He has been a professional colleague for 3 years now. Our friendship has been casual.
We are the only ones from our department who are attending a conference away from our city ( for 3 weeks) now. We will be here for another week.
He has been very good to me and treats me like a queen. He is single and a real nice person. I know he likes me a lot. Even though i have been alone with him most times, he has not attempted to touch or kiss me. This makes me feel very respected and i think i like him. is it too early?
2007-02-04 05:04:27 · 14 answers · asked by Sue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's too early. Although, he could just be trying to be a gentleman, rather than attraction. You need to find out a way to tell which one is driving him to be so nice.
2007-02-04 05:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gary D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you must ask yourself is why he hasn't tried to touch or kiss you after 3 years. Maybe you haven't signaled him that this is ok. Guys predominately are chicken to make a move on someone they really care about for the fear of rejection. He is waiting for you to open up to him and make a move. The best thing to do is flirt with him if this is what you want. Too early? No! You may have cascaded into the "friends zone", which is hard to break out of because both of you think about jeapordizing your relationship as it is just fine right now. My advice is to act early if you are attracted to someone.
2007-02-04 05:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure he is not gay, or have a hidden girl somewhere..
Second make sure this is his real face, many guys are the Wonderful Price just to get to your pants, but that's up to you when to give up in that department. But if you want something serious with this guy make sure he is fro the long run and not just for one night stand.
If he is just shy then make a move, let him know you are available, or just ask him out yourself. But be careful 3 years of "casual" friendship doesn't mean you know him, you don't realy know his real face, may be there are things that will turn you off once you realy get to know him.
2007-02-04 05:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something only you can answer. If you feel ready and trust him to treat you right then follow your instincts. Good luck
2007-02-04 05:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could go for it and if you found out you like him it would be great for both of you but if u dont like him then ur just hurting him. if i was you i would just go lay in my bed and just think. what do you like about this guy and what dont you. and if all you could think of is good things that make you smile then you got ur answer. good luck
2007-02-04 05:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, btu take it slow. If you are out with him away from work it will be different when you go back. Just keep that in mind.
2007-02-04 05:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
providing he is not gay,or your not married, i'd make my move. it will be trickier to do once you go back to reality. and you don't want to regret it if you don't make your move....
you could try giving him a harmless good night peck on the cheek and he is interested he is likley to take the bait...
2007-02-04 05:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by frost7216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be afraid of rejection, so he is taking his time to be sure you are interested, sounds like you just need to let him know.
2007-02-04 05:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't keep it for later. make as early as possible. otherwise someone will overtake u. don't give a chance for that.
best of luck
2007-02-04 05:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by akash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite that u verify his family & his society.
& about him in detail then reach in conclusion.
coz some times story become suddenly changed.
2007-02-04 05:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋