Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

My bf and I have been dating for about nine months. I have no clue what to get him for upcoming valentines day, and I need some help. Now al ittle information about our relationship and him that might help. Yes, we've been dating for almost a year, but we both are kind of shy, and haven't even gotten to our first kiss. Yes this sounds sad, even to me as I say it, but thats how it is, and I'm fine with it. SO it wouldn't be appropriate to make out with him, or offer him things of a sexual nature. Also, he is a bit...nerdy. He is sooo sweet though. He loves to read, but laso to play soccer. He reads mostly fantasy books, as do I. He has the most beautiful blue eys, and blonde hair. He wears glasses and doesn't like designer fashions. so thats about it. I hope there's enough information to be helpful here. THank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to reply to this.

2007-02-04 05:19:09 · 4 answers · asked by crystalibell@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

Should i be angry at her for wanting to be with him or should i be angry at him for acting like he likes her when we both know that he doesn't at all....i don't know wt to do.

2007-02-04 05:18:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I may be in a unique situation here, so here it goes. I have had feelings for one of my best friends for quite a while but she was in a relationship for 5 or 6 years with a kid. Recently she broke up and it was a relatively bitter break up so i was giving her space and not jumping at the chance so as not to be a rebound guy. However, one of her other friends, apparently didn't feel the same way and is trying to hook up with her. She tells me constantly that she is kinda interested in him but isn't ready yet for a relationship and he does occasionally get on her nerves. Nevertheless you can really feel something (or maybe its just me) and I am worried that if i don't act at this inopportune moment that i may lose my chance. At the same time i don't want to damage my good friendship, I don't have to many great friendships most are just backstabbers so i don't confide too deeply in them. What should I do? Any advice??????????????????

2007-02-04 05:17:26 · 22 answers · asked by Lost...i think 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a one night stand (well 4 actually) with my boyfriends best friend. I love my boyfriend but I cant get his friend out of my head! He is amazing and and so passionate. I think im falling for him.
What should I do?

2007-02-04 05:16:51 · 24 answers · asked by *Tara* 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i do if my friend asked this boy out to go out with me and he said no but he asked me to ask another girl out

2007-02-04 05:16:03 · 13 answers · asked by blueeyemonkey.2345 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you date them if they are in an open relationship?

2007-02-04 05:15:59 · 31 answers · asked by inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and when I was 4 my parents got divorced. It didn't bother me for a long time, because I saw him very very often. 3 years ago me and my mom moved to USA and she found a guy she wants to be married with. It was OK when he came once a week and went home then and stuff but it bothers me now that he comes every night after work!! He only sleeps, watches some TV or eats. My mom spends her time with im and I'm sitting alone in my bedroom. I can'tget used to a new way of life. I know my mom is happy wit him and she gets mad everytime I tell he how I feel about him, but she says that no matter what she'll be with him forever. Sometimes I feel like coming back to my father or runing away from home. Her new guy doesnt speak english and I cant even talk to him. I just dont like him WAT SHOULD I DO??:(((((

2007-02-04 05:15:08 · 9 answers · asked by gurlyy 1 in Family

Ladies, when you hand out your email... does it just mean you are not that interested?
And now that I do have your email, (since you didn't write your number), should I really use it? I mean... every1 knows that email is impersonal a basically creepy, but if you don't give me your number, then u really don't want to b asked out, or do you?

2007-02-04 05:14:00 · 7 answers · asked by chocolateknight69 3 in Singles & Dating

She is a bartender at a club i go to. I know her job is to be nice to me. But she seems to be a lot nicer than most of the other girls that work thier. We do occassionaly chit chat when she is not too busy, of course most of the time she is really busy . One night we did do a dance together when she was not busy. It is hard to find her not busy so i can ask her out too. So any suggestions how i can accomplish asking her out when she is so busy. Maybe I should just wait and try to see when it is not so busy. So the whole porcess is not rushed. She usually works Wednesday through Saturday night. So I know she would probably be working Valentines day too. Any suggestions ladies would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-04 05:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was literally just thinking cos the topic of prostitutes came on tv. If they provide u with a service and you were not happy with it, could you request a refund? Surely you would still have consumer rights????

2007-02-04 05:12:56 · 2 answers · asked by jamincoe 3 in Singles & Dating

who hit you in the GUT and why? could you breathe?

2007-02-04 05:12:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend's birthday is coming up this week and I asked her if she wants anything special and she told me that she would like it if I wore one of her thongs under my clothes for a day. She is a fairly sexual person in general so I wasn't relatively shocked by this request and I kind of took to it actually. We haven't "sealed the deal" yet but I think that this might be her way of showing me that she wants to do something soon. The idea seems kind of hot to me and I can't help but wonder what kind of "reward" I might earn by doing it, but the only thing is I'm afraid that someone will notice at school or at work (even though it will be under my pants) and I'll be publicly humiliated. What should I do? Any advice appreciated!

2007-02-04 05:12:20 · 19 answers · asked by ILuvTaraReid 2 in Singles & Dating

he is sweet wen its just me and him but wen we r w// other ppl he is rude and a little cruel and i think he might like me but is to afraid to ask me out!!!help plz this is a seroius ?

2007-02-04 05:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend wants to know if she is hot. the only picture i have of her is with me. she is on the left and i am on the right, so tell me about the girl on the left. thanx
click on the link below or enter into your url to see the picture.


C:\Documents and Settings\Joe\My Documents\Kodak Pictures\Angela\100_4653.JPG

2007-02-04 05:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by yumpoppuz 1 in Friends

i have been wit my bf for 3 months and not so shore i wana got though wit it how do i call it off without herting his feelings????

2007-02-04 05:09:59 · 15 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 05:09:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my dad is 60 going on 40! but its the big one and we are not sure what to do for his birthday! we need some ideas of not only good presents but things we can do!

any ideas?

2007-02-04 05:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am not with him because I want to be promoted, this is not the typical case. I am 32 and I have a boyfriend. I am in love with my boyfriend but the relationship is not the same now. I don't know what I need to do. I don't want to end my relationship but I am really confused with this other guy.

2007-02-04 05:08:23 · 26 answers · asked by g18honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Apart from a car of course, iv already got a new new car for her which will be comming in a month, but need to get her something for the mean while. Any thoughts??

2007-02-04 05:07:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Alright..
There is this guy at my job, but i dont like him at all. But he likes me, and he shows it alot. I mean he makes me nervous not the good nervous but the bad. One time I went down to the basement to get something and he was there..so I went into a room only to turn around he was blocking the door way smiling. So I warned him..and then I screamed so he got frieghtend and moved. So then every saturday now he always does something new now. SO yesterday he asked me to kiss him more than one time. I told him no leave me alone..so he started making perverted remarks to me..so I ingored him. Then he asked me again...I said ******* leave me alone..please. He keeps touching my arm always or something..IM sorta weirded out. What should I do??? Please some good sensible adivce.

Additional Details

40 minutes ago
Ohh..and I went to use the bathroom so I left my cellie on the table..He decided to take my phone and get my number so now he has my number and told me I have to answer when he calls..and I said oh hell no .and as of now my phone is off..what the hell is his problem???

13 minutes ago
Is it wrong to be friendly to people. I was friendly to this guy maybe he took the friendliness the wrong way..I dont know..!!

2007-02-04 05:07:20 · 20 answers · asked by Angelia 1 in Friends

my mum's having problems with her b/f, not violent or anything but he's just being an idiot, not paying his way or offering her emotional support etc. I want to have a go at him and stick up for her but my mum doesn't want me to. i'm thinking i should just have a go at him anyway and forget what my mum says. what do you reckon?

2007-02-04 05:05:50 · 22 answers · asked by colejoe79 2 in Family

2007-02-04 05:05:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I broke up after a 4 year long relationship. I loved him with all my heart and soul. he was my first true love. I gave him everything. I lost my virginity to him and we were engaged to be married.i stopped school to be with him. I constantly think about him and I just cant get over him. its been a week now and I want him back so bad. i didnt do anything wrong but he says I "lied" but he wont come out and say what I lied about. i miss the way he used to kiss me and cuddle me and how we would talk on the phone all night long. the way he could make me laugh and everything else. he says he doesnt want me back though. he was the only thing that kept me going for so long and now its gone. I cant imagine him with another girl because all I want is him to be sleeping beside everynight and him to be my husband and all that stuff. I just want the pain to go away but it just wont. its killing me and he just doesnt give a damn. wat do I do? I need him BAD or i need over him. HELP.

2007-02-04 05:05:25 · 19 answers · asked by NC_baby_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

You ask for feedback from a job as to why you aren't suitable. Why not a relationship? Obviously I'm talking about relationships that you don't know why they ended.

2007-02-04 05:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by Hel 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been a professional colleague for 3 years now. Our friendship has been casual.

We are the only ones from our department who are attending a conference away from our city ( for 3 weeks) now. We will be here for another week.

He has been very good to me and treats me like a queen. He is single and a real nice person. I know he likes me a lot. Even though i have been alone with him most times, he has not attempted to touch or kiss me. This makes me feel very respected and i think i like him. is it too early?

2007-02-04 05:04:27 · 14 answers · asked by Sue 2 in Singles & Dating

we have 2 clases 2 gather and in one of our classes the teacher pared us up 2 gather cause his partner waz movin. well in that class he he said he was glad that the teacher pared us up. and he is always ticklin and touchin me(not in bad plases) but in the other class he like totally ignores me. i took my phone to skool friday and he took a picture of him self and put it as my wall paper..what should i think??? does he not want his friends to know he likes me or am i just fun to mess around wit??? help i really need it!!!

2007-02-04 05:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by Panda . 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in December to the absolute love of my life and soul mate. We have been together for 5 years and neither of us are religious but we found a church that would marry us there anyway since we reallly wanted a beautiful setting for our wedding. I am looking for readings or passages that would be appropriate without being overly religious (a little is ok). So far we rearranged the basic ceremony the church uses and we have added a Shakespearean love sonnet and Corinthians passage. Any other ideas?

2007-02-04 05:03:45 · 4 answers · asked by Lindsay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

oh yeah - i'm asking the yahoo answers crowd, so of course they'll say yes!

2007-02-04 05:02:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 05:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by emali mithi hai 1 in Friends

I listen very well, but im not scared to talk (expressing yourself builds trust)

once you get the listening part down she will tell you everything else there is to know.

Is there anymore to it?

2007-02-04 05:01:41 · 7 answers · asked by $0.02 3 in Singles & Dating