She is a bartender at a club i go to. I know her job is to be nice to me. But she seems to be a lot nicer than most of the other girls that work thier. We do occassionaly chit chat when she is not too busy, of course most of the time she is really busy . One night we did do a dance together when she was not busy. It is hard to find her not busy so i can ask her out too. So any suggestions how i can accomplish asking her out when she is so busy. Maybe I should just wait and try to see when it is not so busy. So the whole porcess is not rushed. She usually works Wednesday through Saturday night. So I know she would probably be working Valentines day too. Any suggestions ladies would be greatly appreciated.
2007-02-04 05:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her a note on a napkin saying that you would really like to take her out on a date, and leave your phone number too. Tell her the napkin has a note for her on it, and wait to see if she calls!
2007-02-04 05:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she brings you a drink ask her out. If she says yes, you can work out the details during a slow spot in her work schedule. If she says no, then that settles your question doesn't it. If you don't ask, you will never know. I personally won't ask a guy out, he has to ask me.
2007-02-04 13:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her if your not to busy sometime maybe we can take in a dinner or movie sometime...Give her you # and say this is in case you want to take me up on the offer..
2007-02-04 13:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up,your chance will come.when the crowd thins out then ask her to dance & while she is in your arms then ask her if you could see her on her next day off..Then slip your phone no.in her hand...Good Luck...
2007-02-04 13:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by quiz buckler scoop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take 5 minutes tell her in straight way watever u want to say.
2007-02-04 13:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared and be confident go in there knowing your going to get a date... tell her... dont ask her... lol... its cute... be like.... "I think a drink mught be nice, if you dont serve it yourself... tuesday... so and so... " you know.... and if she shoots u down... try again... If u really like her.
2007-02-04 13:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋