I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now and we both seem to say that we love each other loads through out every day, im starting to think that i just say it now because i know its what he wants to hear.
Can you say it too much? I do love him with all my heart, but does he need to hear it more than 20 times a day???
What do you think?
2007-01-26 11:15:22 · 15 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show him you love him with actions not words
like next time he says that he loves you lean ove and give him a passionate kiss and say "i know"
2007-01-26 11:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chris's Baby Girl '07 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love him and he loves you, then you should tell him. But 20 times a day is way too much. You should say it when you feel it, not just to say the words so that he will be happy. In my opinion, if the person I am with currently said it 20 times a day, I would have broken up. Say it when you feel it, not just to say it.
2007-01-26 11:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by UIhawk eye 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to be honest with him, if you really do love him then try to figure out a different way to tell him. Maybe a teddy bear or chocolate or whatever you know he likes and would appreciate it. I think it is normal to tell him that you love him alot, when I had a bf we would say that all the time and that was because we really did! Good luck!
2007-01-26 11:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by ~HockeyChik~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. I've been married for 8 years and we tell each other "I love you" quite often. I've never counted, but at least 10 times a day. We say it at the end of most of our telephone conversations (not all, but most of them) and whenever one of us is going to go somewhere without the other one, and when we go to bed at night. Depending on what goes on we can say it 10 times just there (LOL ;o). As long as you mean it, I don't think you can say it too much.
2007-01-26 11:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah, memories!
when i first met my ex, she was almost constantly needing reassurance that i loved her.
at first it felt akward but after a while it just rolls off the tongue
like good morning or hiya!
when it gets to that stage, maybe u's said it too much!
however, not being a hypocrite to my own heart, i STILL SAY IT TO HER, even tho we've lived separately for 11 years!!LOL!!!!
and u know, i still do.
i also say it to my kids b4 bed or on the phone.
i am haunted by the thought that the last words u speak to someone might be the last u EVER speak to them.
so a bye love, goodnight love or i love you is ok on that basis i suppose, if not essential.
it don't cost anything neway, do it??!!
2007-01-26 11:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL guys are insecure and need acceptance from women. They try to be our "knights in shining armor" and when they aren't 100% confident that they are that, they panic. My husband does the same thing and we've been together for 8 yrs. I think it's sad because it makes "i love you" into a habit or a reaction instead of actually meaning something.
Guys just need it...they are "delicate" like that. :)
2007-01-26 11:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Get a life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think this happens alot in relationships that are starting out..it kinda becomes a habbit or you just get used to saying it ....because it happend to me too but what we did was talk about it we said whats the point in saying so much that it kind of loses its meaning and its just like saying anything else to him..obviously he knows you love him and you know he loves you so theres no point in constantly saying it... say when you guys are just quiet on the phone or something like that...and when you catch him saying it alot remind him and be like " i thought we agreed we werent gonna say it as much"......just try to save the "i love you"s for when the time is right and and it will put meaning back in the word instead of it just losing all its value. because believe me it just feels som much better to hear when your completely not expecting it
2007-01-26 11:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him you love him is always a good way to make him feel good. However you dont need to say it all the time, your actions should also show him that you love him and that may be enough.
2007-01-26 11:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by mandapandaz80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is never needing to say it in words but to show it by the way you treat each other.
2007-01-26 11:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We say it to eachother about 50 times a day. As long as you mean it, it doesn't matter how many times you say it.
2007-01-26 11:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋