ok, so, im in a relationship now, im in 8th grade (ok, now the first reaction you have is that i'm too young. perhaps, but don't answer if you are just going to dicourage me and give me a lot of talk about age)...so anyway...i need to know what i should do for my first date? how should i ask her about it? and what should i look for? just give me a lot of advice in general. first kiss?
just help me about new relationships and stuff
oh! and give me a ton of ideas for a first date!
2007-02-02 11:26:14 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty Boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good first date would probably be the classic & ever-so-popular dinner & a movie. But if you want to go for something a little more adventurous, dinner & bowling makes for a fun first date. Or, depending on where you live of course, maybe ice skating (since it is after all winter) or go-karting (although I think you have to be 16 for that). It really all depends on what sort of activities you have in your area & what the weather is like on the night of your date. You may live in a small town where you don't have many options, but then again, perhaps you live in an area where there is tons to choose from. Also, if you live in a state where the weather is nice all year 'round, miniature golf is always a favorite. But my suggestion for a first date would be something fun & light, such as dinner at a TGI Friday's type of restaurant, followed by bowling or a movie.
As for the first kiss, you'll know if she wants it. Since you guys can't drive, I'm assuming you won't be dropping her off at her house & walking her to her door, so I guess the whole "fiddling with her keys" signal is out, which is the most obvious of signs that a girl wants to be kissed goodnight. But I'm sure if she wants you to kiss her, she'll be throwing hints at you. Just watch for them. You could always try kissing her goodnight on the cheek & seeing how she reacts to it before you go for the lips. If she smiles & blushes, then go in for the kill. Good luck, stud muffin. ;-)
2007-02-02 11:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww. how cute. most boys your age don't think they need help they think they know it all, you asking questions is a good indication that you really care if she has a good time. dinner somewhere where you will have plenty of time to chill but not too fancy is awesome. try pizza hut or some other pizza place. talk to her ask her wut she likes wut her hobbies are and even if she is boring u pretend your intersted. then go see a movie. ask her wut she has been dying to see. and whatever she says say omigod i've been wantin to see that too. on the kiss thing, don't rush it at the end of the nite if the mood seems right then kiss her on the cheek and if she moves away then leave it at that, but if the kiss on the cheek does work than maybe she wouldn't mind a real kiss. but you are too young for toungue so just a peck should be fine.
2007-02-02 19:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro juss chill. first date doesnt have to be spectacular. if your already in a relationship take her out to dinner and a movie. Pay though don't be cheap. first kiss shouldn't be forced talk about how much you like her and lean in for a light peck. dont lean out after though. stay close and if she wants to she'll kiss you again and it will just progress. dont choose a stupid movie though. make the first date about her. pick a chickflick or a scary movie.
2007-02-02 19:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Hurt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Hay (name) do you wanna go out on this weekend some time
you sould act dress normal
make sure your parents don't ask her a load ful of questions
2007-02-02 19:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by super girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first do a group date chances are her parents wont let her go out unless its in a group like ice skating or movies.. then you could break away from the group like lets sit over here..
try
some friends and i are going to she ____ movie.. do you want to go...
but make sur she likes the peopl you are going with..
try
so the new movie is comming out...
her- yah i want to go see it
you - we should go to tegther
her- yah that would be totally awesome
2007-02-02 19:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by alisun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im in ur grade range 2! lol! nyways.... i think u shood take her sumwhere fun! figure out wat she likes! if u hvnt asked her out yet heres sumthin u NEED 2 kno: NEVR ask thru email, IM, Myspace or watevs! way 2 impersonal! a lot of girls (like me) lik 2 b asked out face 2 face! n wen the date is dun dependin on how well u think it went try givin her a kiss....
2007-02-02 19:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Razzle101♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. the classic dinner and a movie
2. ice skating
3. bowling
4. that's all i can think of. srry. i suck.
2007-02-02 19:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by wind it up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool
dont show fear cause its only your first date.
dont act nervous girls dont like that.
look good ,maybe even buy her something.
2007-02-02 19:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by marybel i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋