I was online one time and got a pop up for adult friend finder. I quickley decided to fill out the form and hit enter. I never payed money or inquired any deeper. I only filled out the form out of curiousity. While filling out the form I gave them my yahoo address. It seemed like everyday I would recieve e-mails from adult friend finder, but I would never open them. I just deleted them. That is the truth. I have no reason to lye to you people. I never really thought of it...I just deleted them everyday. About 4 of them each day. Once day my wife signs on my account and sees it and I obviously had a lot of explaining to do. Except I didnt have that much to explain because technically the only thing I did wrong was fill out the applicaition. What is your opinion on this? Am I really screwed up for filling out the application even though I had no intention of taken the next step?
2007-02-02 11:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
After that day, I no longer recieve those e-mails. I called and made them remove me from their list.
2007-02-02 11:32:40 · update #1
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2007-02-02 11:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you fill out the app. in the first place? You were just gonna delete the messages, and you said you weren't going to go to the next step. At least you'll know better for next time. Maybe you should block the emails, though. It might make your wife happier.
2007-02-02 11:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out why you filled out the application. you may not have had intention of next step but you filled out the application. perhaps it felt "good" to so something that a single man would do. the "idea" of hooking up may not have been there but you did have some thought process in the filling out the application part. you need to figure out why you had no problem doing this when you knew that if your wife saw this she would get hurt. you HAD to have known she'd get hurt! and obviously she did. you are screwed but i think you two just need to talk. perhaps you have a need she use to fill but hasn't been. couples sometimes get in a rut. that doesnt mean you break up, just means you have to get out of it. commitment takes work. and you guys need a work out. good luck!
2007-02-02 11:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh it really is difficult. i for my area imagine that you're being a touch melodramatic. This guy probable has a existence outside of your digital mail relationship. If he known you in this question then there is not a lot you may do, yet attempt to flow on with existence as regularly as available. digital mail him. If he emails you again purely save up the conversations, if he would not than you cant do a lot to regulate the region.
2016-12-03 09:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by fuents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although we all make mistakes...from a "wifes" prospective...heck ya you screwed up..but it is one of those things you messed up, you probably will be sleepin on the couch and no sex for a couple of nights..but try your best to convince her the truth...clean the house...bring home dinner....and best thing you can do...FLOWERS...with a card...it was stupid of you but boys will be boys..and you guys will work threw this...but word of advice..keep those wondering eyes on your wife!!! be sweet and HUMBLE........best advice i can give...coming from a woman with a husband whos made mistakes just like that before...don't beat yourself up too much..just concentrate on proving all your love to your wife and make it up to her...good luck
2007-02-02 11:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by alexandra82387 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably made her feel like you wasn't happy with her, that you was looking for something else, otherwise called cheating. Buddy kiss up to your wife, let her know she is the only one and you would never be interested in any one else.
2007-02-02 11:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you scewed up. i think your wife feels too hurt and angry for you too approach her yet. let her cool off a little, then go to her calmly and tell her the truth. if she yells at you, sit there and take it because truthfully, you deserve it, man, you really got your self in a hole. but maybe in the long run, you can look back on it and laugh :)
2007-02-02 11:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just block adult friend finder or mark it as "spam" and explain 2 ur wife that is wus just a misunderstanding
2007-02-02 11:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by ally 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever. Why did you let your wife know how to sign on to your email? I think it is a private thing. I know my husbands log-in, but I never check it. I would never give him mine. Some things are your own.
2007-02-02 11:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by lucki female 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy. What has been done is done. Block this site address and you will not get there email. That way your wife will not be upset.
2007-02-02 11:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by solitude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lie to her and tell her one of your friend fill out the form for you as a joke
2007-02-02 11:33:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋