Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

All my life, I've found it hard to make 'girl' friends because they just never like me. I try, but they always ***** about me. What can I do-and why do you think it happens??

2007-01-26 11:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been friends with my BF for 5 years and weve been dating for a little while. He hasn't been to talkative lately and i know that somthing is bothering him. Everytim ei try to talk to him or ask him whats wrong he wont say. how do i get him to open up??

2007-01-26 11:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by speak 1 in Singles & Dating

i ask my spouse ;;;;;;;;;why is it ok for me to feel that you dont care about me ?
but you say that you do?can some one in here tell me what is really going on..........or something im sick of crying .i love my spouse deeply.

2007-01-26 11:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by nobodyspeical00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

p.s. he is playin rite now !

2007-01-26 11:18:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think it's wrong of me not speaking to my in laws..... we never had a fight but their never there for me or my children.... they did not even give my kids anything for christmas or their birthdays...... i never call this lady or her husband.... my husband is always right in her eyes and i'm wrong... she has done some pretty messed up things to me.... but i have never disrespected her but i just don't ever call her or visit her... my husband goes alone with the children to visit her.... i just feel like that family is a fake, i did not even call her for christmas... am i wrong? or do i have the right not to speak to his family... to be honest i feel like his family are my enemies....

2007-01-26 11:17:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She posted a photo of my hubby (her brother) and our 2 yr old son on her My Space page. I wrote her a quick pleasant e-mail letting her know that I preferred that she keep my family off of my space especially my baby. So her immediate response is that she can post photos of HER brother & HER nephew if she wants and that it's non of my business. I have only met this woman once and I was blown away by her e-mail. Shall I continue the fight or just drop it. I think she might be nuts.

2007-01-26 11:17:13 · 23 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Family

I like two boys and I'm only 12.

2007-01-26 11:17:11 · 25 answers · asked by Luna Lovegood 1 in Singles & Dating

Im so passionate about her, our feeling are so spiritual for each other its amazing. Everything I look at reminds me of her voice, her eyes, her slim fingers and her beautiful fingernails. Her flower of lips and her beatiful black hair.I will give my life for her happiness. BUT, she lives on the other side of the world now, were both 21 and want marry at 25. How can I hold on this long without loosing my mind? Im going crazy already!! she means so much to me. Can you say something that will help me? anything... I need it....

2007-01-26 11:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you had a common last name (or a lot of males in your family) and your wife was the last of her line would you be willing to take her name?

2007-01-26 11:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by ecogeek4ever 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship for about a year or so. A few months back he proposed to me. I said yes. The relationship started great as any new relationship. We have similar likes, but the hardest part has been trying to adapt to his ways. He is the conservative type, i'm more liberal. Unfortunately, this has caused strain in our relationship because we view things differently. I've come to the conclusion that he's just afraid of not being in control. I've recently asked for some time to think about our relationship. I'm not sure if I would be able to conform to his ways as I am a very independent woman. I've tried talking to him about it, he'll recognize it for a few days and then go back to his ways. I miss him dearly!! But I don't want to get moved by that feeling and go back where we left off. I know that you can't change a person. Quite frankly it would be tiredsome in the long run if I would even attempt that challenge.

2007-01-26 11:16:47 · 18 answers · asked by Ms. Annie 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and she likes me but today i kind of ruined it what should i do

2007-01-26 11:16:20 · 2 answers · asked by Malik n 1 in Singles & Dating

my situation is that i don't know how to talk to people my age and i feel that it had to do with my past. i was born differently then most and so i had faced some tremendous obsticles being born differently then others. i was teased and was always tryin to fit in with different crowds because i wanted to be accepted by others.
throughout my life it was very difficult to wake up and to know that this would never end. now i feel that i am in a better place then before and however there are some pieces of my past left in me. because i'm very cautious with people hurting my feelings and so forth i don't comunicate much with others and it has gotten to the point where i feel like i can't comunicate with family members and people in school. because i act this way, people get the wrong impression of me without thinkin that i might be a shy person so my question is how do i get over my low self esteem and show people who i'm really am ? i find it so hard to get out of this, how do i do it ?

2007-01-26 11:16:18 · 1 answers · asked by sosofresh 1 in Friends

a boy i now he is here help me find him plase.

2007-01-26 11:16:06 · 1 answers · asked by daniella 2 in Singles & Dating

my eldest son has a problem with alchohol.A year ago he lost his driving lisence, his job, his girlfriend and his will to live.After a month in prison for failing to keep a probation order he is now trying to get his life back any suggestions from a devoted mother

2007-01-26 11:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by margaret e 1 in Family

Hi there. I was married Sept 21, 06. Husband's lawyer trying to declare it null and void. According to my lawyer...we are very married in EVERY state. Now, both his ex wives have chimed in as well as my ex husband....and all the ex's are filling the kids heads and ours with lies...I love my hubby and want the marriage to work...but we haven't spoken since New Years eve (he is stationed over seas.) There is a woman there claiming to be his 'friend' who phones and leaves threatening messages....it's all so high school...I just want my life back and for every one to leave us alone to work on our lives... Do I continue to fight for the marriage....or just let it go (he has cut all communication, stole all the $$, closed all the accounts, cx my and his step kid's insurance and lies to everyone about everything that has happened with us..even his chaplain....?) Feel free to IM me

2007-01-26 11:15:41 · 10 answers · asked by Smiling Belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is this guy i like at my church in the youth group. When we all sit down in the room he'll look at me and we will make eye contact for a sec and then he'll look away, and he does that over and over till class ends... And when he does something funny he always looks at me to see if im laughing or something. He acts all nervous when around me or talking to me. Are his signals good or bad? Do you think he likes me back?

2007-01-26 11:15:29 · 9 answers · asked by Barrel_Racing_Cowgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now and we both seem to say that we love each other loads through out every day, im starting to think that i just say it now because i know its what he wants to hear.

Can you say it too much? I do love him with all my heart, but does he need to hear it more than 20 times a day???

What do you think?

2007-01-26 11:15:22 · 15 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

I work with a very attractive lady who is married but seperated from her husband. I am in a fairly unhappy marriage. I cant leave my wife right now and wouldnt just to be with this girl. We took a business trip and had some drinks and made out a little. No sex. She has done this before to another guy and then went and told her husband because she thought he was cheating on her. It ruined this guys life and ultimantly had to leave his job. Which is what I am now doing. I have already told her that I do not want to talk to her anymore, but she does not seem to grasp that. She is also doing this same thing with another guy in out company, only in another city. I have never been in a situation like this and dont know what to do. I care for her and want to be with her and I know how stupid that sounds so you dont have to say that. No bullshit advice please. I am relying heavily on the answers I get.

2007-01-26 11:15:20 · 31 answers · asked by harleysNvettes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend and he buys me nice gifts and this v-day I just don know what to get him what do boys like?

ps. its my 1st time having somebody on v-day i need help!!!

2007-01-26 11:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by babyscooby013 1 in Singles & Dating

Be honost please,

I know a woman who is recently divorced, she is very good-hearted. However, her marriage was really hard on her & she went from being a very good-looking lady to a very heavy woman that didn't think very much of herself. She finally has let go of the past & is turning into a positive happy person again. She is working on her weight, but still doesn't believe any man would possibly be attracted to her. She met a man who flirts with her, & she'd like to go out for drinks sometime with him, but she is afraid to make the first move. I tell her go ahead ask him out, but she thinks that his flirting is just him being nice to the fat lady. I think she's just afraid to get hurt again, but she is doing such a great job of losing the bitterness & being genuinely happy, I want her to have fun. Would asking him out just be setting herself up to get burned? or am I wrong & there are guys out there that would overlook her weight?

2007-01-26 11:14:18 · 6 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Singles & Dating

I really wanna know this! So please answer honestly.
Thank you!

2007-01-26 11:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never had a gf.

2007-01-26 11:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 14 year old and would like someone to talk to online for advice. And help with how to deal with the issues that she is going through

2007-01-26 11:13:25 · 1 answers · asked by Betty Z 1 in Friends

2007-01-26 11:13:14 · 2 answers · asked by west 1 in Weddings

sieriously, i am a totaly lovable person. im cute 5'5" and and have gorgeous light brunet, strait hair. and lately at school guys have been all over me and none have asked me out yet. i have endured whistling, stares and even names like "my woman", "little lady"and even "hotty, mchotty" i have delt with the worst pickup lines every heard like, the "how are you" one the "fallen angel" and worse. seriously i need help.

2007-01-26 11:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by Englishchick 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate my mom so much!!!! She started yelling and I told her yelling isnt going to make it better for me [its only going to get me more madder] and she keeps yelling about retarded stuff. I just hate her so much, I wanna curse her out and move out of this retarded house forevver. She keeps yelling at me about feeding my dogs and pick up trash. OMG, I wanna smack her in the face and curse her out!!!??

2007-01-26 11:12:46 · 61 answers · asked by Pure_beauty_is _the_key 1 in Family

Theres the two guys i like and they like me!But i already have a boyfriend.I over herd him say to his friends he wuz going to break up with me !Wut should i do!!!!!!!????????

2007-01-26 11:12:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you had a crush on a guy in school but you don't know him that well and he doesn't know you. Then, you find out that he has a girlfriend.you really want to get to know him but you're too shy?

2007-01-26 11:11:44 · 3 answers · asked by sweetz 2 in Singles & Dating

I understand about them saying it's cheap rent. I understand about them saying I'm involved in post secondary studies and want to save money so I can pay for my studies without getting financial aid/loan. Are these men boys satisfied with their lives? I wonder what dating & gfs are like for them living at home? Perspectives anyone?

2007-01-26 11:11:19 · 54 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy tells you that he wants everything...you?

2007-01-26 11:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating