What should you do when you sometimes don't have any friends?

Question

i feel like talking to most of the girls in my class. but they act as if their better than me. i'm differnt than everyone. people make fun of me sometimes but they don't know how i am in real life. i'm tooo scared to talk to most people like when class is over everyone is talking to eacother and i'm in the middle sitting talking to know one. my sis says its not about you. its your personality but then its sooo hard for mee to talk to someone cuzz i might say something weird or something. my sis says to complement or something like say '' hey, nice shoes''. i said that but then i never talk to them again. i hardly smile or talk in CLASS. this boy in my class thinks that i never smile and hardly talk. it looks like hes scared of me or something. but i doo smile and laugh a lot. what do i do? no mean answers. pleasse. thanks

Answer 1

Ok well i dont really like to use the term "popular" but i am very popular in my school. I know that when people are trying to impress me and my firends the thing that usually catches our eyes are the people that are more outgoing than shy, have a good sense of style, have lots of nice compliments,and dont act like your wicked shy around them just go up and start talking to them. Kind of slip yourself in when there talking and start in on there conversation. Before you know it you'll hav lots of popular friends.

Answer 2

It seems a bit odd that you would be one way at school and then another outside of school. Are the kids in your class that intimidating? Don't worry, just be your fun self and people will come around. One of the answers said to join some clubs or something - that could start the ball rolling.

Answer 3

You seem to be lacking self confidence hence your disability to talk to your classmates. They can probably sense this self insecurity so they make fun of you. You should engage in active oral participation in classes- do the work, show you know what you're talking about. People will see theres a side to you that they don't know. A confident, self secure side with a personality and they'll want to know you themselves. Then treat them as friends, dont blank them. You've singled yourself out by being quiet so you need to help yourself to make friends.

Answer 4

i know how you feel. Are you in any clubs?? Band?? You just have to try harder. I was sooo shy in high school and now in college I am also very shy, but in groups and stuff i am outspoken and i am not afraid to answer. I understand how it feels, but i have no real answer for you. All I can say is there are lots of people like you and me, and we just have to keep trying harder. Try to smile more and when you get into groups or something, just open up and let them see the real you.

Answer 5

You have everything you need to succeed; its within you. You have the power.The problem is day after day you give that power away by thoughts like 'if I say this, they'll think I'm weird and my life's over.' Please discern the truths in thoughts like this! Positive thinking on the other hand, tend to send out good vibes about the positive thinker. Letting negatives thoughts rule over you will result in negative effects. So, as you start a fresh new day choose the effect that will benefit you. And have a wonderful day.

Answer 6

If you don't have any friends at the present time this is your chance to do something for yourself and better yourself. Make people jealous with your smile and laughter. make it seem as if you don't want anything to do with them. when they are all talking act like you are doing something that is more important then feeling like a loner. walk with your head up and not down

Answer 7

Just talk about anything something that they can relate to. I have been in your shoes. You just gotta talk, people will either accept ypu pr not accept you.

Answer 8

It don't matter what anyone think of you as long as your honest to yourself and not afraid to open up.