Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

People tell me everday that it's wrong. That I'm going to hell if I don't stop. What should I do? Should I keep doning what I've been doing or stop before the it's to late? Help, I really need some advice.

2007-02-05 06:59:45 · 3 answers · asked by !!!Hopie's Dreams!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I got pregnant by my ex and whilst i was 8 months gone he got off with one of my closest friends.

I do not have anything to do with her anymore and I kicked him out of the house. Once she was born he hardly made an effort an after just 3 months he stopped seeing her completely. He didn't offer me anything to help raise her and now as a single mother I am struggling with all the costs.

Just recently after 8 months he has decided he want to see her again - so for the sake of my daughter not resenting me in the future I have allowed him to see her.
He has come round once and now feels as though we are back to normal. I do not feel comfortable with this but can't turn him away. He has gone back to his old ways with me which now makes me cringe. He is not offering a penny still and just expects to see her when he pleases.

I do not know what I can do because I don't want my daughter to resent me in the future yet he doesn't deserve to be a father to her.
What can I do ?

2007-02-05 06:59:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 3 sisters and 8 brothers,and being a female i,d haved to go with the sisters.but still love all my brothers.

2007-02-05 06:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

3 months into my pregnancy i lost the desire to have sex. People kept telling me "it will come back don't worry just give it time" well my baby is 4 months old now and i still don't want to have sex its like i can't get turned on anymore NOTHING does it! and its causing issues between my husband and myself, i mean i want to get turned on but its like my drive is broken

HELP! does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-02-05 06:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by NewMama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 20 and moved in with my bf in september. every so often he used to tell me i should move back home. then before christmas he broke up with me and went out with another girl, then the next morning called and said he wanted me back. christmas he gave me a promise ring. in jan i found out he was still talking and hanging out with the other girl. what should i do??

2007-02-05 06:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by kim 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 06:56:34 · 8 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

yo, my bf dad look just like him 'cept he older and sexy. anyways now my bf know i gots a crush on his dad n he actin SO MEAN toward him and me. I'm not bout to boink his pops but yo, what my bf prob? he actin like it a competition betweens him and his pops! what goin on...and yeah his dad is hot too. it normal for me to have crush like this?

2007-02-05 06:56:15 · 14 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 06:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys ever talk to women around town?How about people in general do you talk to people when your out?I mean as potential friends.
People seem so closed off.

2007-02-05 06:55:53 · 15 answers · asked by Rightfield_99 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked my husband that and he said he wont just stand in front of a bullet for me, he says saving me is different but just stand in front of a gun , no one should do that. I think hes wrong . Would you do it for you spouse?

2007-02-05 06:55:41 · 32 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We both go to school and we talk once about our school history and religion. She told me she used to go to private school and had to wear a dress. And she didn't like it. So she now goes to public school. And are conversation ended when the bell rang. She said i'm a loser and she walk away and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed toward to another class. Why do you think she called her self a loser for?
She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and she was behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright and that was it. So do you think she likes me? Or is she at least interested in me?

2007-02-05 06:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So Im agreeing to let my x have my kids f/t just until I get my life going. I've stayed at home with them ever since they we're born. Almost 14 yrs. On Wed Im bringing them over to Dads and starting a new very scary life, (moving and a new job) Its role reversal time, i plan to make myself very successful and get them back half time if not more. I just pray Im doing the right thing. Anyone been a similiar situation? How did it work out for you?

2007-02-05 06:55:22 · 16 answers · asked by kayla k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ANY CREATIVE IDEAS??

Should we just make it a little earlier in the day? The only thing is it's going to be warm outside. The later the better.

I should mention that we DO plan on having a tent, but the funds are low so we're looking to cut back. We're paying for everything ourselves and we have thought of ways to cut back on other things as well.

2007-02-05 06:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by ☼ lovethesun11 2 in Weddings

Every four days, weekly, montly, or yearly?

2007-02-05 06:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright i just want to know why when you have the chance to have someone, you don't want them, but when you can't have them you want them.

2007-02-05 06:54:09 · 6 answers · asked by word4word 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't stand my husband's friends. We've been togther 4 years and I'm a quiet person so I just keep my mouth shut. One day one of his friends said something mean to me and I said something mean back. No big deal we were never friends anyway. It was 3 months ago and i don't even think my husband knows about it. But now his immature friends are saying that they're not going to hang out with my husband anymore. My husband and these certain friends weren't even involed. My husband is big on friends and I just want to tell these people to quit being immature, it didn't even involve you, so don't say your not going to hang out with my husband, who you've known for years. But on the other hand I really don't wan to say anything because they're bad friends to begin with and I'd rather they not call anymore. What's you thoughts?

2007-02-05 06:53:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anyone 4 in Friends

I really like this guy (we'll call him E) we're kinda friends and he's nice and sweet and we have so many things in common but he won't ask me out because his dork of a cousin (we'll call him J)has had a crush on me since like kindergarten and he won't let it go. J sometimes stocks me and follows me to class and waits for me after school like everyday but he annoys the heck out of me. I really like E and i tryed to ask him to the sweethearts dance but he sayed no because of his cousin. How Do I Tell J I Don't Like Him And To Get Over Me, And How Can I Convince E To Ask Me Out?
Please Help
P.S. Why do i have to like such loyal, sweet guys

2007-02-05 06:53:17 · 17 answers · asked by kacilaine 1 in Singles & Dating

Every girls I fall for, they broke my heart and left. I was thinking that girls love guys who care for them, who are honest, but it's all the way around. I am disappointed.

2007-02-05 06:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i started chatting with this girl on line like a week ago. she gave me her phone number like four days ago and i was wondering how long i should wait before i call her

2007-02-05 06:52:44 · 8 answers · asked by lostwords8283 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.

2007-02-05 06:52:35 · 5 answers · asked by Moll 3 in Friends

Ive been waiting on my ex boyfriend to make a decision on what will happen to us. I know it takes time but when will he give me an answer and will i get a second chance. Im willing to do whatever it takes to make him happy even if it means letting go.

2007-02-05 06:52:22 · 2 answers · asked by Pretty Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if I am being overly sensitive. I am dating a guy who is of another race and have been for some time now. I have introduced him to my friends and family but he has yet to introduce me to his. I really like him and we get along just fine but, how come he has not introduced me to anyone but his friends. We even talked about our future and getting married. I brought it up and he said he just hasn't gotten around to it. I am beginning to think that he doesn't want his family to know or they already know and they told him they don't want to meet me. I don't want to push him away but its bothering me. What do you think? and what if they don't want to meet me because I'm black? I doubt that we cam make it work if his family doesn't want me in their family.

2007-02-05 06:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by h8ucrazee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 06:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, i am in love with this really awesome guy, he's almost everything i could ever ask for, but the problem is, my ex still has feelings for me. I can't tell anyone that I'm going out with this really awesome guy, and my ex still keeps asking me out and he won't leave me alone. I want to tell him to, but then I'll break his heart, and make him sad and angry at me, and all my friends will hate me 4ever! HELP!! I think I'm a B****!!!!!!

2007-02-05 06:50:35 · 9 answers · asked by suzieh870 1 in Singles & Dating

state ur fav position, and why would u prefer it over other positions

2007-02-05 06:50:16 · 2 answers · asked by beeatch984 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that its a waste of money, who really ever bothers to look at them ever again. I am trying to decide if I want to do one or not for my May wedding,

2007-02-05 06:49:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really like him, and he all ready went out with someone, and now i can't really tell if he wants or not.

2007-02-05 06:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by ?______? 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and im pretty sure he likes me back...but im scared to tell him i like him because im afriad ill cheat on him like i did my last 2 boyfriends because im a huge flirt and i cant help it.

2007-02-05 06:49:19 · 5 answers · asked by cheerleadingfobfan 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boyfriend's friend keeps telling me to have s e x wit my boyfriend. his friend says tht he wants to do it wit me. if my boyfriend wanted to do it wouldnt he tell me on his own?? wat should i do about this??

2007-02-05 06:48:07 · 4 answers · asked by Meg* 1 in Friends

Sections like "Single and Dating", pople out there are not helping others instead they are making some rude comments. That is unacceptable, yahoo should do something about that.

2007-02-05 06:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating