I can't stand my husband's friends. We've been togther 4 years and I'm a quiet person so I just keep my mouth shut. One day one of his friends said something mean to me and I said something mean back. No big deal we were never friends anyway. It was 3 months ago and i don't even think my husband knows about it. But now his immature friends are saying that they're not going to hang out with my husband anymore. My husband and these certain friends weren't even involed. My husband is big on friends and I just want to tell these people to quit being immature, it didn't even involve you, so don't say your not going to hang out with my husband, who you've known for years. But on the other hand I really don't wan to say anything because they're bad friends to begin with and I'd rather they not call anymore. What's you thoughts?
2007-02-05 06:53:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anyone 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't need to say anything to the friends unless they confront you. If your husband wants to discuss why you dislike them, then of course, tell him. Otherwise, do not make him choose and accept who he chooses as friends unless it puts a strain on your marriage.. You don't have to like them, just accept his choice to like them.
2007-02-05 07:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
your husbands friends are a lot more than immature. they sound like a few boys who got there hand cough in the cookie jar. although you can not chose your husbands friends you have the right to state your opinion. and if they don't like it then let them pout at there homes not at your house. i am sure if you tell you husband abut what is going on he will understand.
2007-02-05 15:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to your husband and tell him what you think about them and i would just go along w/it or if your husband agrees w/you then great!!!
2007-02-05 15:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your husband know!(If he really loves you he will understand...)
2007-02-05 14:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋