I am not with him because I want to be promoted, this is not the typical case. I am 32 and I have a boyfriend. I am in love with my boyfriend but the relationship is not the same now. I don't know what I need to do. I don't want to end my relationship but I am really confused with this other guy.
2007-02-04 05:08:23 · 26 answers · asked by g18honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope you know that this CEO will not leave his family for you, no matter what he says. He is using you (and maybe you are using him) regardless this is a relationship that will only cause you pain in the end. Have some self respect and end it. It sounds like you and your boyfriend need to sit down and have some serious talks about your relationship find out why things have changed. One of my favorite quotes from Dr. Phil is that "we teach people how to treat us". Always remember that. We are treated in a way that we allow. I could go on and on but the bottom line is: be the one to end it with the CEO then analyze your relationship with your boyfriend. When you end it with the CEO do it with dignity, no drama! handling this in a professional manner will likely save your career.
2007-02-04 05:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by trying to help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what goes around comes around. I hope you don't think your boss is going to leave his family for you because that's rarely the case in this kind of situation. Also both of you are betraying the trust of people you are saying you love. In your case it's your boyfriend, for him it's his wife and kids. If the relationship is not the same between you and your boyfriend then why haven't you just been honest with him about it? Even if you just say "let's take a break and see other people for a while". If you are as confused as you sound then you need to let them both go until you do get it together.
2007-02-04 05:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not here to judge you, I am just trying to give what I feel is honest advice. Then let me be short and to the point.
You should break off all contact. Get yourself a new job in a different area. possibly in another city or state. I can not stress this enough.Your CEO is a selfish immoral sleazebag, and does not deserve to be running the company. Confess to your boyfriend ASAP and ask for his forgiveness. There are only two things that can happen, he will either break up with you, or your relationship will actually improve. Lastly, learn from your mistakes, and NEVER DO IT AGAIN!
Additional:
Don't let the opinions of others on this site get you down. It is only their own guilt, fear, and shame that makes them bitter. They are probably in no position to start casting stones at you.
2007-02-04 05:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you love your boyfriend. Why would you do something that would devistate him? Would you want your boyfriend cheating on you? One thing that you have to realize is that marriage and family are sacred. You are interfering with a man and his wife and family. I hope that you are not expecting him to leave is family because chances are he will not. If he does, how can you trust a man that took marriage vows, did not live by them and then left his wife and kids behind. This is nothing but trouble. Wives are dangerous. Wives have so much to lose that some will do anything to keep their lives - assault or even murder the mistress. I really dont want you to get hurt. End it now!
2007-02-04 05:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the wives usually find out
Then the shiiiit hits the fan > > >
you will probably end up on the unemployment line . . .
the boyfriend will cut and run (maybe smack you upside the head)
his wife will clean him out in the divorce & he will blame you .
and if you are in a small town, everyone will dis you for being a homewrecker . . .
MAYBE - you should just look for a new job in another town NOW !
2007-02-04 05:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be hormonal, she may refer to her accepted practitioner. also, you do understand that it desires to be extra romantic for a women human beings than for a guy. A rub down, draw her a bubble bathtub, plant existence, romantic action picture. She is in all likelihood exhausted from the youngsters, have self belief me, been there and finished that! One thinks a stay at living house spouse elevating youthful ones is ordinary, it isn't! I went decrease back to paintings to get a destroy!! :) Take her away for the weekend, or have the youngsters stay at her mom and father or your mom and father to provide her a destroy one nighttime. perchance another weekend for one nighttime if a threat. If no longer, perchance a relied on chum or sitter. i'm making a guess it truly is extra frequently than not organic exhaustion from the youngsters, they positioned on you out bodily and mentally. She in all likelihood desires it sluggish to look after herself, she may be in a much better mood if she were given it sluggish for herself countless situations a week, inspite of if for a pair hours. tell her to bypass get her nails finished, or merely stroll round surfing on the shop even as you shop the youngsters a million or 2 situations a week. it may fit wonders! EDIT: reading the countless different solutions, have self belief me, even as a women human beings is so exhausted or maybe depressed and not in any respect into sex, the merely precise element she is doing is searching elsewhere. those are statements from those who obviously don't realize a women human beings. also, do not look elsewhere, you've a good marriage, why damage it with assistance from doing for yet another what you ought to do for her? you've gotten to really court docket yet another besides, why no longer make investments on your spouse! Like I suggested, she is merely exhausted (which may depress her somewhat and make her no longer sense acceptable both). Lighten the burden. Make her sense like the finest! Do it in love and sincerity!
2016-11-02 07:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 32 you should have your head screwed on correctly but it sounds like you don't know anything. Getting involved with a married guy who is your boss is absolutely crazy. He is using you only for sex and nothing else. Get out of that dump affair before he ruins your life completely.
2007-02-04 05:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
End it. Nothing good could come out of this. If co workers find out your reputation will be totally ruined and they will say that you slept your way to your position. Not to mention this is morally wrong. You probably should change jobs at this point, I don't see how you could get past this career wise. Make better choices at your next job.
2007-02-04 05:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad on your part. If a woman was with my husband and knew he was married I would make her life hell. It is so disrespectful. He has two children how do you think they would feel when they find out about this. Stop thinking about yourself and thinking about the people your actions will hurt. But you'll are fit for each other cheaters go well together.
2007-02-04 05:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by EMT_B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are being very selfish....what are you thinking.......at 32 you should know better. No morals , no work ethic, just what makes me feel good , and f#ck the consequences. I am surrounded by people like you everyday, (both men and women)......and there life code is.........You can go first after me!
May the fleas of a thousand camels infest deep with-in your butt crack...............and I mean that with all due respect!!!!
2007-02-04 05:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋