I never cheated on her or anything like that. but i was honest about things so thats the main thing thats hurt her is trust, what can o do to show her that i do care and im telling her evrything beacuse i want to marry her and to see the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life walk away is the worst pain iv ever felt. any sugestions
2007-02-01 09:09:09 · 17 answers · asked by gaultjoshua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know, I'm a guy.
2007-02-01 09:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's entirely up to her. All you can do is be persistent but not a stalker. Sometimes the distance will make her realize that you are the best thing for her. Dating another guy may also. It's amazing what you see when you see someone else. She's going to compare him to you (whether she want to or not - you can't help it)
try just being a friend. The best relationships start as friendships. She needs to see that you care and respect her. Backing off if she asked you too is a good way to show her you want her to be happy. Good luck. If you're sincere she may come back.
2007-02-01 09:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by tetlitea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwh!!!! this is going to make me cry. ok have you proposed to her yet? So r u saying that she doesn't trust you? Well i loss my trust with my friends, and the way i got them to trust me again, is to never lie to them or anything. If you love her, don't waste your time thinking about what to do, do what you going to do, and make sure she feels like shes loved. Also here r some things you should do:
1. Kiss her always
2. Smile whenever you see her
3. make out? ( Maybe you shouldn't do that ...srry)
4. Tell her that you love her A LOT!!!
5. Have a talk with her, and maybe just buy her a ring.
6. And always listen to what she has to say. Let it be.
if you want more advice, here's my email: mackenzie0217@yahoo.com Good luck!-hannah
2007-02-01 09:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by hannah w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not imagine you want him i imagine you basically choose someone and also you pick him to stay because he seems when you, in case you loved him you've got depended on him from the starting up thats what love is. I did this with my ex those days and it took me 2 weeks off our year anniversary to understand he wasnt the single. He feels like a tremendous variety of work in case you extremely love him you'll haven't any issues doing it. I absolutely do not imagine you want him your basically getting at a loss for words with lacking him. I had to recuperate from him and it harm somewhat yet basically because he loves you and my one loved me as a lot as your one sounds to, there is more effective love accessible and if he isn't any longer the single he isn't any longer well worth it so ask your self are you able to easily be at liberty in a destiny with him or are you basically forcing it?
2016-10-17 04:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I understand how you feel. I believe you can just tell her how you truly feel. Be honest with her. Because she still loves you she will forgive you. Trust you inner self. Don't put this off. You are taking a great step of faith. Believe in what you want and go after that. Peace to you
2007-02-01 09:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Forgiven by Him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beg for her forgiveness and try to show her over time that you made a huge mistake. Send flowers, show up at her house...just keep trying. If she tells you she really just wants to move on, you'll have to let go, but if she still cares about you, eventually she'll come around if you're persistent and you prove to her with your actions, not words, that you really love her.
2007-02-01 09:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Change old behaviors, be consistent. Be there for her. Print this out (what you wrote) and show it to her.
TIme will heal everything. If she can't let go and trust after time and effort, the problem lies with her.
2007-02-01 09:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Heather P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust takes time and patience on your part. You've gotta be man enough to recognize that and not push her for an immediate return to what you might once have enjoyed. Stick to honesty, and temper it with some gentleness, kindness and reassurance.
2007-02-01 09:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by uhnuftaliveon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's best that some things are left unsaid. My husband's grandma says the rudest things to me and my mom in law, and it hurts and I'm thinking, why the hell would you say that to someone? Be honest with her, but don't be rude about it. What is she mad about? We need some more details to work with.
2007-02-01 09:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confied in her. If she knows you are being honest with her about things you have never spoken about to others it will go a long way in helping her to trust you.
Sometimes you have to trust in order to BE trusted.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-05 07:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you,ve just told us, that you want to be honest and open with her because you want to spend the rest of your life with her. good luck and dont give up
2007-02-01 09:15:32 · answer #11 · answered by AnyaNledo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋