I know this girl she is 27 and I'm 29, right now she is in final stage of her divorce and been separated from here husband for almost a year. I like here a lot and I know she feels the same way....she told me so and all the body language signs are hard to ignore. I've made my intentions very clear and she didn't resist but now she is telling me that she is worried because her divorce isn't done and she wouldn't want to loose me as friend...what does she mean by that?
what can I say to make her feel better about this?
her husband is no issue...as a matter of fact he is already dating seeing someone else for 6months. She couldn't care less about him....and he is the one who is dragging his feet with signing the papers.
I just got out of a 5 year relationship back in October my self
when I was in the relationship I didn't see her often, only at social events with plenty of friends around including her husband who also is my friend
she told me that she is not ready for relationship yet
I was cool about and understanding, i backed off a little but we talk all the time, catch a movie or a dinner on occasions....she tells me everything about her divorce
just last night when we talked I told her that I'm waiting for a friend of mine to give me a ride, and she says "I wish you would have call me , any time you need a ride just give me a call''
is she trying to get closer to me after telling me about a month ago that she is not ready and she is confused?
back then she was thorn and little hurt by the divorce but since than her husband turn the divorce into an ugly battle field and now she hates his guts
what is going on?
Is it a good idea to give her something little for V-day? And what would you give in this situation so it wont make you look to pushy or desperate?
Also as I stay out of town all the time is it appropriate to give here something way ahead or after the 14th or it doesn't matt
ok, I know some of you might tell me she needs more time, but she has been separated form him over a year and hardly see him anymore....
would she be more willing to jump both feet in if the divorce is final?
2007-01-26
11:49:10
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