Should i be angry at her for wanting to be with him or should i be angry at him for acting like he likes her when we both know that he doesn't at all....i don't know wt to do.
2007-02-04 05:18:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well so much depends on the relationship you all share. I personally would be majorly ticked off at her for going after your ex BF ( was he your BF for 5 years or has it been 5 years since you were together?)
Technically, he is your ex, and he can date who he wants, and your bestfriend can do the same. If you want to get back together with your BF, let him know, and go from there. You can't hold him in a holding pattern forever - keep him or let him go - or if he doesn't want you - let it go.
As for your 'friend' tell her that you still like the ex (if you do) and that you don't want her sniffing around him.
2007-02-04 05:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are jealous of your best friend. It mgiht be uncomfortable for you to see your friend with your ex, especially when you obviously still have feelings for him.
Maybe you should learn to love yourself as a single woman and stop being angry at everybody
2007-02-04 05:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by thelovethinguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure that ur ex bf are acting? or they really in love...
any way is already been 5 yr break out... if u feel like ur still wanting him badly.. talk to him.. find a chance .. set a dinner or a movie rebuild back ur relationship .... wish u luck
2007-02-04 05:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Casey Kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might actually want to be with her but he's just telling you he isn't interested in her like that. Don't believe everything he tells you... especially if you are sleeping with him still. It didn't work out for you guys so maybe it was meant to be for them to be together. You'll find someone new.
2007-02-04 05:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think is dat it is better dat she waited UNTIL YALL BROKE UP not mess up yall relatioship but if u stiill have feelings u should let both know before u get angry at ur BESTFRIEND
2007-02-04 05:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by tatiana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your ex.....I wouldnt like it as well, but it has happened to me in the past, what can you do....I just got over it, I wasn't going to loose my friendship w/the girlfriend over the EX.....Friends are forever...YOu grow in and out of realtionships alot before you find the right one..Hope this helps you!!
2007-02-04 05:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by kallieray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be angry with both of them for not respecting how this may make you feel. they both should be more sensitive to your feelings and at least discuss with you first. how much time has past is irrelevant imo.
2007-02-04 05:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no! dont let do dat cuz if shez realli ur friend she wont do dat and yall went out 4 5 yrz den u cant juz give him up like dat
2007-02-04 05:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your best friend and she knows theres still a possibility you might like him...then it really isnt right for her to like him or try to persue anything with him.liking him is one thing but if she tries to do anything with him then you should end that friendship real quick....even though you havent been with him hes still your ex and she should understand that.....
2007-02-04 07:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by micky m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He's not your bf, hasn't been your bf for 5 years. You really have no claim to him. Don't ruin your friendship over something so petty.
2007-02-04 05:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋