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl is interested if she angles her body towards you, plays with her hair a lot, laughs a lot, touches you in a way that's familiar, really takes interest in anything you do. If she concentrates very intently on what you are saying. If she asks her friends about you. If she finds ways to be around you.
2007-02-14 10:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by redneckgrrrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you.
Thing was, I think I didn't notice or take advantage of women who showed an interest because I wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship. Too many abandonment issues from my childhood...
but here's what I think. Just because a woman flirts with you doesn't mean you should date them. I think you should look for women you would like to date and ask them out. Maybe the women who are flirting with you aren't right for you and you're ignoring them?
Anyway, when the right girl flirts with you, you'll know it.
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-14 09:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um first of all, if ur blind, then how can u type? And How can u tell what she's doing. Sry. I like to be a smart a**. Pay attention to body language. If she starts to blush, and giggles really girly then she likes u.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 10:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to the girls around you, its pretty easy to tell; if a girl smiles everytime she speaks to you. and she continualy looks at you even when other people are talking She likes you. Look her in the eyes and smile. When she smiles with a sort-of downward look, Bingo!
2007-02-14 06:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by mojojojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might flirt wwith you, like touch her hair, she might always try to talk to you. But mainly, you will really feel that she likes you. She might even hit on you. Notice every single thing she does, and take them all into consideration.
2007-02-06 10:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by inna2507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch how they sit, walk or how much they touch their hair, men are suposed to be visual creatures, but as modern as our society has become, we have forgoten our instict when it comes to hunting, therefore we are all frustrated with mixed signals. I would tell you to think primal but be respectfull.
2007-02-14 10:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Zolena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok most girls
- try to avoid looking at, talk to- the guy.
- attempt to be rude to him deliberately with no reason.
- get nervous when seeing him.
so if you notice all or one of these... be sure shes interested in you.
2007-02-14 02:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋