Something just isn't right. It's the same situation with ALL of my friends that are guys: We hang out and we're all friends and whatever, then they get a girlfriend and I'm cool with that, but my friends just blow me off. Then, girlfriend breaks up with them, and we're friends again. It's happened to me so many times, but I still think that something just isn't right about that. Maybe I'm wrong?
2007-02-02 11:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by blueJay 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh and they all know that we're just friends. They know that I'm not interested in looking for a relationship at the moment.
2007-02-02 11:26:38 · update #1
It may be that your guy friends just want to focus their attention on their girlfriends at first. Some girls are insecure when it comes to their boyfriends having female friends, and maybe the guys thinks that hanging out with you at first would jeopardize their relationship with their new girl. I would come right out and ask them why they do that, and let them know that it hurts your feelings.
2007-02-02 11:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe their girlfriends don't want them hanging around other girls. i've never been like that though. i don't understand it. some girls r like that. a lot of guys r like that 2. with u noing that that's what always happens just be prepared. i'm sure they don't even no that they're not spending as much time with u as they used 2. their girlfriends r probably taking up a lot of the time that the 2 of u had 2 just hang out. u may be realizing that and it may seem like he's blowing u off. just be prepared 4 next time if u no that's what happens.
2007-02-03 01:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same whether your friends are the same gender or the opposite… when they are in a relationship, that takes more of their time. That's why single guys always complain about their "coupled" friends being "p-whipped, and why single girls are jealous of their friends that are in relationships.
But when your friends are the opposite gender, their girlfriends may feel threatened by you, and ask them to keep their distance, too.
2007-02-02 19:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your wrong, there's nothing wrong with that, its just that they see you as someone they can go to when they have no one else (in this case when they dont have a girlfriend to go to.) even girls are like that, when they dont have a boyfriend to go to they go to someone (probaly a best friend) that will always be there for them.
2007-02-02 19:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just treat you like they would one of the guys. Its cool, the girl comes first you know.
2007-02-02 19:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys r messed up and immature. we knew that. talk it through with them. some of them probably aren't really ur friends. the others will realize their mistakes and fix it next time around
2007-02-02 19:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and go with the flow, eventually all your friends will realize you are more important than all the girls they run off to parade around with.... beauty is within ones heart not between the shoulders.
2007-02-02 19:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want friends with benefits or be more than friends guys will always do that, they do it because they are horny and want intimacy!!!
2007-02-02 19:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a little more detail might help.... I'll come back and answer with more detail when you give more detail.
2007-02-02 19:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Binaツ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋