whats your opinion on being a virgin until you r married?

Question

just wondering what you thought.

Answer 1

i think its smart and safe and you are being pure to the person you are going to marry

Answer 2

I absolutley think it should be saved for marriage. I did and I don't regret it for a moment. First of all, it is strongly encouraged in my religion. Second I have seen first hand the effect of pre-marital sex. I don't think it's wrong, but it definitely throws complications in any relationship, all the typical things, but to me it is a very sacred thing. Not just any person has that right to my body. And it totally grosses me out to think of my husband ever being with another woman. He was a virgin as well. Which when you think about it, if we are both awful in bed, neither one of us know that. We both satisfy each other and that's all that matters.

Yes, this generation is different, but look at how much simpler things were when even our grandparents were younger. Sex was not as big an issue. I think a lot of the problems in todays society can be linked back to permiscuity and how lax people are about the matter.

I respect other people's opinions and choices, to each their own, but I myself definitely think it's a good choice to wait until marriage. Plus, my wedding night was one of the most memorable moments of my life!! It may have been a little awkward and I can't deny that it just gets better with time (we've been married almost 8 years), but I wouldn't have changed a thing. I do plan on encouraging my children to hold their morals high as well.

I know this world would be a lot better off if people held higher standards for themselves. Look at all the teenage mom's and abandoned children out there. Including STD's and AIDS. Most of which would be nearly obsolete if higher morals were upheld.

Answer 3

If I could find a virgin out there I would marry her in a heartbeat. You'll be respected by every man you date if you remain a virgin until marriage. If you get horny, masterbate. It's fun and it's the safest thing you can do. There are many dirty penises out there that are itching to give a girl like you a nasty disease that you will never be able to get rid of. Find the right guy, get tested for disease, and then have fun. You don't have to wait until marriage, just find a man you can trust enough to have adult relations with. Preferably another virgin. Yeah the sex may be boring at first because the two of you are clueless, but u will eventually get really good at it. Good luck

Answer 4

I think its old fashioned and people are not that disciplined like the people were back in the old days when that was the way it is.

Now days with the lack of respect and discipline I would rather marry a gal that has at least some experience then none. I would want to make sure we are sexually compatible. And how would a virgin know about various positions and what feels good and where. One spouse may like to be kinky and the other is very old fashioned.

Divorce may be in the near future.

I would prefer a women with experience

Answer 5

I always believe in being a virgin until I was married. I even had a virginity ring but things happen and people fall in love. So I didn't save myself and for me that's ok. I know that I am a responsible person and that I can make my own choices about the matter.

Answer 6

It's not at all a bad idea. You avoid sexually transmitted diseases. You can't get pregnant. You and your spouse share something that you share with no one else.

There are obstacles, though:

1. Premarital sex has lost its taboo. For example, it is on TV. It is in the movies. It's in books and magazines. Couples routinely live together. In mainstream American society, it's become the norm. This makes it hard to find someone who is also a virgin and is willing to wait.

2. People get married much later than they did even two generations ago. My grandmother got married at 14. My mother got married at 19. I got married at 30. It's much easier to remain a virgin when you get married at 14.

3. Young people are spending more time without supervision. In college, for example, young people are surrounded primarily by other young people, often very far away from their families. Even someone who intends to wait could easily succumb to temptation because of the many opportunities. When young people lived with their parents, the opportunities for premaritial sex were much less frequent.

Answer 7

In today's society there are so many people just having sex for the fun of it with no strings attached.It has gotten so that when you find someone that you like they have been with so many people its a turn off.I look for ladies that have low mileage and don't sleep around just for the fun of it.I don't know if being a virgin until marriage is good or bad.I do think that taking care of yourself and not giving it up to everyone that wants it is a good idea.

Answer 8

Take a look around you and watch some reality TV shows and then base your descision on what you see. I think waiting is a great idea, especially today. Too many people out there sleeping around making children who will grow up without a father...and usually share the same father with 948034 other women within a mile radius. If you love eachother, wait, get married, then grab some gatorade and make up for lost time!!!!

Answer 9

I think that would be the best, most wonderful gift to give to your husband/wife to be. If I had my life to live over again, that is exactly what I would have done. Save yourself for that special someone that you will marry. You will gain all the respect in the world from your husband/wife. I don't know you, but I have to say that you are one smart person. I say YES, keep your virginity until you know you are with the person you are going to stay with for life.

Answer 10

I was a virgin when I got married and I don't regret it, but I think it is up to the individual person to decide when the time is right for them. Just don't let anyone pressure you into anything you are not ready for.

Answer 11

I thought it was a great idea untill I was put into the situation. I ended up having sex so I am no longer a virgin, but I wish I would have waited because the guy was an a**hole!! So it is a good idea unless you know for sure they are the one for you.