Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

okay me and my mom attend a tech center and she has this guy chase in her class and he's the only guy in that class oh we're in different class's anyway she talked about him all the time saying we'ed make a cutie couple so when i saw what he looks like omg he's freakin fine k well now i have a crush on him and my mom has told me educaton and career before boys and i want to talk to him and hang out but i don't want to ask him out without my mom knowing cuz my siblings have done that and it hurt her so how do i talk to her that i like this boy well he's 18 and so am i well i feel like if i talk to her i'll hear that speech again and i so don't want to hear it cuz i heard it and i have a 4.0 GPA in school what should i do?thanks :)

2007-02-01 09:17:00 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Mandy♥ 3 in Family

WEll I was in a relationship for 3 1/2yrs on and off and I finally decided to break up with him. I was doin fine with it and today I see him leaving his house and I just started crying because he left with some friends.. All I keep trying to think is that I'm better off with out him but then I keep thinkin he's having sex with some 1 else.. it hurts me soo bad.. He lives right next door to me so its like I can't help but to look to see where he is and if he is outside.. I have anxiety issues so I dont feel like leaving my house or anything... And I dont even have a job.. So please help me.. im just soo sad now and all I can do is cry.. but to me Im not ready to get into a relationship.. I loved him soo much but it just wasn't a good relationship between him and I and I got sick of it and had to leave him..

2007-02-01 09:16:56 · 3 answers · asked by Sexi baby girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is my fiances and my second marriage and we are debating if we really want a gift registry. We have everything we possibly need, but also know how couples like to bring gifts. I don't feel comfortable asking for money or doing what they call a money tree. i feel that is too tacky, but then again if I don't do a wedding registry we could end up with some off the wall gifts..I certainly don't want to be rude and would accept anything. What would a tactful way to do this be?

2007-02-01 09:16:37 · 11 answers · asked by countrymomv4 3 in Weddings

I have a boyfriend but I want to dump him for another guy but don't want to dump him. What should I do?

2007-02-01 09:16:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I have a twin brother and we have always been close, no matter who we were dating at the time. He started dating someone I went to highschool. She is crazy! and I mean that bad kind of crazy. She has to take meds to control her issues. My boyfriend and I went on vaction with them this summer and lets just say, it was horrible. She had a break down, where my brother had to throw her in the shower to calm her down. She tells him what to do all the time. For example we have an older brother and him and his wife are moving this weekend; we are helping. She told him that he couldn't go, cause she didn't want to go. She doesn't agree with what he wants in life. He used to call me all the time and now I'm lucky to see or hear from him. I have tried talking to him and it doesnt work. I am afaird that she is going to turn him into someone he doesn't want to be. An end note is that we got into a huge fight and we are no longer a speaking terms. what do do I dont want to lose my bro!

2007-02-01 09:15:27 · 6 answers · asked by jennisea04 3 in Singles & Dating

I need advice badly please help?
I just got asked out by this guy that i like as a friend but nothing more, I told him i was late for the bus and quikly walked away. i dont want to hurt his feeling or ruin our friendship, but i do not want to date him. What should i say

also he asked me to the dance, from my friend she said he already bought the tickets

2007-02-01 09:14:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 09:14:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this older women who will do anything to keep this man , if she could have a child by him she would, anyways now that he is locked up she claims that he has been calling her and he offered to marry her and everything. I haven't heard from him at all. His friend is moving in his apt until he gets out and the women claims she has the key and when she gets a key made she will give it to him. I don't think she has the key and I don't think he has been calling her everynight, but my things is I do believe that he has asked her to send him some money , becasue she took care of him when he was out. This women says she is going to wait for him until he gets out , she said that she hates me and our child and she wish we would fall off the face of the earth. Why or how can a man use a women and lead her on like she the only one and really she isn't. He use to always tell me that he has no feeling for this women , are men really that num. I wonder if he hasnt call because its hard for hm

2007-02-01 09:13:48 · 15 answers · asked by Dark & Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 09:13:46 · 23 answers · asked by Suzy 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have only been together a few months now. But have been friends for over 11 years now. So entering into this relationship I was pretty excited. I still am excited and care for him a lot. Anyway, I never noticed how opposite we were until we became a couple. I'm sensitive and emotional and think with my heart, he's rough, unemotional and thinks logically. We've had quite a few fights over simply misunderstanding each other.
I love being complimented by my significant other, praised with love and affection and other endearing physcial/verbal displays. I'm not talking anything material.. it's all emotions. He almost NEVER compliments me. I think I've managed to squeeze one or two out him. I get my hair done = nothing, I get dressed up = nothing, I do something that I know he likes = nothing. I really am feeling deprived. I'm such an emotionally sensitive person that I really love these things. When I told him this, he called me spoiled by others. What can I do?

2007-02-01 09:13:37 · 4 answers · asked by Love is Pain 2 in Singles & Dating

im looking to meet a bi female for adult fun but cant find a site without paying woundered if you knew any to help

2007-02-01 09:12:27 · 17 answers · asked by marie c 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive got a really nice wedding dress but im thinking about wearing gloves with it. what is your opinion. do you think its a bit old fashioned or is it still in fashion?

2007-02-01 09:12:11 · 17 answers · asked by angel 1 in Weddings

i like a boy how do i give him a valintines card without beeing nervice

2007-02-01 09:11:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay to day my mom was yelling at me cause i had the computer to loud and she over herd me calling her a ***** (no joke she really is one) but then she brought me into her room and told me she herd what i said and she told me she was going to send me to juvy lol i would love to see my dads face when she told him ! he would probally hit her for it ! im daddy's little girl. she said she would send me because she cant control me and she said the judge would take me to juvy. what i dont understand is if she dont like me why dont she leave ? i mean my dad dont like her any way (i know this for a fact !!

2007-02-01 09:11:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and are going to file for Legal Separation Agreement.
We agreed he will stay in the house we used to live together, but I will move to a smaller house he is going to buy in my name. This is our final financial settlement. We do not want to change this when filing for divorce after our separation.
I was wondering if the house I will be moving to will be legally mine or my husband can claim it also belongs to him since he bought it for me while we were legally separated but still married.

Thank you very much.

2007-02-01 09:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by Helena V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best way to meet single soldiers looking for a seious relationship?

2007-02-01 09:10:59 · 1 answers · asked by chinadoll071512004 2 in Singles & Dating

I was walking down the hall today on my way to gymnastics practice, and these four guys were sitting on the floor. The one guys said something to his friend and his friends told him that a girl like me would never even look at him. When I walked by I laughed to myself and all the guys fought over who I glanced at.
What do they mean by the whole "she would never look at you" thing??

2007-02-01 09:10:51 · 14 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Singles & Dating

My limit is 27-28 years old. How should I go about attracting them and "getting" them.

2007-02-01 09:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by dirtydistrict85 1 in Singles & Dating

fill in the blank: I like a girl who______

2007-02-01 09:10:19 · 8 answers · asked by crazychick 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 09:09:29 · 3 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Weddings

I never cheated on her or anything like that. but i was honest about things so thats the main thing thats hurt her is trust, what can o do to show her that i do care and im telling her evrything beacuse i want to marry her and to see the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life walk away is the worst pain iv ever felt. any sugestions

2007-02-01 09:09:09 · 17 answers · asked by gaultjoshua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel like talking to most of the girls in my class. but they act as if their better than me. i'm differnt than everyone. people make fun of me sometimes but they don't know how i am in real life. i'm tooo scared to talk to most people like when class is over everyone is talking to eacother and i'm in the middle sitting talking to know one. my sis says its not about you. its your personality but then its sooo hard for mee to talk to someone cuzz i might say something weird or something. my sis says to complement or something like say '' hey, nice shoes''. i said that but then i never talk to them again. i hardly smile or talk in CLASS. this boy in my class thinks that i never smile and hardly talk. it looks like hes scared of me or something. but i doo smile and laugh a lot. what do i do? no mean answers. pleasse. thanks

2007-02-01 09:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when we started hanging out he told me later that he had a girl but still came around to be with me now we have a child and after tough times and bad blood i wonder does he still care??????????

2007-02-01 09:08:38 · 4 answers · asked by puertoricanbreed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex broke up with me a few months ago. I love her more than life itself and I know she loves me. We had some troubles and she just could not take it any more. I've been with a couple of girls since then, I even have a new GF. The girl is great! And I would never want to hurt her but I'm just not in love with her! I agreed to be with her one night I was quite drunk and mad at the world so I just wanted to show the whole world I can live without my ex. Now my ex has told me she made a mistake and that she wants to be with me again, she told me that she loves me, that the break up was a mistake! I'm 90% sure that she will hurt me again, but I love her, and I'm in love with her. It has not been a day that I did not think about her, and there's not been a day that I was really happy since we broke up! I'm not in love wiith my present GF even if she is great ( I even avoid sex as much as I can) and I know that would be the case with any other girl. What to do? P.S. sorry for my bad english

2007-02-01 09:07:40 · 14 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it unusual for the girl to want se.x in a relationship b4 a guy says he does??(It has been 8 months but he says he was always afraid to say he wanted to do it b/c I was rape.d in the past and he didn't want me to think he was pressuring me) Should I tell him?? Do you think he will be ok with it if I am?? Do guys still think about doing even if they don't say so??

2007-02-01 09:07:08 · 9 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Singles & Dating

i was dumped with these words and they played in my head for weeks,my boyfriend wouldn't talk to me, then he told me he was deeply sorry then he stoped talking to me for 4 days then asked again for forgiveness saying he loved me then 2 days later he told me on msn he didn't feel the same anymore. what happened? how can you love someone one minute and not the next? he was the one who chased me,even his friends told me i was too good for him. its been 2 months and i haven't heard from him but the whole thing has left me confused i know he had family issues but i still don't understand, have you ever been dumped this way? or have you dumped someone with theses words? what happend why did you not feel the same??bored? person had changed? PLEASE HELP any ideas or stories to share,would help a lot thanks!

2007-02-01 09:06:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in-law. We chat on the phone nearly every day, we get on really well and have loads in common. I live in England and she lives in Scotland. When we are up to live or she is down to visit we go shopping or have a night out together. Does any one else have a good relationship with their mother-in-law?

2007-02-01 09:05:32 · 18 answers · asked by Pinkflower 5 in Family

I am a 30 year old lesbian and my long term relationship as just recently ended. I was with my ex partner for just over twelve years ever since i was eighteen. I am having trouble adjusting to life as a single person and am feeling lonely and depressed. My ex partner wants us to get back together but i know this would be the wrong thing to do and i am scared i will go back just so i won't feel as lonely as i do right now, i don't have any real friends to talk to and i just don't know how to get my life back together, any advice would be really appreciated

2007-02-01 09:05:18 · 8 answers · asked by jane h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-01 09:05:02 · 22 answers · asked by fulloftreble 4 in Singles & Dating

Should I ask my crush to the dance? Do I send him an anonymous V-Day card? What if he rejects me? Is there any way of letting my feelings known that will neither embarrass or hurt me should I be rejected? HELP, please!!!!!

2007-02-01 09:04:55 · 16 answers · asked by PrettyKitty 3 in Singles & Dating