just a quick 1?

Question

has any1 eva loved sum1 so much but never had the courage 2 tell them?

yeah i should of told the guy but i cant as he dont live in england anymore *cries*

Answer 1

Most people have and they really regret not saying anything.

Answer 2

Ok, I've been on both sides of this one. I have had a "crush" on a guy for nearly 4 years. I haven't said anything for a few reasons--1. we're neighbors, if it doesn't work out, I don't want one of us to think we have to move, 2. My ex told him about 3 years ago that all I wanted to do was have sex with him--not entirely true, 3. We always end up dating someone else. Oh, yes, there is the fact that I can't speak much when I'm around him. I guess I could just leave him a note, but my luck, I'd forget to write my name. The OTHER side--I was told about 4 months ago that a guy I had a crust on 20 years ago was in total lust with me. I say lust though there was some love in there too. Honestly, it through me off. It scared me at first, I wasn't certain what I was supposed to do or say. I tried to blow it off, but that didn't help either. If it had been any other guy, I would have been all over it. The problem with this one was that he's married, though he was filing for divorce at the time. So, I suggested he finish what he needs to finish and take some time to figure out what he wants in life, then we can talk. The last guy who told me they were in love with me only did so after he found out I was getting married. Bummer. He probably would have made a better husband. Oh, well. When you get a really good answer, please let me know. I can find the courage to tell the guy I've crushed on for nearly 4 years and see where things go.

Answer 3

HMMMMM there's that word again----LOVE---you can't possibly know what love is at your age----what you are experiencing is attraction---plain and simple---and millions go through what you are feeling. Yup--I felt it and I still do once in a while---but as an adult I keep all the raging hormones in check---and then I simply say hi and keep walking---do that a few days and see if doll face even wants to stop and talk. If you don't know her, how can you possibly say you LOVE her...love what??? Let the conversations eventually lead to a nice fun lightweight date----she or you might not like each other but you tried. Now the word is maturity and social grace---learn how to make an approech that is grown up and attractive....otherwise you will look like a bumbling idiot---certainly not going to get a date after all that. Be cool---be nice---smile and mind your manners. Good luck, pal

Answer 4

Yes I have and it's heartbreaking. Their was a girl who I never told when I was 16. I saw her at a party some four years later and told her how I had felt, she said she had felt the same, we started dating and now she is my wife. If you feel that strongly, you must make a move do not let the moment pass. You have nothing to lose except a little hurt pride if she does not feel the same. You probably won't be lucky enough to meet her at a party in a few years time. Good luck.

Answer 5

All the time. I saw someone today. It is because no one wants to hear "No!" But now and then you get up the courage to say it anyway because the benefit of being accepted would be so wonderful. But sometimes, I meet people and I look closely, and I can see it would be more trouble than it's worth so I just keep quiet. It is great fun to meet the exceptions. You can just walk up to that kind of person and just begin talking with him. That way you find out very quickly if he is on your wavelength or not. If yes, big benefits. If not, excuse me, sorry, good-bye, next!

Answer 6

Yes. I have been in this situation for a long time. This year I am going to let them know how I feel, as life is too short. I'll never know if he feels the same about me if I don't talk to him. I really have nothing to lose, and at least I know if he doesn't feel the same, as hard as it will be, I will be able to put my energy into finding someone who does love me.

Answer 7

Not loved but liked so much never got the courage to tell him.

Answer 8

People like being told that they are loved just have the courage to say it as when you do you will feel great

Answer 9

This happens to me all the time. I have learned to take a chance and tell the woman how I feel. She doesn't always feel the same way, but I go for it anyway.

Answer 10

Yes...it happened to me once. And I still regret it to this day.....because he died in a car accident before I could tell him.......So if this is a personal question, I think that you should tell the person..because you never know what tomorrow will bring

Answer 11

Yep. I'm a total coward when it comes to telling guys I like/love them.