Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

I met a man on deployment (we're both military, but different branches) whom I really liked a lot. Everything had always been platonic between us, but right before I left, he kissed me. We are both stationed overseas (and rather far apart) and I did not expect to ever see him again, but he asked if he could visit, and is serious about making the journey! Now, I'm uncertain whether it will remain platonic, if he wants more, for that matter if I want more... I've never been in this situation before, with no bearing whatsoever on his feelings/intentions/etc. I'm nervous about how to treat him. Please advise!

And PS: Yes, I enjoyed the kiss thoroughly, and had hoped for it for quite some time, but wanted to keep things on a professional level.

2007-02-02 11:31:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 11:31:07 · 15 answers · asked by evrythingnice360 1 in Weddings

Would a guy be the one if he's the only one that can give you the perfect kiss, touch, ect and everything you look for in physical intimacy? And he's your friend with benefits?

2007-02-02 11:30:49 · 4 answers · asked by thegetgo291 1 in Friends

2007-02-02 11:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by GuNthEr'S_girl►♦♠ 2 in Singles & Dating

and it sounded suspichous. What does that mean? U would even do that when they guys nearbuy?

2007-02-02 11:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by sklinckyyyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to marry the person one cheated on a spouse with and cause not only great pain and trauma but permanetly distroy ones relationship with own son and daughters forever?Lies and secrets plage this new relationship

2007-02-02 11:30:01 · 8 answers · asked by jubileejoy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-02 11:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I met this guy on match.com...he lives an hour away. We have been talking for 4 months now. I asked him to be my Valentine, he said yes...then I realized that there may be a chance that we will meet on Valentine's Day! It would be our first meeting! So, if this does happen...does anyone have any ideas on how we can still have fun, be safe, and not get caught up in the moment of Valentine's Day? Right now, dinner and a movie sounds too romantic.

2007-02-02 11:29:00 · 9 answers · asked by bran_1999 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out for 5 years & he broke up with me 2 months ago- in that time we have still been talking. I know i shouldnt but i dont want to loose him out of my life all together. I need help with how to get over him.. i know if i keep talking to him im not going to get over him but i can help it. Some times i hate him & want nothing to do with him but other times i wanna be his friend still. I dont know what to do..... i know i should just move on but cant!!!!

2007-02-02 11:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by Lozza J 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I have a friend with benefits who has the perfect touch on me.

But...should I not be sleeping with other guys if I'm sleeping with him(only he doesn't spend the night)?

Or does it matter? Do I need to ask him? I already know that he'll be sleeping with other girls and I'm fine with that(from what I heard)

2007-02-02 11:28:46 · 7 answers · asked by thegetgo291 1 in Friends

2007-02-02 11:27:27 · 38 answers · asked by ♥pola77♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

is it your current partner or a previous one

2007-02-02 11:27:09 · 10 answers · asked by leonard24seven 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so, im in a relationship now, im in 8th grade (ok, now the first reaction you have is that i'm too young. perhaps, but don't answer if you are just going to dicourage me and give me a lot of talk about age)...so anyway...i need to know what i should do for my first date? how should i ask her about it? and what should i look for? just give me a lot of advice in general. first kiss?

just help me about new relationships and stuff
oh! and give me a ton of ideas for a first date!

2007-02-02 11:26:14 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Singles & Dating

I stay fairly well trimmed down below, but he wants me to get a brazilian wax. I told him that I would do it but only if he would wax his small patch of chest hair. He says it is not the same thing and that's not fair. He said the brazilian would be for just the two of us, but my request of him everyone would know that he did it. I really do think he would look better without it and it's a reasonable trade. Am I being unfair ?

2007-02-02 11:26:07 · 15 answers · asked by haveagreatday 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife moved out this past Sunday without warning. I felt things were good. The real problem is that she has moved herself and our 2 daughters in to another mans house. This man was kind of a friend whom she said she had no interest in but just a friend. Now she told me she has feelings for this guy and that she felt alone here and is happy there. We had a nice talk last night and she told me that she still loves me and that she never meant to hurt me and that she would be willing to maove back into our home if i moved out and gave her some time to think. I really love this woman , i have been with her for 16 years and she is the true love of my life. I am hurt that when she leaves here and goes back there, but yet she tells me she wants to give me a chance and see if she can be happy again with me. I have asked her if i was important to her and she told me yes, I have asked that if she was serious about us making it work that she needs to show me and stop seeing him so much.

2007-02-02 11:25:43 · 19 answers · asked by navyman n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Something just isn't right. It's the same situation with ALL of my friends that are guys: We hang out and we're all friends and whatever, then they get a girlfriend and I'm cool with that, but my friends just blow me off. Then, girlfriend breaks up with them, and we're friends again. It's happened to me so many times, but I still think that something just isn't right about that. Maybe I'm wrong?

2007-02-02 11:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by blueJay 5 in Friends

I was online one time and got a pop up for adult friend finder. I quickley decided to fill out the form and hit enter. I never payed money or inquired any deeper. I only filled out the form out of curiousity. While filling out the form I gave them my yahoo address. It seemed like everyday I would recieve e-mails from adult friend finder, but I would never open them. I just deleted them. That is the truth. I have no reason to lye to you people. I never really thought of it...I just deleted them everyday. About 4 of them each day. Once day my wife signs on my account and sees it and I obviously had a lot of explaining to do. Except I didnt have that much to explain because technically the only thing I did wrong was fill out the applicaition. What is your opinion on this? Am I really screwed up for filling out the application even though I had no intention of taken the next step?

2007-02-02 11:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok...me and my bf have been going out for 5 months off and on! and we are together now for good! we are in the age group of 14-17. well......I LOVE HIM SOOOOOOOOO MUCH! and i asked him what he wanted for Valentine's Day! and he said he wanted me! now idk what to get him, i mean i dont wanna get him something and him feel bad ya know, and i dont wanna not get him something and him get upset ya know! but idk! and here of recently ive been thinking that i am ready to looze my v-card to him, i mean i think i am, but i know im not, if you know what i mean! but idk! is it normal to think these things?! i mean im sure hes probably thought about having sex and stuff, i mean hes a teenage guy and we are both virgins and all! but idk! im so CONFUSED!!! i just dont wanna mess things up and looze him for good! cuz I LOVE HIM MORE THAN NE THING IN THE WHOLE WORLD!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-02 11:24:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this girl in my social studies class and she told me im cute... she was the fisrt person to give me regards like that and i appreciated it.(even my mom never told me im cute she always say im ok)

2007-02-02 11:24:25 · 2 answers · asked by pkmtBasil 1 in Singles & Dating

i met him at a out door school and i relly like him but he likes a nother girl how do i get him to fall for me???- we are both in sixth grede -

2007-02-02 11:22:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 11:22:52 · 22 answers · asked by chica 2 in Singles & Dating

PLEES EXP

2007-02-02 11:22:35 · 18 answers · asked by dale 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 11:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Singles & Dating

like mine is dead now.

2007-02-02 11:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He started out as my best friend. met at a bar when i moved to a new town w/ a new job. making 3 times what he made. i didnt like him at first. just wasnt my type. "lookin" but the more he was around the more i liked him. finaly he moved in w/ me. he has never paid rent because I got him a job where i working making good money. but because it is comition only he was soon fired. and then couldnt find a job. unemployment wouldnt give him any money because he didnt qualify "poor performance" he is a marine back from iraq. he drinks EVERY DAY a min. of 6 beers and causes problems w/ my sleep because he wakes me up. once he got so trashed he grabbed me a bruised me and went to jail but i let him come back. he stopped drinking for 2 months. "remember. im paying all the bills now and feeding him ect." since then he got a dui, and has only found a part time job. bringing in 200$/wk. now all he does is go to his buddies house and drinks. how do i kick him out. im scared of him. hel

2007-02-02 11:21:22 · 17 answers · asked by helpme20000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When i'm making love to my GF, why is it she has to scream at the top of her lungs when she reaches a climax. I've had the neighbors call the cops more than once in recent months.

Once she screamed so loud it broke one of my ear drums and it hurt really bad. I don't like cops pounding on the door when the neighbors call to report this.

Should i gag this woman during sex?

2007-02-02 11:20:33 · 15 answers · asked by michael_trussell 4 in Singles & Dating

do you listen to it and acknowledge it as part of you ...or do you shove it away and pretend it doesnt exist...???...just curious...;0)

2007-02-02 11:20:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also i want to know if your crush TOTALLY notices you or you guys are friends but it HURTS when you see him with his girlfriend OR if your invisible to him

2007-02-02 11:19:03 · 12 answers · asked by ♥I 'm coco for cocoa puffs♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 years old, and a Junior in high school, and I still haven't gone on a date or even asked a girl out. For you recovering/previously shy guys out there, how did you get over your shyness and just go for it?

2007-02-02 11:18:44 · 18 answers · asked by jrodbendi 3 in Singles & Dating

I seem to like girls with an oxymoron of a personality. not only do I like mature girls but I like girls that act very young or childish. is that possible or am I chasing a phantom.

2007-02-02 11:18:16 · 19 answers · asked by fay v 2 in Singles & Dating