Everysince he was little, he had to deal family issues such as his biological mother and stepmother abusing him, his father verbally hurting him, etc. He suffered despression at an early age but know one knew about it except me. Some of the kids in our school bullied him and was rejected by the people he trust the most and that kinda damaged the guy alot.Right now, he has so much anger an hatred inside of him. All he can think of is murder and more violence towards his enemies. He always comes up to me and tell me about his murder plans and they are extremely brutal/sickening. He has a huge fascination for decapitated/mutilated bodies and others disgusting stuff. It is so unbelievable. There was an essay in school, he wrote some thing which led the teacher to call his parents.
The counseler said he has some mental disorder.
I am like the only person in school he talks to happily. He gets so nervous infront of people. He even hids from them.
I am worried about him!
2007-02-04 11:56:17 · 4 answers · asked by h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well it sounds like you should be concerned.
He obviously needs to see a psychiatrist, not a psychologist or a counselor. Your friend needs more than counseling, sounds like medical treatment as well.
As the mother of a child who suffers from mental illness, I can tell you that this is very scary when it is someone you love. As a person who has worked with people with these kinds of problems it is risky behavior that could result in someone getting seriously injured or killed.
If his family will not get him the help he needs (which it sounds like) I think perhaps your best move would be to talk to a guidance counselor at school. Your friend, and your personal safety need to be taken care of, as well as those others who have not been nice.
I really wish you luck, you are in a difficult spot, but try to get him help as soon as you can.
2007-02-04 12:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by White Raven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... you definitely SHOULD be worried.
this guy needs help ASAP before he hurts himself or others. get him to a therapist, or to a school counselor immediately!!! and, if you ever think that he'll actually hurt someone or himself, get him to a hospital, or tell a trsuted adult.
... continue to be nice to him, though. make sure he knows that you're always there for him, and that you still love him (as a friend)... the WORST thing you could do would be leave him...
good luck!
2007-02-04 20:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by LoveisLove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this,I am seeing another school shoot up if
this kid does not get some help now. I hope he is not getting any ideas from Columbine.His family should be
trying to help him instead of making him feel bad about himself.Good luck
2007-02-08 12:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by doulasc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
help him out physically... like your a girl right? guys cant hit girls so stand in front of him when he's being bullied..... help him mentally... tell him violence isn't the answer.
by the way in the news i saw that this kind of stuff leads people to bring guns to school! help him fast.
2007-02-04 20:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋