I am wondering what a woman is thinking is if she tells you "you are very attractive, great personality, have all the qualities I am looking for in a man" and wants to me to date others and her do the same. Does she have issues?
2007-02-04 11:56:53 · 16 answers · asked by St.Jeb 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She just means that you are no the one for her. Most women Jeb are like this. They meet the perfect guy and then they don't want him. Sometimes they want the guy who have all those great qualities but a bit of mystery or a little bad buy to him. Just go out with others, let her see that...there is a great possibility once she sees that you are desirable by other females she will be crawling at your door step. Go figure?
2007-02-04 12:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that she does think all those things but, for some reason, possibly even one that escapes her, she isn't all that attracted to you. Often when this happens, a woman doesn't want to make you feel like there's something the matter with you, but she also really doesn't want to get involved. So she says "you're great but I want to date other people". She's basically telling you the truth in a way she thinks will do the least damage.
2007-02-04 20:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities...either she's lying, isn't into you, and just wants to let you down easy...or she really is attracted to you, thinks you're great..but has commitment issues. Some people just can't be monogamous, I on the other hand, am a one man woman.
2007-02-04 19:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think she has issues, I think she is emancipated and she is not ready to settle down.
Tell her how you feel if you truly love her. Explain to her that you prefer "monogamy" and prefer to be with only one woman at a time (if that is true) and also explain that if two people truly love themselves they do so to the exclusion of all others. If you do not believe this then you are probably not in love and it is OK for you to date other people till you get smitten.
2007-02-04 20:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by hunu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you when she wants you not everyday she is doing the man thing so do not sit around and wonder do what she asks go out have fun and enjoy life with other women it is like taste different type of fine when you may which to a better tasting wine or you like these fine wines but I am going back to my original if it is still around get it !
2007-02-04 20:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by MSG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say so! if i met a man with all my qualities, i wouldn't let it go and start dating other people. Definately issues.
2007-02-04 20:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just might be scared. She just might want to see if you will really date someone else or if you really love her and only what to be with her. Then again she might not be ready to settle down. She might mean if she was ready to settle down you would be the guy she would like to settle down with. Sounds like you two need to talk!!!!
2007-02-04 20:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by d3midway semi-retired 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means even though you're a great guy, that spark isn't there. No spark, means all bets are off.
2007-02-04 20:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could help you i am having the same problem with a man ....they are all nuts just dont know a good thing when they have it...
2007-02-04 20:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by jenifer w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she is being nice. She's not interested...she just likes you as a friend and doesn't want to lose that.
2007-02-04 20:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by earthmother6224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋