Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

let a woman "serve" him. I don't think it's a super big deal, but today after barbeque, all the women (my grandma. my mom, my aunt, and my brother's girlfriend) cleaned the kitchen, while we guys just sat around talking in the living room. Why did I just sit and let the women clean after us......?

2007-02-04 12:06:32 · 12 answers · asked by Philip Kiriakis 5 in Family

how can i control the nerves in my first date. my hands are always sweaty and i need tips to calm down. also i have never been kissed so how can i know if he liked me...... any help thanks!

2007-02-04 12:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have about four signs so need a lot of ideas. My husband is also barely making it to the birth of our first child. he might actually miss it. please make it cute and unique. i have one but would love more ideas

2007-02-04 12:05:51 · 15 answers · asked by angela z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For those of you married people with kids who have regular date nights, what do you do on your dates? How do you spend them?

2007-02-04 12:05:33 · 2 answers · asked by nora_mcdonald2000 2 in Singles & Dating

There are going to be 30 people at my beach wedding. I want people to be standing in a circle around us but I want it to be an organized circle. I have thought about using petals or flowers as markers for the outline of the circle but I am not sure how to figure out how big of a circle to mark out. I do not wan to walk out and have my circle look like a football huddle.

2007-02-04 12:04:53 · 7 answers · asked by sdzunk 1 in Weddings

o My brother is having a wedding and he thinks I should be a Junior Bridesmaid.. Shouldn't I be a regular Bridesmaid??? Who agrees with me??? ANd give me advice

2007-02-04 12:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

Theres this guy I like...
I was thinking of putting a love letter in his locker tomorrow but I dont know if I should. Is that a good idea? If you were/are a guy what would you think of it?

Anyways thats it. Thanks! ^^

2007-02-04 12:04:16 · 17 answers · asked by Sakuraღ 2 in Singles & Dating

I told someone in my family that they were hurting my feelings. They didn't hear me and laughed me off. Finally, in my 30's I am tired of it. I emailed them and told them 4 points that i would no longer accept (things they said or did that hurt my feelings). They got very angry and told me that I am serious, over sentive and very manipultive. that I am making a moutian out of a mole hill. Even if this person is right... don't my feelings still count? Even if these things are true.. don't I still get to say what bothers me?

2007-02-04 12:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well the guy who i have dated befor just called and asked me back out should i tell him i have a bf so no or would that be to harsh ?

2007-02-04 12:02:52 · 9 answers · asked by caitlin t 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering what you thought.

2007-02-04 12:01:17 · 27 answers · asked by moco-frap 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just move to arizona and i am still with my boyfriend but he is thinking about breakingup because we are to far do you think we should or not.when i was were i use to live we were still far away.

2007-02-04 12:00:37 · 24 answers · asked by LIL SHY 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this kid i met at camp. We both liked eachother and talked afor a little while after camp. I didn't talk to him for a while...........and he got a girlfriend. Then finally i got up the nerve to call him and it was pretty cool. A few days after we talked, he broke up with his girlfriend. I like him again. Should I?

2007-02-04 12:00:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bored with him and have dreams about being with other men. I wish he would kiss me and treat me like the guys in my dreams.

2007-02-04 12:00:17 · 18 answers · asked by LETICIA P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really need help w/ my poem. i dunno much stuff about pro poems. i'm just 12!

Is this poem good?
She’s just leaning over there,
Alone in the crowd,
As they keep on pushing her around.
‘It hurts so bad’ she whispers.

Maybe she doubt her too much.
She had noone to be with,
Because she never had the courage
To speak up for herself.

‘Why me?’

They never payed any respect
She deserved.
She always cared
But they never did.

Inside she’s crying,
Outside she’s smiling,
Like nothing’s happening.
But there was a lot going on.

‘Will they understand?’

Maybe she doubt her too much.
She had noone to be with
Because she never had the courage
To speak up for herself.

She thinks there’s no point to live.
But there is,
Maybe she just had to look for it.
And she goes off, not knowing what will happen.

‘I guess it’s this hard.’

Then, she found someone,
Someone so dear and precious.
She promised herself never to let go.
But he didn’t feel the same way.

2007-02-04 12:00:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Although we haven't seriously discussed future plans, this is still something that may cause problems down the line. My boyfriend recently built a house for himself, his parents next door and a cottage for his grandparents behind that. They all come and go as they please and although I love his family, I would be miserable not having privacy or alone time with him. He is perfectly content spending the rest of his life there, and even tells me that his grandparents cottage is his "retirement plan". I've told him I don't see this being my "forever house" for various reasons, including size, personal taste and the fact that I want to build a life WITH him, not find room to fit into his, but have been to afraid to admit that the biggest reason is because of the close proximity of his family. I don't want to hurt or upset him but I'm not sure how to honestly tell him how I feel...Any gentle suggestions?

2007-02-04 11:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Amere124 1 in Family

ok so my bf lives in jacksonville flordia and im really worried about him actually im scared to death and the only thing i can do is email him what should i do ps i think all of flordia has been having storms and thats why im so worried

2007-02-04 11:57:25 · 12 answers · asked by i love Amanda kendall 2 in Singles & Dating

I am wondering what a woman is thinking is if she tells you "you are very attractive, great personality, have all the qualities I am looking for in a man" and wants to me to date others and her do the same. Does she have issues?

2007-02-04 11:56:53 · 16 answers · asked by St.Jeb 4 in Singles & Dating

well im 13 almost 14 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 days now and he gave me a kiss he told me that my lips were dum soft and he said are puerto rican people allways lips that soft and he is black dose that mean somthing bad

2007-02-04 11:56:26 · 1 answers · asked by cupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

Everysince he was little, he had to deal family issues such as his biological mother and stepmother abusing him, his father verbally hurting him, etc. He suffered despression at an early age but know one knew about it except me. Some of the kids in our school bullied him and was rejected by the people he trust the most and that kinda damaged the guy alot.Right now, he has so much anger an hatred inside of him. All he can think of is murder and more violence towards his enemies. He always comes up to me and tell me about his murder plans and they are extremely brutal/sickening. He has a huge fascination for decapitated/mutilated bodies and others disgusting stuff. It is so unbelievable. There was an essay in school, he wrote some thing which led the teacher to call his parents.
The counseler said he has some mental disorder.

I am like the only person in school he talks to happily. He gets so nervous infront of people. He even hids from them.

I am worried about him!

2007-02-04 11:56:17 · 4 answers · asked by h 2 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago. I still feel we are meant to be together and are perfect for each other. He's going through some confussing stuff right now and I want to help him but since I'm now his ex I feel like I should back off and let him deal with the stuff on his own. But he won't talk to anyone and he seems to be really sad when he's not with his friends. He dosn't really talk or look at me anymore. I want him to be happy. I'm not quite sure if he's okay or not but he dosn't seem okay. Should I just give him time or should I tell him I'm there for him?

2007-02-04 11:54:47 · 4 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

moved in with boyfriend 4 years ago....frist my home then his...asked my to leave so i rented out my home and rented a smaller house for me and my kids...the trouble is i still keep calling him and going to see him... he comes to see me...but i found him on dating sites and sex dating sites looking for sex no strings attached....when i asked about it he got mad and it took me 2 weeks of saying I was sorry to make him talk to me...and now it just worse he signed up for match . com and match dotor adult site...silly boy stored his password and let me use his laptop...wish i know how to look in his yahoo.mail...but that would be wrong....help me kick him to the curb or help me make him want me

2007-02-04 11:54:29 · 1 answers · asked by jenifer w 1 in Singles & Dating

we did 2 days ago? I pulled out but I'm still extremely worried, is it possible for her to get pregnant, even on the shot? And how likely is it? I know I was dumb i know i know, we did it again but we used protection that time... eckkk

2007-02-04 11:54:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy named Matt the one that works at the video store. Anyway yesterday I saw him and he was all smiles when I walked in the door and my uncle was there making him and I nervous. And as I was leaving the store he said calmly but shyly hi. And so did I. He was blushing a bit. I was going to give him my number but there was too many people around and watching him and I.

2007-02-04 11:54:09 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

There are SOOOO many dating sites out there.
What do you love?
What do you hate?

2007-02-04 11:51:33 · 11 answers · asked by Geoff A 2 in Singles & Dating

has any1 eva loved sum1 so much but never had the courage 2 tell them?

2007-02-04 11:51:07 · 20 answers · asked by gazza42 1 in Singles & Dating

they know my com and I know that when I get a new lock they'll get the new combination

2007-02-04 11:50:36 · 19 answers · asked by kitKat 4 in Friends

but my girlfriend won't let me. She's making me watch figure skating with her. I'm writing this as she's in the bathroom. If she sees me do this, she will hit me with a pan again. She actually dented one the other day she hit me so hard with it. My question is, does anyone know any good sites to buy new pans?

2007-02-04 11:49:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A while ago my best friend and I discovered that we liked the same guy. And she was pushing me to ask him out. But I didnt want to cause I knew she liked him too. And thats a rule isn't it? You dont ask out guys your friend likes? Then she kept pesting and pesting me if I would be mad if she asked him out. And I got fed up with her and said fine but never thought she would do it. But she did and I got mad. She swore not to take it any further and claimed she felt bad about it. But it went further. He asked her to be his girlfriend the other night and she said yes. This isn't the first time she has done something like this. She pressures me into doing things for her all the time. And she said that I have no right to be mad at her. The problem is, I have a very hard time staying mad at her for even more than an hour and I feel that she is getting away with this and deserves it. What I'm wondering is if this is big enough to stay mad at her for a while and worthy of punnishment?

2007-02-04 11:49:50 · 3 answers · asked by Marissa B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 11:49:27 · 54 answers · asked by Samantha B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 11:49:24 · 8 answers · asked by ALEX P 1 in Singles & Dating