2007-02-02 11:22:52 · 22 answers · asked by chica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I do believe in soul mates - I am married to mine!! A lot of people will let theirs pass them by due to preconceived notions about what a sould mate is....people let folks they care about go over, looks, weight, financial status, all sorts of funny things....you have to truly look at how they treat you, and with mutual love and respect you will see just how far the relationship can go....for example I know a girl who is married to a chronic drug user and alcoholic - but she calims she is "in love"...that is not love - that is an emotional attachement to the past that she needs to let go of....in the same token another friend would not date a guy because she hated his complexion and the fact that he wore glasses...to marry a dog that cheated on her and dumped and divorced her later!....Coincidentally the two girls in question are sisters and both stuck on the way a guy looks - when they are far from beauty queens! Their values attracted the very thing they did not want - because thier values are shallow to begin with! To truly attract a "soul mate" you have to look past that - now i am not saying marry or date a loser, or a bum, but what I am saying is, for example, my own dear husband - he would not be the pick of your average woman - he is my height exactly -5'6 (short for a man!) dark complexed, wears glasses, you get the picture! And if I had of been shallow for one second, I would have missed out....my Aunt, God Love Her!! pointed somethign crucial out to me when we first started dating...she took me tot he side and said "Honey - he loves the ground you walk on!! When you call he comes, he carrys your bags, he respects your Mom, he defends your honor, holds your hand when you are out...he loves you! You are a little too young to marry now, but if he asks go for it!" I am so glad I did....17 beautiful years later, this man has my complete attention!! He listens to me, is affectionate, keeps a job, is a father to his kids...but it wasn't magic, it was love, respect, and communication, along with overlooking the outside!! He is not a "flyy guy"...he is your average everyday "nice guy"...and it is a turn on!! Finding a soul mate is as simple as keeping your eyes closed (to so called good looks) and your mind open.
2007-02-02 11:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by ST 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe in soul mates, I have finally found mine after 28 years. The thing is sometimes you love your soul mate so much it scares you and you often loose them because of that.
2007-02-02 11:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Navulam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in soulmates and yes I found mine online in a fat womens chat room but the funny thing is she wasnt fat and neither am I!we are both just a little too inquisitive(curious)and we happened to be in the same place at the same time and started talking and we liked eachothers personality even though we had no clue what eachother looked like,then we finally went cam to cam and seen eachother for the first time and it was love at first site and also a shock to both of us because we realized we were average sized individuals and we both thought WOW what a beautiful person!,then we started getting closer and eventually we decided we were meant to be together and we decided we should get married and we did, so keep looking because your soulmate is out there somewhere and you will find eachother eventually!GOD BLESS! AND MIZPAH!
2007-02-02 11:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by merychillsman2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in soul mates, although it means different things to different people. I believe there are souls that are meant to bond. And yes, I believe I found mine. :)
2007-02-02 11:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe in soul mates. My husband is definitely mine and I am blessed to have him.
2007-02-02 11:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I do. I found mine. 11 years and 2 kids later, I still feel that way. It took us a growth period, though to understand. When dating - you can't imagine what you would fight about. Then you live together and find out exactly what you fight about. Then you get past that and wonder what you would fight about. Soul mates.
2007-02-02 11:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by lucki female 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did meet the woman who was a soul mate in every sense of the word even down to saying same thing,s at same time she was a wonder full person.she was a millionaire,s only problem her mum and i did not see i to i father was great man,but was put under pressure from his wife so ended up that if she stayed with me she would lose a fortune to be left to her from her ill father,she didn't want to know but i did not want her to lose out so i left her.i wished things could of worked.i think you only meet someone like this once in your life,you are so close its scary but wonder full.
2007-02-02 12:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by ainsley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do feel it is true on whatever level it happens at. I was lonely after a divorce and thought I would never look for another woman due to my failure in a long term relationship (Over 15 years!)
I always like libraries and museums and a woman who worked at one made friends with me and a mutual friend informed me she wanted to go out together...that was 10 years ago! We are still married and quite happy.
2007-02-02 11:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Terrania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe in soul mates and yes i have found mine!
2007-02-02 11:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by aerochik9675 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that u hav several soul mates, and u hav a chance to find them. as to if i hav found mine, i hav never even had a boyfriend, but he is out there
2007-02-02 11:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋