Do guys ever talk to women around town?How about people in general do you talk to people when your out?I mean as potential friends.
People seem so closed off.
2007-02-05 06:55:53 · 15 answers · asked by Rightfield_99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is tough to approach women in a store or mall without looking like you are looking for a "quickie"!
It is just as tough for a girl talking to a guy- To initiate conversation- the easiest thing to do is say HI and smile- don't come on strong but be somewhat assertive.
2007-02-05 07:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I notice women all the time. I often shop at supermarkets and clothing stores. Women lately don't like to be stared at and so I give them a 5 second look and then smile when I understand that she has an ability that leaves me speechless. Do you enjoy be observed? If so let me know. I will try to be at the same store you are at at the same time.
2007-02-05 07:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vlad24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people try to avoid having strangers lear at them and troll around after them. Also, stores are not places to seek a social life, they are for shopping. Someone should tell that to the checker at Bath and Bodyworks who made me wait in line for 15 minutes while she put on her flirt act to the guy in front of me, then rang up my order so fast she forgot three items. Ditz!
I think guys may "check out" pretty girls in public places like that, but it would be dangerous to have them approach you. Better off socializing through friends, school connections, clubs.
2007-02-05 07:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Signilda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I'm totally ignored and sometimes I'm chatting away, laughing with everybody. Depends on what kind of a mood I'm in that day. When I feel upbeat (and pretty!) I'm like a magnet, chatting and joking about little things, whatever, to everyone. When I have things on my mind (stress) or I feel ugly, I am invisible!! It depends on all depends on YOU. I find that people are always open and receptive and welcoming to meeting, chatting with a friendly, upbeat person. But don't wait for people to come to you and make the first move!! :)
2007-02-05 07:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about confidence. Unless youre a hopeless romantic that believes in picking up hot dates randomly, you only get looked at by males if ur really really goodlooking. But ive found that thats only a matter of how you walk and how you exert yourself. its all about placing yourself in the right situations with friends. but i empathise with you, when i was in my "hang out on a field getting pissed" days there was this regular 30yr old guy that would come and hang out with us, and it was literally cos it was so hard for him to make friends when he moved house. But i couldnt help feeling that he would have made more permanent friends if he had gone to a bar?
and people are very closed off today. its rubbish.
move abroad.
2007-02-05 07:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... as a guy i can tell you that we do notice girls. just that sometimes we don't feel right just going up to talk a girl/lady because now in days everything is called harassment in the eyes of the public... so just to be on the safe side we don't do it at all. personally; when i haven't noticed what you would call pretty girls because i am in love with a girl right now... maybe the guys you have seen probably already that special someone in their life and see no point of looking at other women. well that's just me.
2007-02-05 07:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by obimath7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it depends on the area of the country. Personally, I've never had any problems. Most times, the guys and/or women are pretty respectful.
2007-02-05 06:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we notice of your presence. In my case, I use to talk to women who are interesting for me. The only thing you should have to take into account is that there are spaces where you feel able to make new friends, while there are others where you just try to preserve your privacy, because you think it would be improper to talk to anyone without having known him. For example, in the metro.
2007-02-05 07:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that in today's world people are very closed off. Guys don't just approach girls anymore. We need more of a social setting, party, church setting, etc. Good guys are out there. Don't give up!
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