Every girls I fall for, they broke my heart and left. I was thinking that girls love guys who care for them, who are honest, but it's all the way around. I am disappointed.
2007-02-05 06:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know why but most girls claim they want a nice guy but they are really looking for a good looking asshole at least thats the conclusion i came to cuz they dump the nice guy for an asshole
2007-02-05 06:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, you're disappointed in everything! OK. So girls are mean and break your heart.You always have to look at your role in things. Women who are happy and content don't just up and leave. There is a deeper issue here.Are you clingy? Do you smother people? Are you a judgemental, controlling guy (it sounds like you are from your input) Think back to how you treated them. Is your version of " caring" for women keeping them under lock and key? It's difficult to offer advice until you provide more beta. Give us something to work with. You may be surprised at the quality of the advice you can get on this site,
2007-02-05 07:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a couple of reasons for your heartache. Might be hanging out with the wrong girls, or you might be falling in love too easily. Don't give too much of yourself early on in the relationship. It's one thing to be committed to a relationship and another to completely lose yourself. A lot of people are like that and the end result is usually, "what did I do wrong or what the hell is her problem?" Be patient. The real thing will come along. You sound young so take your time. Slow it down a bit. Hopefully this helps you out.
2007-02-05 07:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mature ones love men who care for them and are honest. The immature ones are the ones who don't. You're luckier than you know that they left you, because if they didn't show their immaturity that way, then it'll come out some other way. (Like obsessive jealousy, desperate neediness, or stalking.) Some day you'll meet the right one.
2007-02-05 06:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls you are dating are immature if what you say is true about being honest and caring. Are you considerate, or are you narcissistic? Girls like to know that you think of them often.
Don't give up. They're out there.
2007-02-05 06:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true girls like guys who are honest and care but they like someone whos not afraid to break the rules and is hard to get thats what makes us interested!
2007-02-05 06:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by lilmis_94cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every girl is mean i think you are just falling for the wrong girls. shes out there just dont put us all in the same catagory and your right those are two qualities id love in a guy so babe dont change,have patience,and chin up best of luck to u
2007-02-05 07:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is afraid to love, jaded and have tormented hearts. U have to be hurt multiple times to appreciate the one for u...thats how u recognize her..she wont be like them lol
2007-02-05 06:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do. you jsut arent picking the right girls for you. dont be sad. want a cookie?
2007-02-05 06:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋